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Do'oh...It Was Just A Well Wish, Don't Be So Overly Sensitive Man!!!  

Shellyanna77 42F
262 posts
10/23/2016 8:02 pm
Do'oh...It Was Just A Well Wish, Don't Be So Overly Sensitive Man!!!

Once in a blue moon, I will broadcast on Polyamory Date...Just to tease, no strip naked or actions on show etc. So if that is not your stuff, go see other cam As usual, being a female here...I will get many viewers. Some are funny & nice, some are totally stupid idiot (as usual, the ones that think with the dickhead )

I did reply to some private chat where I will always asked for a face photo upfront to see if I am attract to their looks. If the looks is easy in my eyes, definitely will continue for further. If not, I will tell them upfront too. This is to save time of both party. Ain't it?

Same as what happened this wee morning hours today. I told a guy I chat in private that I am not attracted to him and I said "I wish you all the best". And guessed what, he became mad at me on chat because of my wish!!! Not because I said NO to him He told me I shouldn't wish that

It was just a well wish, what's wrong with that?! I told him that and added "You are overly sensitive"

Is it wrong to give a well wish especially after the lady said NO to a guy?


Shellyanna77 42F

11/21/2016 11:06 pm

    Quoting baddaddy1956:
    I would rather have you be courteous instead of telling me or anybody else they are not good looking and then blow them off.
I am not saying that they are not good looking, my eyes told my brain that he is not the one in the preferences list


baddaddy1956 67M

10/28/2016 9:43 am

I would rather have you be courteous instead of telling me or anybody else they are not good looking and then blow them off.


Shellyanna77 42F

10/25/2016 10:01 pm

    Quoting  :

Sure, pretty nice blog you have I am less sweet sometimes in here & real life too but if only someone give me reasons to do so


Shellyanna77 42F

10/24/2016 9:32 pm

    Quoting  :

Some does, some don't...same to both gender I think. But getting berserk on a well wish, really confused me. Guessed that was what he interpreted that wish


Shellyanna77 42F

10/24/2016 9:29 pm

    Quoting proteus_2a:
    Some rare gems here my lady, indeed !

    Cheers - P
Actually I did find some rare gems in here


Shellyanna77 42F

10/24/2016 9:28 pm

    Quoting  :

Yes, I know. Words did spread around no matter how discrete we want it to be. You sounds like a very sweet talker guy


Shellyanna77 42F

10/24/2016 9:26 pm

    Quoting dayzeeme:
    wow, he has issues. I often wish them luck finding what they are looking for, or happy fishing on the fish place.
Yeah, he has issues with rejections


Shellyanna77 42F

10/24/2016 9:26 pm

    Quoting iwalkstilts:
    It's good that you are courteous and reply. I'd rather get a reply of "no" than no reply at all.

    Wishing him well is even more courteous and nice.
Yes, better to get a "no" reply than quietness. I tried to reply to most everyone except when am in the do'oh mode or when the guy can read my profile & know he is not in my preferences list, yet still trying their luck


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
10/24/2016 2:03 am

Some rare gems here my lady, indeed !

Cheers - P


dayzeeme 55F
7024 posts
10/23/2016 11:37 pm

wow, he has issues. I often wish them luck finding what they are looking for, or happy fishing on the fish place.


iwalkstilts 49M
2869 posts
10/23/2016 10:59 pm

It's good that you are courteous and reply. I'd rather get a reply of "no" than no reply at all.

Wishing him well is even more courteous and nice.


Shellyanna77 42F

10/23/2016 10:04 pm

    Quoting Cumup9009:
    I prefer to answer even if it is with a "no" and i always tell them i wish them the best luck in finding what they're looking for. I have had them get offended. But i think everyone deserves a response. My husband would rather ignore them. I think its a male thing.
My 'male' part will ignore guys who are paid members that is not in my preferences list at all (means they can read profile but don't bother to read OR do not know how to read my simple english...owhh my english!!!) Many guys cannot handle rejection very well. Not only here, in other dating apps also.

They are worth to be ignored LOL


Shellyanna77 42F

10/23/2016 9:58 pm

    Quoting docdangerous4:
    as clint said it's pussy nation and not the good kind lol. men are such wussbag glass skinned douches now a days . or in need of psychiatric consult. ignore the losers, all is well .
That is exactly what I am doing, just 'fun' to share some 'experience'


Cumup9009 54M/56F

10/23/2016 9:20 pm

I prefer to answer even if it is with a "no" and i always tell them i wish them the best luck in finding what they're looking for. I have had them get offended. But i think everyone deserves a response. My husband would rather ignore them. I think its a male thing.

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*Live for today because yesterday is gone and tomorrow may NEVER come!!! *


docdangerous4 59M
45 posts
10/23/2016 9:19 pm

as clint said it's pussy nation and not the good kind lol. men are such wussbag glass skinned douches now a days . or in need of psychiatric consult. ignore the losers, all is well .


Shellyanna77 42F

10/23/2016 8:28 pm

    Quoting roytan87:
    lol..i agree.. the girls shd let the guys know if they are not interested. but some dont bother to reply even.. sad..
Sometimes I also don't bother to reply because after I said NO, they replied back and asked for reasons!!!


roytan87 37M
1 post
10/23/2016 8:11 pm

lol..i agree.. the girls shd let the guys know if they are not interested. but some dont bother to reply even.. sad..


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