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Pretty girls have hearts made of stone...
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Pretty girls have hearts made of stone... The title comes from a line in an old Flatt and Scruggs song I heard as a . It has nothing to do with this blog. I just happened to like the sound of it, so there it is. I've been on this site for about 5 years now. Over the years I've seen where a lot of women wonder who can eat pussy better, men or women. I think it's women. They know about pussy and what it takes to make a pussy happy. Someone who owns something usually knows how to use it best. It works as with tools and machines. Practice makes perfect. I have been hit on by gay men all my life. The #1 line is "let me suck your cock and you'll never want another woman." I always pass on that one. I like women, sexually aggressive women and just women in general. I have no use for other men. One hard dick is all I want to have to deal with. A guy who touches me in an inappropriate manner will get a demonstration of what a lifetime of martial arts taught me. I consider sexual molestation grounds for defensive action. You won't see any of those moves in any kung fu movie. The best blowjob I ever had was from a woman who told me that a gay guy taught her how it should be done. This was in 1977. She learned well. The only sex I had with her was receiving her oral masterpiece. She wanted nothing more than to show off her talent. She was extremely skilled. She set the bar for the rest of my life. I have never met another woman as good at sucking as she. My experience has been that when a woman tells me how great she is sexually, she isn't at all what she says. False advertising is the rule in a lot of sexual matters. The quiet ones are generally much more satisfying to be with. Growing up, older men would tell me "never turn down pussy". I have turned it down more than once, even in high school. I have an idea in my mind of what I want and it's not to screw every woman I meet. I have no interest in being just another stamp on someone's passport. Another thing a lot of older men used to tell me was "you have to tell a woman what you want or she won't know". I've never been one to be overt when wooing a woman. Women always say "all men want is pussy", so I've always felt that they KNOW and there's no point in belaboring the issue. On this site I especially feel that there's no need. It's an adult dating and hookup site. Everyone here knows what the deal is and/or isn't. If a woman seems to like me too much too fast, I back off. I've learned over the years to tell if a woman is married by the way she acts around me. Married women bent on fooling around always seem to be grinning like a possum. Single women tend to be less smiley with me. Not less smiley, just a different kind of smile. Humans as a rule aren't monogamous by choice. Monogamy is an artificial construct. although some people ARE monogamous by choice, naturally. I am a serial monogamist and have been all my life. Marriage isn't forever with most people. We fall in and out of "love" fairly frequently. I don't believe in "love". I believe that people meet someone they like, that fits their ideas of what they want, until they get tired of them. Then they move on. These are my observations not necessarily facts. I have 2 sisters, one is almost 2 years older, the other almost 3 years younger. I try not to do things they have indicated they don't like and do what they say they want a man to do. Based on their experiences, I have developed my own style of approaching women. I don't normally make the first move. I don't want to be perceived as harassing, molesting or otherwise forcing my way into a woman's life. I let them set the rules. They do anyway, after all they control the pussy. There are lots of women in the world who go after what they desire. Hard as it is, I try to carry that style over into the online dating experience. I seldom make first contact. It doesn't work as well here as in real life because women have more choices here and can pick and choose. I'm just another face in the crowd and it's hard to get the "face time" required to advance a relationship. I'm not what women who go by the pictures want. If I was what most of these women want I wouldn't be on this site. My sisters both tell me to knock 10 or 12 years off my age, "no one will know unless they see your driver's license". I've met more than one woman who told me that she had done just that. "Age is just a number." They also advised getting onto more dating sites to increase the exposure I receive. This site may be raunchy but I have already tried a couple of other sites and found them to be too dull and bland for my taste. I have a friend who introduced me to this website. He is married and goes through several women a year from the site. He says women want to be lied to, no matter what they tell you. I read somewhere that when a man lies to woman, she senses something is not right, that there's danger involved. That feeling of danger is more exciting than the feelings she has with men who are honest. Women like "bad boys". Nice guys finish last. We don't project the uncertainty that fuels sexual excitement. Predictability is boring and stifles romance. Almost everyone likes playing with fire. Getting close to the flame and not being burned is exhilarating. It gets your blood flowing and makes your heart beat faster. The excitement creates emotions that can be redirected into passion. If a woman is frightened a little, she is more easily shifted to another emotion. I read that somewhere, too. Mystery, intrigue and fear all transmute into passion if played correctly. A man whom can get woman's emotions going can easily redirect the energy that comes from uncertainty. Scary stuff that makes a woman shiver can be used to make her more susceptible to<b> seduction. </font></b>Excitement of almost any sort awakens something in all of us. That's why people who fight a lot often have mind blowing sex. The emotions from anger, fear or uncertainty can change quickly into lust. These emotions get the blood flowing, the heart beating faster, breathing to become more intense and open the door to other emotions. A fast ride on a motorcycle is almost certain to cause a woman to become horny. A lot of men know this. Something about the sense of surviving death makes them all the more ready to cling to someone. Danger is an aphrodisiac. Thrills of almost any kind, kindle desire.  |
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