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When your sleepover date has no interest in "sleeping" with you....
When your sleepover date has no interest in "sleeping" with you.... My gut, and especially my anxiety, tell me this is a bad sign. Just stamp a giant L on my forehead cause I feel like a giant loser. Spent the entire night literally just.... sleeping. And, not even the good spooning type. |
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1/20/2020 7:07 am |
I would have loved to "sleep" with you....and I would have been in a perfect position to " spoon you"😁
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11/25/2019 4:42 am |
What a shame of a wasted sleep over.
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wow!!! you have too much patience secret_lade although, just because I have slept in the same bed with a woman, has not always culminated in sex, for various reasons and, none of them related to my desires when a woman says no, that is no, that may mean "never again" for me, because I'm a quick learner reminded me of this Hayley Kiyoko - "Sleepover" I don't wanna talk about it I don't wanna think about it I'm just feeling low, feeling low Even when you're next to me It's not the way I'm picturing I'm just feeling low, feeling low You wanna be friends forever I can think of something better, I'm just feeling low, feeling low Sleeping here right next to me, But will you ever mess with me? No. But at least I got you in my head, oh yeah At least I got you in my head, in my head, Sleepovers in my bed, oh yeah At least I got you in my head, in my head In my head In my head
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wow!!! you have too much patience secret_lade although, just because I have slept in the same bed with a woman, has not always culminated in sex, for various reasons and, none of them related to my desires when a woman says no, that is no, that may mean "never again" for me, because I'm a quick learner reminded me of this Hayley Kiyoko - "Sleepover" I don't wanna talk about it I don't wanna think about it I'm just feeling low, feeling low Even when you're next to me It's not the way I'm picturing I'm just feeling low, feeling low You wanna be friends forever I can think of something better, I'm just feeling low, feeling low Sleeping here right next to me, But will you ever mess with me? No. But at least I got you in my head, oh yeah At least I got you in my head, in my head, Sleepovers in my bed, oh yeah At least I got you in my head, in my head In my head In my head To leave private messages, please use my confidential mailbox at my blog: Good luck!!!
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What I would tell myself.....he is not attracted to me or he can’t perform. If he sees me as just a friend, he could of slept in the guest bedroom. If he was too tired or too drunk, the next morning would be a good time. Can’t beat morning sex. If he left without anything, then he is not into it. If a man is in my bed, he can go for it or hit the bricks.
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I love Ozark! Can't wait for the 3rd season! Got a major crush on Laura Linney!
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I'm not sure how I would have dealt with this... was it your first night together? That's quite an odd thing to do... If he had spooned you and cuddled you and went to sleep,, I would have slightly understood and maybe been a bit flattered or put out... I don't know
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I did that once. I didn't want to just sleep but, at the same time I didn't want to make a move, be rebuffed, and then not be invited back because I crossed the boundaries or could not be trusted. And that wasn't just a cross-town visit. And I did lose my place in the "line", never to be recalled! Sometimes the signs are hard to read for a guy.
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What I would tell myself.....he is not attracted to me or he can’t perform. If he sees me as just a friend, he could of slept in the guest bedroom. If he was too tired or too drunk, the next morning would be a good time. Can’t beat morning sex. If he left without anything, then he is not into it. If a man is in my bed, he can go for it or hit the bricks.
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11/24/2019 10:24 am |
I love Ozark! Can't wait for the 3rd season! Got a major crush on Laura Linney!
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I'm not sure how I would have dealt with this... was it your first night together? That's quite an odd thing to do... If he had spooned you and cuddled you and went to sleep,, I would have slightly understood and maybe been a bit flattered or put out... I don't know
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I did that once. I didn't want to just sleep but, at the same time I didn't want to make a move, be rebuffed, and then not be invited back because I crossed the boundaries or could not be trusted. And that wasn't just a cross-town visit. And I did lose my place in the "line", never to be recalled! Sometimes the signs are hard to read for a guy.
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I did that once. I didn't want to just sleep but, at the same time I didn't want to make a move, be rebuffed, and then not be invited back because I crossed the boundaries or could not be trusted. Sometimes the signs are hard to read for a guy.
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Maybe this was just a test.A test of the urgency how fast sex him! Or maybe it was the mixed message system.It wouldn't hurt to ask before you pour over all the negative possibilities or at least before you start seeing yourself in one of those freak show circus mirrors! Using more than all the road!
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I don't know if it's a sign of anything other than he may not have felt like it at that moment. Sometimes, I know I read too much into things, it's a habit I'm trying to curb. Of course, maybe he's just not that into you. I suggest a conversation. Just a suggestion, of course. Happy Sunday
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I don't know if it's a sign of anything other than he may not have felt like it at that moment. Sometimes, I know I read too much into things, it's a habit I'm trying to curb. Of course, maybe he's just not that into you. I suggest a conversation. Just a suggestion, of course. Happy Sunday This week's HNW: Pink/Hearts (Or Chocolate) is available on the other side.
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awwww sounds like you need real cuddles but least you got a good sleep
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11/24/2019 6:46 am |
awwww sounds like you need real cuddles but least you got a good sleep
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Yep...
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