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Blogs > Red_Elf > Rewriting My Life

So, You All Were Right...and He Finally Admitted It  

Red_Elf 51F
578 posts
5/11/2017 8:00 pm
So, You All Were Right...and He Finally Admitted It

So, yes, you all were right--he is not in the right place for a relationship with me, although he also hates letting go of it. As I was already aware of, he really is very much into me.

So, we plan to continue to talk, but I will be dating while he figures out how to recover from where he's at right now.

So...the very first date, I got in the car, and had the impulse to kiss him...which I didn't do, because I am a sane human being and it was not a normal response.

We figure out where we are going to eat (we had some ideas beforehand, but also wanted to check to see if something was back in action, which, the answer was, not quite). We weren't sitting there more than 10 minutes before he said he'd been wanting to kiss me since I got in the car and asked if he could kiss me then...so we did.

Once we had eaten and gone outside, he wanted to make out with me about every 10 feet back to the car...and I most certainly went for it.

And then he went down on me in the back of the car until he was able to make me orgasm.

And that was our first date.

The second date, he had me over and he had<b> candles </font></b>lit, lighting perfect, and music on. He's an artist of about every aspect--musician, decorating, filmmaker, etc...so even though his building is pretty low end LA, the area he controls was spectacular.

And he went down on me immediately, and we spent about 5 hours fucking...until I fell asleep for a bit and then went home.

And every time I've been over since has been more of the same...thoughtful, attention to detail, perfect sexual match up.

So, yes, that was a bit hard to let go. He's sweet, and looks after everyone around him, but right now he really needs to take some time to take care of himself until he is in better condition...and I really needed him to tell me that. I had tried to get him to admit it to me before that, but he really didn't want to let go. He finally admitted to himself and to me that he isn't being fair, though, so it was far easier for us both to let go amicably.

Thankfully, before I became full on attached...because I would have. He was way too much of what I like for me not to have...which was my point when I first talked to him about his availability.

So, all is well that ends well. He will work on himself. I will no longer concern myself with when I will see him again, and I can feel solid and ready to find someone else to bang!
MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .

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ProfPlayful 53M
3861 posts
5/11/2017 8:32 pm

 Thank you for sharing your strength with us. That was a beautiful way to tell a story that could have been fraught for anyone else.

Your readers are eager to see your adventures.
My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.


Red_Elf replies on 5/11/2017 8:53 pm:
Ha! Who say it wasn't fraught? The end was not. The struggle in the weeks leading up to it? Definitely was fraught. I was becoming more and more unhappy about the way things were...but I've learned not to be an ass when I'm upset, so it ended well. I hate conflict, he hates conflict, and when people hate conflict they deal in one of two ways...either they get some conflict management skills or they avoid conflict. We both did the former, which is yet another one of the things I really liked about him from the very start.

TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
5/12/2017 7:53 am

 Dang... that was one of the most adult situations handled in an adult way that I've read about here! Gives me hope girl! I wish more people could analyze their own feelings the way you both did yours when conflict came up. Bravo!


Red_Elf 51F
617 posts
5/20/2017 10:06 am
    Quoting TicklePlease:
    Dang... that was one of the most adult situations handled in an adult way that I've read about here! Gives me hope girl! I wish more people could analyze their own feelings the way you both did yours when conflict came up. Bravo!
Ha! I'm motivated. I really don't Ike excessive drama. There is enough drama in just the experience of our daily existence. Just having any feelings at all is dramatic enough for me. I don't need to add to it.

It helps we both are similar in this regard. He expects anger from me when I don't like something. He's been surprised by what he's gotten instead.
MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .

Trying to get a bigger audience? Here's my .02 Content What Content 8 Things To Consider Towards Better Content {=}


caribeanstudslut 49M/52F
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23 posts
6/17/2017 8:13 am

 wow impressive


Red_Elf replies on 6/17/2017 4:27 pm:
Ha! I'm trying to figure out what you find impressive...hot sex, processing things, my writing style, or the fact that I use so many words to begin with!

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