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Mutual happiness  

Ianpoman 79M  
94 posts
4/24/2021 4:42 am
Mutual happiness

I took a short break because I felt overwhelmed. My spouse and I love each other, now in a nonsexual way due to differences in attitudes and health concerns. She's sexclusive and I am not. This has always been the case. How you wonder could this ever end in marriage? Well, it did and is great in so many ways. I'm Polyamory Date she knows. it's not that she likes it but that she's knows it's an aspect of who I am. I think my life lesson is that we don't always get what we expect or want in just the way/s we expect or want. We can boohoo about it or cope and adapt.

So I am trying find mutual happiness with others whose situations may be similar. Sex is a touchy subject, eh? Literally. We are not robots programmed like machines. We are really complex organisms with a capacity for mutuality.

I love the curiosity and energy and beauty of<b> younger </font></b>AFFers--w, m and t. I also like the compassion and wisdom and spirit of older AFFers, too. Life is not a blueprint but a river, a stream of vitality. I want to go and cum with the flow in mutual confluence. How about you? Happiness is possible.

Smooth_Michelle 72T  
26 posts
8/14/2021 7:54 am

 Good morning...I think it is very nice for someone to have a spouse that accepts and understands someone's interest for sex and pleasure when there isn't pleasure or satisfaction at home. I truly have sympathy for married men who are not satisfied at home and are interested in finding someone to make them feel important. Frankly, I find it quite gratifying to be "The Other Woman!"


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