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Can Anyone Tell Me......  

GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 4:00 pm

    Quoting notsure1949:
    have seen same photos in multiple places, make up a profile, make up statements, change locations, there is one guy in Philly that must have 20 different aliases, but each one is for the same town, and he posts as a female in all of them
There seems to be all kinds of shenanigans going on with profiles on this site.

There is a guy from Philly on here who must have over a hundred profiles. All the same stats and A*F*F either allows it to go on, or they really don't check anything.

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GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 4:01 pm

    Quoting throatswabber1:
    I'm on the East Coast but sometimes when I open Messenger, it shows as if I am in California. I usually shut down and restart. Can't explain it
Hmmmmm....that's strange..

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GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 4:05 pm

    Quoting nicebuttocks1950:
    There are lots of scammers and fake profiles on this site. Lots of duplicate profiles. I suppose the same goes for everything now days, but I wish there were some way to weed out all the fakes and scammers.
    One thing that I object to is O L D and one-timers profiles not being purged from the system. People come on the site for one time, never come back, yet their profile stays on the site seemingly forever. Useless clogging of the system.
Oh I agree there are a lot of scammers and fakes. That's kind of what I thought maybe the one I wrote about was.

It would be nice if they'd get rid of really old profile of members that haven't been on in a really long time. I doubt they will because they probably add those in their "total" members and it makes it look good.

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GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 4:07 pm

    Quoting Story435:
    Hello I think it is someone playing games on this site. I have seen this before gamers and most are fake!
    This site been screwed up for five days sucks. Tryed to get on about 2 hours ago it was just like there was no Polyamory Date. Now that i am on it is very slow.
    Butch
There are lots of game players on this site. It gets very aggravating some days dealing with the issues. It was very slow for me the past few days.

I've been coming on less...

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GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 4:10 pm

    Quoting let_me_see1:
    When I look at videos on this site, many times they will show they are from a different person than I clicked on. And the past two weeks, there were about 4 days when for more than 1/2 the day I could not sign on. Again, when you pay your IT people bananas, you will get monkeys!
Geez that's some messed up stuff. Trying to view one video, but getting a totally different one.

You are right....this site is being run by monkeys......lol

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GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
4/30/2018 4:14 pm

    Quoting travellerabc123:
    I saw a legitimate case of that recently. A woman had spelled out on her profile that she works 3 months at a location, and then moves to another location. She spent 3 months nearby and then sure enough she was in Colorado on a new assignment three months later. So it can happen.
I'm sure there are perhaps legitimate reasons for stuff like what I wrote about, but this just seemed weird.

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GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
5/10/2018 1:21 pm

    Quoting  :

Hmmmmm....thank you for the professional explanation for the craziness that goes on - on this site. This site is always experiencing some kind of issues and kinda figured that they have some crappy IT stuff.

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Davidzink 69M

5/23/2018 1:54 am

My self I travel. I go to Florida often, so I change my profile. Lets say in your case we meet up I would and will be traveling thru Philly. Maybe wed want a one night stand or maybe I would want to meet someone there beside you. Although you are quite attractive. I'm in Maine now so I add people in Maine appealing to me as my friends as I return every year. Last year I was in upstate NY for the summer and met a couple First time at that but both were friendly nd hot. I added them. Here the site tells me that Moncton Canada is only 73 miles way. I know better than that. Its four hours away.


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
5/23/2018 10:27 am

    Quoting Davidzink:
    My self I travel. I go to Florida often, so I change my profile. Lets say in your case we meet up I would and will be traveling thru Philly. Maybe wed want a one night stand or maybe I would want to meet someone there beside you. Although you are quite attractive. I'm in Maine now so I add people in Maine appealing to me as my friends as I return every year. Last year I was in upstate NY for the summer and met a couple First time at that but both were friendly nd hot. I added them. Here the site tells me that Moncton Canada is only 73 miles way. I know better than that. Its four hours away.
Well we all know this site has it's glitches, so it could very well be something like that going on.

I suspect this guy is gonna have a tough time finding a playmate since no one will know where he is at any given time. Or perhaps he will be a very lucky man, since he seems to be all over....lol.

According to his updates in the past year he has been in Griffin Georgia, Dayton and Reno Nevada, and 5 days ago he was in Trevose Pa.

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GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
5/23/2018 10:32 am

    Quoting Poknfun69:
    I’ve seen the same with a female from 3 different places
I've been given a few possible explanations, so who knows what the answer is. I was just curious how or why this would happen.

He could very well be legit, or he could be a game player and fake.

It was just strange to me that the profile said one location, but when you hovered over the profile a different one would show.

But strange things happen on this site all the time....lol

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endththelesson 59M

5/24/2018 2:59 am

Robot would be my best bet. I have people look at my profile and flirt / hotlist me from all over the world. They are usually young drop dead gorgeous ladies from places far from me. If it is to good to be true... it is. This site bugs me as well. A standard member should at least be able to look at a profile for general safety. This is the internet!


GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
6/2/2018 6:15 pm

    Quoting endththelesson:
    Robot would be my best bet. I have people look at my profile and flirt / hotlist me from all over the world. They are usually young drop dead gorgeous ladies from places far from me. If it is to good to be true... it is. This site bugs me as well. A standard member should at least be able to look at a profile for general safety. This is the internet!
Could be bots...I guess anything is possible on this site. There always seems to be some issue or another.

This one is weird though, there have been 3 different locations for this particular profile, but maybe they move around a lot.

I agree that standard members should be able to view profiles at the very least. But it seems like they are taking more and more away.

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GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
6/2/2018 6:17 pm

    Quoting  :

Always kinda best to pay a bit of attention to what goes on - on this site. Lots of fakes, scammers, and flakes!

Good luck!

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shavedguy92 59M

6/3/2018 7:47 pm

Hello, Tom here in ny. Ive seen the same person in two different places. Sometimes the wording in the profile is the same, sometimes not. Like a cut and paste. Which leads me to believe that it would be a scam profile. Polyamory Date is part of a group of sites that are run by the same conglomerate. Some profiles are not even real, just computer generated algorithms to produce more traffic on the site. Some profiles have U.S. or Canada locations, but are really overseas. Ya have to learn to spot the fakes. Be Careful. Hope This helps you. Have a good day. TF in NY


shavedguy92 59M

6/3/2018 7:52 pm

Its called Ghosting.


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