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BTW, not even remotely funny.
BTW, not even remotely funny. Have you ever unintentionally offended someone as a result of something you said? When you are having a conversation with someone online, it is so easily done. Especially if you are like me, socially awkward and kind of bumbling through life most of the time anyway. I say things I probably shouldn't say, I laugh at inappropriate moments, and wind up doing things that are just plain embarrassing. If it can be spilled down the front of my shirt, it's there! If it's within a foot radius and I can trip on it, you better BET I'm tripping! If I can make an awkward moment THAT much more awkward by laughing, you KNOW I'm going bust out laughing! The online element only adds another level how wrong something can go so easily. Having a bad day? You will take my comment as negative as you can! Feeling a little sensitive about something that you've kept secret but I've somehow managed pick that scab? I'm going be the scourge of the earth!! I point out a little humor in a photo I've been sent and suddenly I'm the most terrible person on earth!!! Forget it! The most unholy of blasphemes.... Someone chop OFF my fingers and never allow me to communicate via internet again! It's for my own good.... Maybe I'm destined to live out my days with Nose Hairs in one of those tiny fricking houses he keeps showing me on his phone. I'm not quite sure where he got the idea that I wanted to live in a tiny house.... |
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LOL. As inappropriate as it may be, LOL. Goober girl... I'm not laughing at you. I'm laughing with you. I'm that awkward guy. Ask anyone who knows me and they will tell you, "he's not right in his mind." However, those same people will help me with anything. 🥁 Bang your drum!
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LOL. As inappropriate as it may be, LOL. Goober girl... I'm not laughing at you. I'm laughing with you. I'm that awkward guy. Ask anyone who knows me and they will tell you, "he's not right in his mind." However, those same people will help me with anything. 🥁 Bang your drum!
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I have noticed.... Everyone is quick to jump on a bandwagon and publicly chastise you for the slightest misspeak.
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I do it way more often than I want to... People always want to read into things.
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I am sarcasticlese. My language use and understanding of alternative or obtuse connections gets me in lots of trouble with overly emotion based low self esteem folks who are on a different tone level .It is not the sender but the reciever who gives a message meaning ,often a wrong one due to self inflicted assumptions and unstated intentions in their own head from their unbalanced mind .I'm ok ,you i am not so sure lol. I learned not to let others irrational thinking effect me at all . my new covid t shirt idea was .... don't make me get the pillow.
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Yes, I do that all of the time but, here's the thing my grandfather told me, when I was very young, that if there was something that I needed to say to someone, that I might as well get it off my chest, because I might miss the opportunity so many times, it has been right on however, a few times, maybe, not so much stuff happens, let it go better to have lost at love than never to have loved at all hmm Flume - "Take A Chance" So you feel all your powers unfold Stretching your big wings over waters turning gold So tell your story, baby, don't give up Just let all it go out, the quiet wishing's not loud enough Will you be the one to take a chance? Have demands, spill your heart Will you be the one to take a stand Make the girls dance Spill your thoughts Will you be the one to take a chance? Have demands, spill your heart Will you be the one to take a stand Make the girls dance Spill your thoughts, will you? You could break up clouds with your fist in the air We're singing out loud as we march up the square He always goes to put you in your place And now you're chanting out loud so you can't be erased
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That's a good word... Sure! ❗👍🌹 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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I am sarcasticlese. My language use and understanding of alternative or obtuse connections gets me in lots of trouble with overly emotion based low self esteem folks who are on a different tone level .It is not the sender but the reciever who gives a message meaning ,often a wrong one due to self inflicted assumptions and unstated intentions in their own head from their unbalanced mind .I'm ok ,you i am not so sure lol. I learned not to let others irrational thinking effect me at all . my new covid t shirt idea was .... don't make me get the pillow.
