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Honesty on a sex xite  

Renaissance_PhD 67M
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8/11/2020 12:00 pm
Honesty on a sex xite

I've been on Polyamory Date for several years now, and I have an issue that many of you will appreciate.

Polyamory Date is primarily a "Hookup site", dedicated the lifestyle and casual dating and sex. Some of you, both men and ladies, understand that and are into the vibe of this site.

However, many of you are here for the wrong reasons, some of which are very deceptive. Some of you are simply looking, saying that you're not interested in any sex at all. What do you think you're doing? If all you want is to watch, why not save the cost of a membership and rent a porn video?

The worst offenders are the men are on a "couples" site because they're too cheap to set up a solo profile when their lady decides to quit the lifestyle, or actually leaves the man. Some of you even go so far as to lie about your status to potential playmates until they start talking to you. I understand you want to get laid, but be honest and tell the ladies up front that you're single and that you're now playing as a single. Most of them will blow you off for being that dishonest, but some will actually chat with you.

I'm in a totally open marriage. My wife has my blessing to play with other men, and I have her blessing to play with other women. We are totally honest with each other, which is more than many people can say about their situations.

Another group is the guys talk a big game, and say that they are meet women, only flake at the last minute. My wife can tell you that it's very frustrating when you're looking get laid by guys talk the talk, but won't walk the walk. She is willing drive over 100 miles Phoenix, but most guys disappear, and that's not nice.

We also have a plethora of women say they're looking for NSA or FWB, nothing but casual sex, only tell you later that they really want a long-term relationship. In other words, they want an M.R.S. degree, not what their profile suggests. This is deception in its purest form, and it is very frustrating.

We' totally honest, and that is why our marriage works in the lifestyle. We challenge others to do the same. Let's get together and , and we'll have a lot of fun, without the deception that ruins the situation for all of us.

Ben

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