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Jadzia11 55F
145 posts
2/26/2016 6:52 pm
Converations

I recently had a conversation with a man and things did not go well. He was asking me a lot of questions almost rapid fire and I was getting a little frustrated with him. The questions were the typical, what are you looking for, what do you like.

My question is why do we feel the need to dissect sex? Yes this is a sex site and we are here looking to hook up, but do we need to pull it apart before we decide if that person is the right one for us?

Admittedly some of these questions are need to find out compatibility, but whatever happened to learning about a person, in person? In a world of electronics, we have forgotten what its like to learn about someone in the real world.

The other thing about the conversation I am referencing, is that he is not someone I am ever going to meet in all likelihood. He lives way to far away and there was not any real attraction on my part. I cannot speak for him in that case and would not presume to.

I feel I had made this clear to him, but he just kept up the questions on what was my favorite position, what would I do with him if he was there with me? These are not questions I felt like answering, I believe I even asked what was the point because we were not going to meet.

I am not against asking and answering questions to get to know someone, but I guess I am a bit old fashion in that I want to know some basics to see if there is compatibility. After that I feel that until I meet someone in person, I will not know for sure what will happen when we get together.

We could meet and decide that we are not attracted to each other, have some great conversation but sex is just not going to be part of it. But then again, we could have some great sex, you never know.

So in conversations, I would like to know what you are looking for and what you are interested in, but I will never ask what you think might happen if we meet. Because until we actually meet in person (if we do) neither of us really know what is going to happen.

Maize32 55M
1391 posts
2/26/2016 7:13 pm

 Perhaps these type of questions were asked because he wanted to keep the conversation going and didn't know what else to ask. As such, he just kept asking questions, probably with no rhyme or reason except to keep you conversing with him. Just a thought...


Jadzia11 55F
12 posts
2/26/2016 8:05 pm

 This may be true, but the questions were so rapid fire, he was not even waiting for an answer before asking the next one.


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