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AFF weekend for the story books!!!  

SexiSizeHypnotiz 46F
1978 posts
4/13/2016 5:54 pm

Last Read:
9/24/2016 3:07 am

AFF weekend for the story books!!!


So where oh where do I begin?!... I came on Polyamory Date back in 2009, and was new to this, so didn't really no any better about giving out your personal info lol and I befriended a guy, 5 years younger, from California, who I just overtime became friends with. Granted at the beginning it was sporadic but about 3 years ago, he became very active with being friends with me, always hitting me up on Facebook and all my other social media (which I totally learned never give out lol, not because of him, but just in general, I was so naive). But anyways of course when someone's texting you for months, your facetiming for hours, he was always so respectful and full of admiration for me, if you want to call it that. So let's go to 2015.
He was always so into wanting to meet in Vegas and I told him for years, that's just unrealistic for me to do. So legit I was having a bad week, we were close I told him I just need a friend, and he booked a flight and hotel in Boston that next day for that Friday! I was in complete shock, here's this guy who I spend hours talking and facetiming and he knows me, not just the Brandalishis in me. So I won't lie,I was excited, omg, he's coming from Calofornia to see me, this is really happening.
So I have this great 3 days of nervousness of meeting this guy I thought I knew so much about. So I meet him at the hotel on Friday night, I'm scared shitless as I knock on the door, he opens it, and embraces me with this warm hug, that lasted what seemed like forever. We kiss, we are both noticeably excited as we've known each other 7 years. So we had already pre planned we would prob stay in Friday night from his very long flight, to me this was totally fine and understandable. We both don't drink, so we were sober as can be, and just cuddled and got to know each other. