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Man or Beast!!  

sweetslut2013 52F
72 posts
11/29/2015 3:54 am
Man or Beast!!

Just wondering how others feel about being approached right up front with asking to suck cock or screw them??? I love every sexual activity there is but with my partner and that is a total turn off for me. Not only myself as a woman but friends that are men too have said that no they would rather be treated with a respectful conversation first. So please I'd love to hear how others feel about this and I'm sure many have a different opinion especially the ones with no class nor manners.
So is it rude and disrespectful?
Or is it just cutting to the chase and getting dowmn to business?


sexybunny743 49F  
16 posts
11/29/2015 4:19 am

I don't reply to those sort of messages, they get instantly deleted.
I get men with little to no info on their profiles and no pics messaging me asking to meet. No introduction or a hello first. Do they really think i will say yes and meet a complete stranger whose name i don't know and have no idea what they look like or if we have anything in common!!!! I really don't understand it tbh!!!!


eboneflame 56M
167 posts
11/29/2015 4:22 am

My thoughts are it depends on timing and place. In a bar, in the majority of public places and in certain social media sites, yes it is rude and disrespectful.

However, in certain open to the public but can be considered private places, it can be cutting to the chase. What makes this site such a minefield is that it is marketed as a "HOOKUP, Find SEX site." Most would say if you want romance, long term etc go find one of the dating sites. ( just a fact, not trying to argue for or against.)

Saying that, in some chat rooms, and on IM, 1st email, blogs and advice lines, it would be rude to say hey let's fuck etc.

But in some of the chat rooms, it may be okay to announce as you are entering, what you are wearing, what you are looking for, if you are masturbating on cam etc. i.e. cutting to the chase.


Acouplelookin4fu 63M/51F

11/29/2015 4:30 am

I think it's rude, but that's the best part about Polyamory Date, you can just ignore, block, or tease and be rude back.


Hunter4Head 61M
6253 posts
11/29/2015 4:35 am

It's definitely very rude and disrespectful......that's certainly not MY way of trying to impress a woman in ANY way, shape, or form..... .

Be respectful, and show at least a "little" class.... .


Great_eight 58M
1561 posts
11/29/2015 4:38 am

I have found that when someone offers to suck me or screw me before we have met that it usually doesn't turn out.


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
11/29/2015 4:44 am

it seems like this site is full of rude people that have no manners, blogs highlight this over and over, everyone should treat others with respect, and treat them how they would like to be treated


powercaps716 67M  
83116 posts
11/29/2015 4:51 am

i find that to some they think it's okay to approach some one in that manner, for me not,respect me or nothing at all.


justskin1 72M
13175 posts
11/29/2015 6:39 am

It is incredibly rude, stupid and clueless. Am not sure it can be called disrespectful, at least from their end, as sex toys exist outside of the concept of respect, disrespect. They may not even be aware enough to realize what they are doing.

If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
11/29/2015 6:47 am

Well to tell you the truth
speaking that nonsense
is very uncouth!

Using more than all the road!


SomewhereNTX 62M
1624 posts
11/29/2015 8:22 am

Hi,

They should get a blowup doll since that's how they're treating women with behavior such as that.

Take care,
H


1ForeTex 70M
120 posts
11/29/2015 5:25 pm

I feel you treat people the way you want to be treated. You get what you ask for.


2BaTwistedLover 62M
87 posts
11/29/2015 6:28 pm

It's Rude ! ! ! But That's How This World Operates Now Days.


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
11/29/2015 8:23 pm

I'm betting not to many get far with the first approach.


Pulsator552001 63M
132 posts
11/29/2015 8:32 pm

Generally speaking, I would say that it's rude, but there could be times when it's just right.


anjaan58 62M
1347 posts
11/29/2015 11:02 pm

It is rude and not done
For me sex without mental or emo connect is a no no
Takes zing out of pleasure


jackiebrow 36M
38 posts
11/29/2015 11:24 pm

come on let's cum with me bb!


psucker1951 72M
89 posts
11/29/2015 11:24 pm

Hey, we must take time and let it be a mutual desire to proceed and not
do it rudely.


TrucknLuvn 59M/41F  
1622 posts
11/30/2015 5:05 am

We get a lot of "wow, your wife is hot" or "I want to fuck your wife" comments. It gets old after a while. On IM, we also get a lot of guys that just assume she is the one that is at the keyboard, when that is not always the case.

Yes, this website is for ultimately hooking up and finding sexual partner(s), but let's try to show at least a tiny amount of respect during the process.

♡Jess: The Trucker Babe

♡♡♡

Want more? Be sure to check out my blog: TrucknLuvn!


asiaas 55M
747 posts
11/30/2015 8:30 am

Rude!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


love2pleasu13 56M
6472 posts
11/30/2015 10:31 am

in my opinion if u want 2 cut 2 the chase find a way 2 use a better choice of words


mrryan74 50M
45 posts
11/30/2015 12:07 pm

that is very very it is rude but depends what way you say


1seeking1 58F
3767 posts
11/30/2015 2:29 pm

Sadly respect, manners seem to lack here at times. Doubt they would behave that way I public?


iraduu 44M
3598 posts
11/30/2015 2:35 pm

bem sintomatico


_JKH_ 70M
5448 posts
11/30/2015 2:37 pm

Bad rude !

~ ~


rm_Holdmyassplz 45F
44 posts
11/30/2015 3:53 pm

Just rude it doesn't matter if this is a sex site not every women wants to be talked to or approach like that...

Those are the one that I say need not to talk because they talk their way out of pussy lmao


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