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WTF? Where to begin?  

Red_Elf 51F
578 posts
6/1/2017 1:52 am
WTF? Where to begin?


Paragraphing & punctuation added for sanity's sake:

Dick is abundant and low value.

That's one way of looking at it.

Or you can look at it like this... no matter how many dicks there are, there is an equal amount of pussy. The thing is men have more to offer to a woman than just a dick.

Women, on the other hand, are pretty much worthless without a pussy.


Okay, so the point of the Dickinomicks original article, and my post is to point out that you can't be a complete knuckle dragger or pompous ass and get the kind of attention that women like me are willing to give a suitable suiter.

Your fragile masculinity was triggered, and, as a result, you went the pompous ass route, completely missing the entire point...and illustrating the EXACT SAME PROBLEM that is being called out to begin with.


We are utilitarian and we make things and hunt to feed you and build homes to keep you warm and dry. We work hard so you have easier lives which just made you more bored and more needy of distractions like shopping and sex which you couldn't do either very well if it wasn't for men.

You work hard so I can have an easier life? Have you met my emotionally abusive and psychotic ex, who started out sane and reasonably affable...but over the course of 20 years became more and more hostile and abusive? I ran away to live in Hollywood, of all places, FROM San Diego to escape his stalkerish harassment. He was making my life hell. I don't know what the hell you are talking about.

And why on earth do you think I care to go shopping at all?

I fucking hate it. Shop is a four letter word, so is mall. I want as little to do with either one as humanly possible.

I work. I pay my bills. I'm a single mom and do it proudly. You know why? Because living with a crappy male who was capable of changing tires and repairing cars and a whiz at computers was destroying my sanity and my functionality as a human.

I'm way the fuck better off without that bullshit.


Women had to have their parents save up a dowry just to make her worthwhile to some man to take the burden of her ass off the parents and unless she had skills like cooking and cleaning and a big dowry her value was below zero because she needed to be fed and clothed and if she got sick then what?

Wait...because women were treated like property and oppressed , limited in what work they were allowed to do, because of that, you think she was worthless? Dude! MALE OPPRESSION was the fucking problem--not the women. You notice as women become less oppressed, they are less likely to depend financially on a man? Cause and effect, dude. Cause and effect.

There is nothing less valuable than a vagina except for having babies and we don't even need one to grow a baby anymore. That's why men are not marrying women as much as they used to. No one wants the constant consumption of consumer goods using the man's money that women do without any regards to the man's wants and needs.

I don't even fucking want to get married. Why the hell would I want that? Marriage nearly always is detrimental to women. Do your research.

If you only are dealing with women who just want to spend your money, maybe you are dealing with the wrong women. I spend my own damned money, K?


You said it yourself. Its not what we want its what you want. Who made you queen of the ball?

Are you fucking telling me that I should get on a site like this with the intention of only pleasing men? I spent 20+ years trying to make a man happy. It doesn't fucking work. I'm here to meet my own needs. Why the hell else would anyone come here? If men do the same thing, why do you think a woman wouldn't?

AND if you have decent reading comprehension, you would realize that what I want is a mutual exchange of needs...and know that unless a man comes out of the gate establishing he is capable of doing so, he really isn't worth my time and effort.

After spending so many years dealing with a man incapable of doing so, seems like a rather savvy way to ensure more success in the future.


Don't you know the value of pussy drops rapidly after women turn 30 and even faster if they are moms and unattractive to begin with? Its the same as buying a used car. The new ones cost a lot until you drive it even 10 miles and the value falls in thousands.

Tell that to the men filling my inbox, dude. I'm not forcing them to do that. The older I get, the more attention I get. It's actually the inverse of what you claim here. Have to wonder how you manage to be so entirely incorrect.

Men, on the other hand, are still valued commodities as they get older. We make more money, get better looking, become more intelligent (hopefully) and we can still perform our sexual duties as the male of the species inseminating fertile pussy.

What a man works hard for a woman who just takes and wants more. She wants to be given cash and prizes because she has a pussy.


What fucking century are you in? I pay my own fucking bills and buy my own shit. I work, become more intelligent, because I am constantly learning, and enjoy sex for it's best contemporary purpose--pleasure...because making babies isn't really all that important considering the population on planet earth.

Well 20 years ago 30 years ago that worked. But men are going their own way and not falling for the gynocentric bullshit anymore and women are feeling the pinch and they all are wondering where all the good men are.

I'm hardly feeling the pinch, nor am I wondering "where all the good men are." I just want the ones lacking class, or just generally the bad ones, to leave me the hell alone, which is why I wrote that post to begin with. I don't need the bullshit. I find the diamonds in the rough and leave that up so that others might realize what they are up against--because way the fuck too many are entirely clueless.

