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And so it begins....
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And so it begins.... Just got into vacation argument number one with the ex husband. I haven't even left Gaylord yet..... "[secret_lade]! You still planning on leaving at around 8am tomorrow?" The Ex Husband always sounds angry and pissed off with me on the phone, I hate talking to him on the phone. "Yes, that's my plan. I'd like to...." "Well, [oldest ] said if he has to do a drug test won't be able to go until after ." "What do you mean a drug test?!? Why does he need do a drug test?" "It's part of his probation." "Why am I just now finding out about this? Does he even have permission go?" I was angry. Thank you, Douche Bag, for springing this on me at 8:30 the night before we're supposed leave. "He may not even have do one. He hasn't had do one in a long time. Are you going have room for my Yeti cooler in the back?" "I should, the back of my car is pretty big. [The Spawn] and I only have one suitcase. When you get here in the morning...." "I wanted you pick me up." For God's sake, why is he always interrupting me???? "What do you mean you want me pick you up? Why would I drive all the way out of town to pick you up so I can drive all the way back into town to get on the expressway?" "I want to leave my truck in the driveway so it looks like I'm home." Are you kidding me??? I'm doing this guy a HUGE favor. I'm trucking his ass all the way to South Carolina because he hasn't had a driver's license in 30 years. I've done everything I could do to make this trip as easy for myself and the Spawn as I can and he's already done nothing but make things difficult. "You know, you wouldn't do ANY of this for me, if the situation were reversed...." Cut off again. Damn him! "I should just fucking stay home!" Yes you should you miserable fucker!! "Jesus Christ, how about thinking about....." It doesn't take me long to realize how much happier I am when I'm not around the Ex Husband. For seventeen years my opinion meant nothing. Seventeen years of unfinished sentences and unshared thoughts. Seventeen years of someone else second guessing everything single thing I did. Seventeen years of, you're hair looks weird... why are you wearing that.... don't just hide in the corner like you always do when we get to my cousin's house. I disliked socializing with his derelict, half in the bag, pot smoking friends and would usually keep to myself. As much as I want to enjoy my upcoming vacation, I can already feel the wind being sucked out of it's sails. I just have to keep in mind, I'm doing this for my . It is so important him have his whole family at his graduation.... And they will be there. Wish me luck! |
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oooooooooh travelling with the "Ex"? You are a glutton for punishment!
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Safe travels..Stay focused on the mission mom!
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Shame you can't give him something to make him sleep for most of the time you'll be gone! Hope things go....well? OK? Hmmm...as well as can be expected under the circumstances. 
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Yikes, bet that you wish you could pack him and his cooler in a box and ship him next day air over there instead. Hmmm coulda rented a U-Haul trailer, threw a bone in th eback along with his cooler and a flashlight and said "Here boy, jump in, here's your ride !". Just kidding, simply some thoughts all though they do sound rude lol. ♫ Just givin the dog a bone ( background chorus : 'givin the dog a bone - givin the dog a bone' ) ~ ACDC ~Wee~ 
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I've never heard of a Yeti cooler, although your EX seems to be acting like an abominable snowman! Good luck.
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Back out right now!!!! It will not get any better!!!!!
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Sometimes you just have to bite the bullet and deal with the asshole when it comes to the kids. 
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Ugghhh…. Sorry for the that. I hope you find some peace and joy in your travels. Good luck.
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9/14/2021 6:30 am |
Ugghhh…. Sorry for the that. I hope you find some peace and joy in your travels. Good luck.
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If he hasn't had a driver's license in 30 years what does he need a truck for?
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you're gonna need the luck if he's already been a muthaf'k and you haven't even gotten on the road yet (SIGH) hang in there!
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It was pure hell. Not only was the climate getting to me but the ex and my son spent pretty much the entire time either drunk or getting drunk. I will NEVER do anything like this again.
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We got into quite a few arguments over the course of this trip and that is one point I made perfectly clear during one of them.
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Good luck! So...no road head? lol When he starts in, try telling him this joke: You: Knock, knock Him: Who's there? You: Control freak...okay now you say control freak who Enjoy your trip despite the ex and because of the spawn!
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Good luck! So...no road head? lol When he starts in, try telling him this joke: You: Knock, knock Him: Who's there? You: Control freak...okay now you say control freak who Enjoy your trip despite the ex and because of the spawn!
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you're gonna need the luck if he's already been a muthaf'k and you haven't even gotten on the road yet (SIGH) hang in there!
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If he hasn't had a driver's license in 30 years what does he need a truck for?
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Sometimes you just have to bite the bullet and deal with the asshole when it comes to the kids. Elevate me... 
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Back out right now!!!! It will not get any better!!!!!
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I've never heard of a Yeti cooler, although your EX seems to be acting like an abominable snowman! Good luck. 
