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Blogs > secret_lade > Ramblings of the depraved.....

The Fix Up  

secret_lade 49F
14389 posts
10/30/2019 3:14 pm
The Fix Up

So.... I did it.

I swore I would never do it again, but I did. Now I'm nervous....

I have a work friend who is a loyal, caring guy. He wants so badly to find 'Mr. Right', but he keeps going back to the same loser guy who uses him for a few weeks then tells him he's 'suffocated' and blocks him from his life. We've talked about this many times, about the issues we face as single people and how hard it is to find the right people at the right time.

He was feeling down yesterday, and I couldn't help myself.

Long story short, I encouraged my work friend to venture outside his comfort zone and told him I had a friend on The Book that I thought he might like.

I'm always hesitant to do this kind of stuff.

What if it goes horribly?! Not only does it affect the work friend, it affects my real life friend. I've been feeling anxious all day.

My work friend did venture outside his comfort zone and did contact my Book friend and he really likes him.

I've got my fingers crossed it all goes well!

Cause, I'd hate to have the both of them upset with me for meddling in their lives.

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/1/2019 5:20 pm

 I really don't think they would be a friend if they
got angry at you for
what you're trying to do.

Besides it's always after they have a knock down
drag out fight after having
a relationship that you'd never
hear the end of it.
Using more than all the road!


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/31/2019 2:37 pm
    Quoting HermanG67:
    you did your part... introductions

    now it is up to THEM
Yes, very true! It is up to them now.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/31/2019 2:36 pm
    Quoting Yours_4A_knight:
    You are actually a really great friend, once there was a time when this was the normal way that people met, you know. I do wish that some of my friend would be willing to introduce me to women who are also single and might be interested.
It's kind of a nerve wracking thing... to set someone up. What if it doesn't go well? One or both of them could be potentially upset with you. I know for me, this is what prevents me from doing this kind of stuff. I can only hope in this case, it was kismet.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/31/2019 2:33 pm
    Quoting jolielaide:
    Matchmaker, Matchmaker,
    Make me a match,
    Find me a find,
    Catch me a catch
    Matchmaker, Matchmaker
    Look through your Book,
    And make me a perfect match
I absolutely would if I could!


HermanG67 56M
8464 posts
10/31/2019 11:40 am

 you did your part... introductions

now it is up to THEM


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/31/2019 3:37 am
    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Oooo... Matchmaker. Always a challenge. So? Whatcha gonna do, while you wait? 🤔
    Wanna play cards? 😶🎃🤡💀😊
You'll have to teach me, I don't know any card games. Lol


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/31/2019 3:36 am
    Quoting  :
I'll be sure to do so.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/31/2019 3:36 am

 If you lived closer, I'd hook you up in a minute! 😉


Yours_4A_knight 59M

10/30/2019 10:01 pm

 You are actually a really great friend, once there was a time when this was the normal way that people met, you know. I do wish that some of my friend would be willing to introduce me to women who are also single and might be interested.
Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
10/30/2019 9:25 pm

 Matchmaker, Matchmaker,
Make me a match,
Find me a find,
Catch me a catch
Matchmaker, Matchmaker
Look through your Book,
And make me a perfect match


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/30/2019 8:21 pm

 Oooo... Matchmaker. Always a challenge. So? Whatcha gonna do, while you wait? 🤔
Wanna play cards? 😶🎃🤡💀😊


mc_justmc 63M

10/30/2019 6:43 pm

 My turn! Hook me up!


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