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Choices  

Jadzia11 55F
145 posts
1/24/2016 3:34 pm
Choices


I feel on this site women have many more options than men do. However when we make a choice it would be nice if others would respect that. You do not have to like it, but please do not attempt to tell me I am wrong. My choices are just that MY choices not yours.

There have been 2 incidents within the last month on this site that have irritated me beyond belief with people who 'question' my choices.

The first was in the chat/IM. When I told the man talking to me that I was not interested in him because he is married (a line I will not cross) he got pushy and tried telling me that he is the man for me and I should basically shut up and listen.

THAT was NOT going to happen!!!

I am a grown ass woman and very independent. No man tells me what I should do unless I give you that control and I certainly did not in that chat.

He got blocked!

The second incident was a rather rude email to start with and I told the guy if that he how he treats women in general in real life, it is not any wonder he does not have a woman in his life.

He has since proceeded to send rude emails to me and I have told him repeatedly that he is not an option in my world and politely asked him to stop talking to me. He has not and today has found himself blocked as well.

I respect everyone else's choices, please respect mine. Again you do not have to like them, but you do not know me well enough to judge them. Have some common decency.

These are my Choices.....

LadyTeddieBear 66F  
1131 posts
1/24/2016 3:56 pm

I have to say I have the same problem with some of the men from here. I have blocked alots of them. Make sure you got and block everything I didnt the first few times and they were still emailing me and looking at my profile

LadyTeddieBear


bbwlover82486 37M
14 posts
3/4/2016 8:43 pm

Well said


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