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Blogs > Red_Elf > Rewriting My Life

Wait...I grew a backbone?  

Red_Elf 51F
578 posts
4/10/2016 7:43 pm
Wait...I grew a backbone?

So, at some point this week I grew a backbone. I'm actually super proud of it.

Ok, I know I have a lot of attitude and most people would be shocked to hear me say I didn't think I had one, but in my intimate relationships I've tended towards being a pleaser and in my marriage, it turned into me being walked all over...which is also why I'm so vocal about women's issues--we are vulnerable when it comes to all kinds of things and that isn't going to change until we take back our power.

So I did. I changed. I changed and I'm taking back my power. I'm done being bullied and I'm bringing the asshole to court.
MOST of the time I'm well behaved...but if you weren't, and, enjoyed having your ass handed to you, visit my blog and become a subscriber. There you can read all about how I am actively authoring, and rewriting, my life .

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Do_u_wanna_kiss 58F
223 posts
4/10/2016 7:48 pm

 Good for you!


AmorphousAmor 64M
Ask me for a photo
3574 posts
4/10/2016 8:15 pm

 better to have balance in a relationship...


ProfPlayful 53M
3861 posts
4/11/2016 3:42 pm

 I'm proud of you, Red_Elf.

Please keep being vocal about women's issues. And hold onto that power with both hands. Remember, you are amazing!
My featured post this week: Pulling Fantasy Sex Out of My Ass.


This_dude_onAFF 56M
81 posts
4/11/2016 6:37 pm

 YAY!

That's an issue I've been dealing with, too (being a human doormat), but yeah, everything's set up for women, and other's who aren't privileged white males, to be marginalized.

Hope you're celebrating.


discreteSteve62 50M
2169 posts
5/11/2016 1:42 am

 That reminds me that I need to follow up on some legal action too.

Good job getting tough.


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