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Choices 2 Why is it so hard for married men to understand that there are women out there that are absolutely not interested in them. I will not ever cross that line. It is just something that I cannot do. Recently in the chats I have been approached by a couple different married men and when I politely explain that I am not interested, I have gotten everything from why not, to I can change your mind. I just do not get the entitlism that men have that make them think when a woman says NO it means keep pushing because you will eventually get your own way. Then, when the woman stands her ground and still says NO they get pissed and want to know why I am even here. My reasons for being on this site are of no concern of yours, my life is my life. In that consideration, my choice to not be involved with a married man is something that I cannot do. It is a personal choice that I have made and it would just be nice if married men could respect that from me. |
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Hi, I am a married man. I don't know why other guys are like that. Had you said that to me, I would have said ty and have a beautiful day.
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You are not alone in the NO department. My opening profile statement clearly say I am not interested if you are attached in any way ( wife, GF etc). I do not think it gets any plainer than that. Your next option is to block them. They are not going to stop being on here (Virtual Symposium Group) use Virtual Symposium Group
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There are a couple of reasons, neither of them particularly good. First, they think that their situation is different, that somehow they are different or special or unique. Yeah, I know they're not but try telling them that. Next, there are more than a few women who will change their mind if (a)they are horny and/or (b) they think the man is hot. The men learn bad behavior from other women's wishy washiness. I forgot, there's one more. This site is a database that actually has a number of "doors" for lack of a better term. Some of the sites that lead here are specifically for people who are cheating. some of them are likely assuming that being with an attached man is a non-issue for any woman on this site.
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Let's face it, some men can't handle any kind of rejection, regardless of the reason.
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Married 'men' don't respect their own wives and marriage, so I guess we shouldn't really be that surprised that they don't respect the wishes of a perfect stranger. "I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..."
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not interested and no means no is easy to understand
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