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Appearances  

urBigOmaker 62M
3 posts
10/26/2015 7:45 am
Appearances

Is everyone on here just looking at appearance to judge compatibility? Just curious because there are some fun people with great personalities that are super hot as well. Maybe I have just been lucky.

rdy2try4 59F  
3330 posts
10/26/2015 8:04 am

 I can state that actually many men use the copy paste form emails and slam them out to 1000's of women without much consideration of anything other than will they get laid by a woman. I know NOT ALL MEN do this, but too many do. I get emails every week from guys copying and pasting emails and I know they are because they state "I love your profile. I want to know more about you. I am totally intrigued. Contact me back." Ummm, my profile says I am not available and do not contact me for meetings or dates. They look foolish for writing one email assuming we all are here for sex hookups. They are not judging compatibility or anything as a matter of fact. It is a total numbers game. If they emails xxx amount of women the odds of 1 replying goes up.

I think if EVERYONE read profiles and respect with others are looking for less time would be wasted. I think if more people would realize the site is not an online whorehouse warehouse and people are here to blog, write stories, be on cam, and other things not for meeting up then the site would work better and everyone would have a better time.


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