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Some Random Thoughts (maybe advice?)  

AnthemgalO52 55F
98 posts
2/22/2016 8:16 pm
Some Random Thoughts (maybe advice?)


Pictures: What is it with penis pictures? I get a half dozen messages from men every day that have multiple photos of their penis. I’m not joking... they are all close-ups of a penis! Really? If there are other women reading this, I’d really appreciate your comments; is this all you want to see? You see, the thing is, if you were to do a search (and I guess I’m recommending this to you guys with only penis pics), and pretend for just a few minutes that you are a woman, and search for “very long” and “very thick” penis’, you will see pretty fast that I’m not likely to be blown away by your penis.

Now if you’re one of the guys with truly impressive manhoods, then go ahead, advertise. I’m sure there are plenty of cucks out there that will want to watch their woman take that monster; but then, by now, if you have one of those monsters you’d already know this. But really? The rest of you? You might want to think about impressing me with other attributes. Are you in top shape? A great six-pack can be pretty hard to walk away from. Are you really intelligent? I don’t know many women who are looking for a dumb man. Are you witty? Creative? Adventurous? I’ve had some great sex, which engaged my mind (and brought my body right along with it), with men who fit all of these other categories and I walked away wanting more- sometimes a lot more!

Look at your profile; what pictures are you showing? All cocks? Think about adding a few which show all of you, either how you look now or doing something that you are passionate about. I guarantee you, you’d have a far better chance of getting my attention. You might be surprised that the things you are passionate about might just be something I’ve always wanted to try. Oh! BTW- it is okay if you add ONE picture of your cock.

One other thought on pictures: I hate the profile that has only one picture (1000 times better than the ones with none). If you are under the age of 50, then you’ve grown up in the age of computers, smart phones and digital<b> photography. </font></b>Give it a shot; you can do better than one picture. Again if you have no picture then my first thought is: What are you trying to hide? A “no-picture” profile is always approached with a great deal of caution. If you’re not, or don’t plan to be, a politician then consider adding a few (faceless is OK) pictures.

Oh yes! One more thought: If you show only one picture of your 6-pack and nothing else, then I think you probably copied and pasted it into your profile from a fitness advertisement. Try showing a little more, please?

Profiles: This is frustrating: I get a message with a picture of what appears to be a fit, and possibly handsome man. First thing I do is go to the profile to learn more and what do I get? A profile that I don’t even have to scroll down to read! Really? You are here on Polyamory Date looking to have sex (one of life’s most primal and intimate acts) and you can’t be bothered to fill out your profile? Is all of the information bad? Did you have trouble understanding the questions? Maybe you are getting so many contacts that you’ve decided to cut down on the number of women reaching out to you?

Other women who read this, please chime in here and let me know if I’m wrong, but we (women) get a lot of contacts every day, and we all know that some of them are complete fakes; really guys, this can be scary. We make a decision each time we respond to a contact and put our faith in our intuition. Unless like the women I know on Polyamory Date, you are getting a couple of hundred contacts per day, you can help us make intelligent decisions by filling out your profile. If nothing else, say who you are and what you want. I mean, if you don’t know, then who the hell does? If you can’t articulate your wants and desires, then try researching it and see what others are writing; after all they are your competition.

porterpiper1 57F
3755 posts
2/22/2016 8:57 pm

Thank you thank you, I know where you coming from, I have blog about this too and other women have too, But they do not get it, and have the nerve to get upset because we won't respond to their message? really? they barely read your profile, they say they do but I know they don't , because if they read mine they would have never message me if they are married, living with someone or in a relationship, and I should be a doctor from the amount of penis I have seen, They don't understand it does get boring looking at just penis, some men do get it , thank goodness we have some that think with their brain not their penis. I have gotten to the point that I come on here just to read blogs and comment on blogs.


moltenpassion 50M
456 posts
2/22/2016 9:53 pm

Oh now, don't be so upset Guys do the same thing to me. I've had women lie and flake and waste my time too as far as that goes. They don't send pussy pics out of the blue though, lol. Oh, and I do get compliments from women on the penis pics, so, might not be your cup of tea but some women do like it! That being said, yes, JUST cock shots is kind of boring ... unless they are creative. What do you think of mine (I add captions!)?


Tatt00edmaster 62M  
5 posts
2/23/2016 4:54 am

BRAVO BRAVO....how about the profiles that say "if you don't have pictures I will not reply and delete your e-mail" and they have NONE or a picture of their foot


chaso5 65M

7/20/2016 4:58 pm

Excellent advice & you would think people would make an effort but those who will already do & the others - well!


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