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Yikes, bet that you wish you could pack him and his cooler in a box and ship him next day air over there instead. Hmmm coulda rented a U-Haul trailer, threw a bone in th eback along with his cooler and a flashlight and said "Here boy, jump in, here's your ride !". Just kidding, simply some thoughts all though they do sound rude lol. ♫ Just givin the dog a bone ( background chorus : 'givin the dog a bone - givin the dog a bone' ) ~ ACDC ~Wee~ 𝕋𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕜𝕤 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕓𝕖𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕪𝕠𝕦
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9/6/2021 6:11 am |
good luck, my friend.
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Shame you can't give him something to make him sleep for most of the time you'll be gone! Hope things go....well? OK? Hmmm...as well as can be expected under the circumstances. Pagan  Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!
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9/6/2021 5:23 am |
Safe travels..Stay focused on the mission mom!
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9/6/2021 3:57 am |
oooooooooh travelling with the "Ex"? You are a glutton for punishment!
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Wishing you luck!! I hope you're able to relax and enjoy your son's major accomplishment. Funny thing is I just got back from a vacation. First one since 2013 and I spent it with my ex! Long story short is we got along despite some major hiccups (delays, health issues and having to wear a damn mask thanks to anti vaxxers and kids) I can't wait to read about your trip! My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment
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Sounds like you have your work cut out for you there McLade......I hope it turns out better than the initial signs suggest it might! You're a diamond mum for doing this for your boy.......it's an example your kids will take with them forever!
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I certainly will wish you a lot of luck. Some Exs can be awful and some can still be a best friend. I have one of each. For some reason I can believe you are going to be thinking "I am doing this for my Son" a lot. Sending a big hug and good wishes for a safe and mostly sane trip.
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The sacrifices some parents make on behalf of their children is amazing. You're a wonderful mother and I'm so sorry your ex husband makes it so fricking difficult every step of your way. The silver lining is ... he is your EX husband, not your husband. At some point your children will have appreciation and a better understanding of your sacrifices.
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Luck
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The sacrifices some parents make on behalf of their children is amazing. You're a wonderful mother and I'm so sorry your ex husband makes it so fricking difficult every step of your way. The silver lining is ... he is your EX husband, not your husband. At some point your children will have appreciation and a better understanding of your sacrifices. Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!
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I certainly will wish you a lot of luck. Some Exs can be awful and some can still be a best friend. I have one of each. For some reason I can believe you are going to be thinking "I am doing this for my Son" a lot. Sending a big hug and good wishes for a safe and mostly sane trip. If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin." I always behave. Preferably not well. 
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Just got into vacation argument number one with the ex husband. I haven't even left Gaylord yet..... "[secret_lade]! You still planning on leaving at around 8am tomorrow?" The Ex Husband always sounds angry and pissed off with me on the phone, I hate talking to him on the phone. "Yes, that's my plan. I'd like to...." "Well, [oldest son] said if he has to do a drug test won't be able to go until after 10." "What do you mean a drug test?!? Why does he need to do a drug test?" "It's part of his probation." "Why am I just now finding out about this? Does he even have permission to go?" I was angry. Thank you, Douche Bag, for springing this on me at 8:30 the night before we're supposed to leave. "He may not even have to do one. He hasn't had to do one in a long time. Are you going to have room for my Yeti cooler in the back?" "I should, the back of my car is pretty big. [The Spawn] and I only have one suitcase. When you get here in the morning...." "I wanted you to pick me up." For God's sake, why is he always interrupting me???? "What do you mean you want me to pick you up? Why would I drive all the way out of town to pick you up so I can drive all the way back into town to get on the expressway?" "I want to leave my truck in the driveway so it looks like I'm home." Are you kidding me??? I'm doing this guy a HUGE favor. I'm trucking his ass all the way to South Carolina because he hasn't had a driver's license in 30 years. I've done everything I could do to make this trip as easy for myself and the Spawn as I can and he's already done nothing but make things difficult. "You know, you wouldn't do ANY of this for me, if the situation were reversed...." Cut off again. Damn him! "I should just fucking stay home!" Yes you should you miserable fucker!! "Jesus Christ, how about thinking about....." It doesn't take me long to realize how much happier I am when I'm not around the Ex Husband. For seventeen years my opinion meant nothing. Seventeen years of unfinished sentences and unshared thoughts. Seventeen years of someone else second guessing everything single thing I did. Seventeen years of, you're hair looks weird... why are you wearing that.... don't just hide in the corner like you always do when we get to my cousin's house. I disliked socializing with his derelict, half in the bag, pot smoking friends and would usually keep to myself. As much as I want to enjoy my upcoming vacation, I can already feel the wind being sucked out of it's sails. I just have to keep in mind, I'm doing this for my Son. It is so important to him to have his whole family at his graduation.... And they will be there. Wish me luck!
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