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Yes, I do that all of the time but, here's the thing my grandfather told me, when I was very young, that if there was something that I needed to say to someone, that I might as well get it off my chest, because I might miss the opportunity so many times, it has been right on however, a few times, maybe, not so much stuff happens, let it go better to have lost at love than never to have loved at all hmm Flume - "Take A Chance" So you feel all your powers unfold Stretching your big wings over waters turning gold So tell your story, baby, don't give up Just let all it go out, the quiet wishing's not loud enough Will you be the one to take a chance? Have demands, spill your heart Will you be the one to take a stand Make the girls dance Spill your thoughts Will you be the one to take a chance? Have demands, spill your heart Will you be the one to take a stand Make the girls dance Spill your thoughts, will you? You could break up clouds with your fist in the air We're singing out loud as we march up the square He always goes to put you in your place And now you're chanting out loud so you can't be erased To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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Thank you... I'm glad to hear that. I'm kind of hardwired to be sarcastic and funny, it's hard for me not to be.
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I've offended people in text messages as well as online, it's hard to gauge emotion in print.
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4/25/2020 5:10 pm |
I've offended people in text messages as well as online, it's hard to gauge emotion in print.
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lol, I find that being on here while drinking some beers has a way of making me say things I normally would not! at the time I think it is making me braver, but in reality it makes me think I have been blocked by many on here lol
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misunderstandings, the things that keep life interesting...sometimes. Lol The predictive spelling or whatever they call it on these cell phones are a pain at times and can make even an innocent enough text into a mess. Sarcasm and humor are difficult to get through in print sometimes. Then trying to interpret the reply when you realize the message you sent could be read in ways you didn't intend... I was surprised how many selfies I see from women in bathrooms on dating sites. Especially when I've seen so many women bitching about mens pictures being taken in bathrooms public and private for both. I guess those mirrors are too tempting for some people.
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It would seem to be. He's married to that girl with her back to us. They sort of kept their distance... but? Can you see how messed up that might have been? It's her sister. So... I think... he THINKS he's built up an immunity? Yeah... Bathroom pics are.... less than good. 👍
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Lol....You're right about the guy selfies! I've seen lots of them, both naked and clothed, that are taken in a public restroom. If someone gets offended over something like that being pointed out, they possibly need to realize there are worse things that could happen to them.
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Why would anyone want to throw rotten fruit at you? We all make the occasional gaffe, and online comms deprive us of the other signals we unconsciously use to put someone's words or actions into context. Keep well and stay safe.
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lol, I find that being on here while drinking some beers has a way of making me say things I normally would not! at the time I think it is making me braver, but in reality it makes me think I have been blocked by many on here lol
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misunderstandings, the things that keep life interesting...sometimes. Lol The predictive spelling or whatever they call it on these cell phones are a pain at times and can make even an innocent enough text into a mess. Sarcasm and humor are difficult to get through in print sometimes. Then trying to interpret the reply when you realize the message you sent could be read in ways you didn't intend... I was surprised how many selfies I see from women in bathrooms on dating sites. Especially when I've seen so many women bitching about mens pictures being taken in bathrooms public and private for both. I guess those mirrors are too tempting for some people. Vive La Difference
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It would seem to be. He's married to that girl with her back to us. They sort of kept their distance... but? Can you see how messed up that might have been? It's her sister. So... I think... he THINKS he's built up an immunity? Yeah... Bathroom pics are.... less than good. 👍 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Lol....You're right about the guy selfies! I've seen lots of them, both naked and clothed, that are taken in a public restroom. If someone gets offended over something like that being pointed out, they possibly need to realize there are worse things that could happen to them.
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Most terrible person on Earth 🌎? I doubt it. Most terrible person resting in your head? THAT'S, your call. Nah... I'd stop with the self recriminations and just chill. Otherwise... you'll go crazy 🤪. Cheers 🍷 🍷 😎 ❗ It's all good. ❤️ That pic...? Everyone has a story to share. 🌹
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Nah... I wouldn't worry about it. Life is short. Here's where I was this afternoon. Life... is about measuring boundaries isn't it? Measure yours with diligence. It's all good. Here's what I was watching. Lurking in REAL life is FUN. 🍷🍷😎❗
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I find that I can get into trouble with text on the phone, sometimes I don't type it properly, sometimes the phone just says what it wants to, and sometimes I read it wrong and answer before I realize I read it wrong, my texting can go down hill in a heartbeat.. I guess it could be that way on some of the site provided chat pages.. We all got some of this to different levels, have a nice day, be safe..
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So now you leave us hanging on what you said. We all need to learn. Put me in the stocks and chuck some rotten produce at me, I say!
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