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Blogs > secret_lade > Ramblings of the depraved.....

Is this the best version of myself?  

secret_lade 49F
14389 posts
10/14/2016 6:50 am
Is this the best version of myself?

Do you ever wonder what it is that someone sees in you?

I do all the time.

The title 'Heartless Psycho' didn't just happen on it's own....

I'm kind of mean, and spoiled, and like to get my way ALL the time. If I don't, I get pissy and pout.

What I don't understand is, why do men put up with this?

I know that isn't the best version of myself, but it kind of just.... Comes out. I can't help it, I've always been this way.

Are there characteristics in the opposite sex that you may be attracted to that might not be the best attributes of that person?

BTW - The overnight adventure was great. Watched American Horror Story, Exorcist, had some fantastic after shower sex, and he did my dishes, washed a load of my laundry, and cooked me spaghetti. Perfect!

mc_justmc 63M

10/14/2016 4:49 pm

 I wish I could find a woman that would clean my kitchen, wash my clothes, And put up with my shit. So, are you gonna marry him?


secret_lade replies on 10/14/2016 7:27 pm:
Marriage?? Bite your tongue! I like my life just the way it is.

scott6250 61M

10/14/2016 2:04 pm

 I like a lady that has a mind of her own and has a sense of adventure.
"Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250


secret_lade replies on 10/14/2016 7:21 pm:
Those are excellent characteristics in a person. I look for those qualities in a guy, as well.

PyschoLoco 61M
1550 posts
10/14/2016 10:22 am

 No. ...no I'm attracted to independent women that have their own shit going on. Sorry for giving the wrong impression, sometimes I use extremes to express things, gets me in trouble, especially in text or email
Standards are people too.....kinda


secret_lade replies on 10/14/2016 7:20 pm:
Text and email... I've gotten myself in trouble with them too. LOL

PyschoLoco 61M
1550 posts
10/14/2016 8:37 am

 One attractive quality psychos have, we're not boring I can tell from your posts that you're not totally heartless, you see and feel things. Guess the ole cliche about if you can't accept me at my worst, you dont deserve me at my best applies .... maybe . He sounds like a keeper, I never wonder what people see in me, I only wonder when women go from being cling on to can't stand the sight of me But I'm kinda arrogant if you haven't picked up on that yet
Standards are people too.....kinda


secret_lade replies on 10/14/2016 9:22 am:
No, I'm not TOTALLY heartless.... I just don't cry during sappy movies and sometimes have a hard time feeling empathy for people when they fuck up their lives. (It is actually this particular man-friend who calls me Heartless Psycho.) I've known him for several years, so he's kind of seen me at my best and my worst.

I think I would be ecstatic to finally rid myself of a cling-on... Ugh! Can't stand them. But, hey, I get the feeling that could be the attribute you like??

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