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Viagra or Not .... that is the question?
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why not if it helps
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I've encountered a few who need to use it, but never anyone who has. In theory, I'd support it, but until I know.. I don't know. Dyslexics are teople poo! Dyslexics of the world untie.
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I understand your grievances 'aflower2c' and I certainly cannot state that I have not had issues in the past, or even in recent times, where longevity has irked somewhat. But I disagree with the sentiment (generalisation) re men having being purely committed for their own self interest. As I am fully aware of the difference in intensity between simultaneous climax compared to any other (including oral) It is certainly my ambition to achieve the former rather than the latter - and seeing as this can only be accomplished by accommodating a woman both physically and mentally, can this be viewed as self interest?. There is another perspective to consider as to why men seem to not last long and that is the duration in time when measuring sexual intercourse starts with Anticipation and not purely physical interaction. This is due to the brain producing certain chemicals prior to intercourse and 'gets-the-ball-rolling' so to speak. Please cast your mind back to a time when you were feeling horny and caught your partner unawares when you pretty much pounced on them and demanded sex - Did you not climax well before him? or maybe even more than once?. With the above in mind aflower2c I assume that most men when they are awaiting the pleasure of your company (judging by your profile) are already say 'half cocked'  and I could leave it by saying that; because you have an amazing figure/presence; you only have yourself to blame for the lack of longevity received at times {=} - but I will not because it would not be considerate or gentlemanly.I do know of a way in which women/men can counter (maybe the wrong word) the natural/instinctive male neural responses and has helped myself in the past and that it is as follows: Before you meet-up, stipulate that you will be engaging in Non-Contact mutual masturbation followed by a massage prior to any sex. The length of time massaging will differ from person-to-person however (if anything like me) he will be erect again by the time he is moving around the inner thigh area as long as he is not rushing. The use of a vibrating butt-plug during massage and left in place during sex works wonders as well. Whether or not music is playing in the background is again dependant on the individuals concerned - personally it helps staying in the mood a great deal. With regards to using Viagra: if the woman stresses that she is intent (or longing etc.) to be fucked repeatedly and is not into or wanting sensual play, then I am all for it. However I 'Personally' struggle to get the same emotional connection as compared to without - But I understand that this is more to do with my psychological connection with drug-enhanced sex (designer ecstasy/cocaine) during my early twenties more than the pills themselves (or so a psychologist has stated). Your continued comments and views are always welcome ladies and gentleman. Bye for now and take care, Ian X
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