Well, we're here. We're just not playing your game anymore. There are still plenty of willing White Knight men around who will become a servant but they aren't men who do manly things. They're the guys wearing the big beards and flannels trying to look like a real man who knows how to fix things and chop wood and start a fire, when they couldn't put air in the tires of their own car or know how a hammer is used, but they could cry on your shoulder and make you and your girlfriends tea and do<b> yoga </font></b>with you.

I don't play games. I am the real, authentic deal and everyone knows what they have when they have me, so I really have no idea what you are talking about. The big beard wood chopping men starting fires usually don't spend a lot of time doing<b> yoga </font></b>as far as I know...not that I'd know...because I don't do<b> yoga...</font></b>and I wouldn't be caught dead in a<b> yoga </font></b>studio, and most of my friends are men, not women.

So, there is your low value cocks. Who is going to be satisfied with that for the rest of your female life?

Wait...where are they? I'm lost. Those White Knight guys? Is that what you mean? I can start my own fires, chop my own wood, put air in my own tires, and use a hammer. Hell, I not only use power tools, I've got experience with industrial power tools.

Who "needs" a man when any woman who is taught to do so, as needed, can do all of this shit herself? These tasks don't require a large amount of testosterone, or a dick, to accomplish.

Like I said, this post is about getting men to wake up to the fact that if they don't class it up, they won't EVER get the reception they are looking for. It's not just me who won't give them the time of day--it's most women. If you don't believe me, take a look around and find out how many men have problems getting a viable female response to them, both online and in person.


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japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
6/1/2017 7:45 am

seriously...WTF??? exactly your thought...

i really DON'T NEED A MEN to feed me and shelter me...i earn my own money by working, and take care of my bills fine...

i know how to fix things, can change oil and tires, and cut trees. on top of that, love cooking and cleaning...but i hate malls...

i think this man must be daydreaming big time...he is not getting my cunt for sure...


Red_Elf replies on 6/1/2017 4:28 pm:
This isn't the first fragile male to get this post all wrong. Fortunately, there have been relatively few who contact me in this manner. Still...just...what...the...fuck?

TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
6/1/2017 8:05 am

Heh... sounds like you met the resident heathen.

unless a man comes out of the gate establishing he is capable of doing so (a mutual exchange of needs - honestly), he really isn't worth my time and effort.

^^^ THIS

What really chaps me is the amount of women who don't understand this. Who are willing to lower and lower and lower themselves just to temporarily meet someone else's need.


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
6/1/2017 8:06 am

They get better looking and can perform sexually with age???? In what universe?
Who is that dreamboat?


Red_Elf replies on 6/1/2017 4:35 pm:
A bit out of touch with reality on that one, huh? For one thing, attractiveness becomes an anomaly by 40.

Men's maturity is more tolerable after 40...but the oomph in the bedroom goes downhill pretty quickly after 45.

tickles4us 62M
7262 posts
6/1/2017 9:26 am

I'd like to say he is a dying breed of ignorant fool but it seems ignorance is a state of mind that one has to be learned out of and many aren't doing their studies.

Vive La Difference


Red_Elf replies on 6/1/2017 4:36 pm:
"...and many aren't doing their studies." --beautifully stated

Red_Elf 51F
617 posts
6/1/2017 4:32 pm

    Quoting TicklePlease:
    Heh... sounds like you met the resident heathen.

    unless a man comes out of the gate establishing he is capable of doing so (a mutual exchange of needs - honestly), he really isn't worth my time and effort.

    ^^^ THIS

    What really chaps me is the amount of women who don't understand this. Who are willing to lower and lower and lower themselves just to temporarily meet someone else's need.
Yeah, fuck that noise. I've had enough men my ageish who delight in treating me amazingly well. Compatibility is sometimes off, so it doesn't work out in a major way, but it's enough for me to know I can get what I want if I establish that and refuse to accept anything less.

I mean, I'm not stupid. I recognize there is such a thing as expecting too much, so my expectations ARE reasonable, but reasonable doesn't mean accepting failure to meet my relationship requirements, either.

MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .

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ProfPlayful 53M
3861 posts
6/1/2017 8:53 pm

I cannot believe that this asinine strategy works for that imbecile. It must be very lonesome riding in the back seat on the short bus.

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Red_Elf replies on 6/1/2017 11:37 pm:
Thing is, the guy is relatively young looking for his age and living in Beverly Hills. I'm sure he has enough monetary capital to get enough attention...even if it's materialistic in nature, rather than personal.

pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
6/2/2017 9:07 am

I absolutely love this post!! It's anger and rationality show in glowing colours.
THANK YOU

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Red_Elf replies on 6/2/2017 4:53 pm:
Men are so emotional...


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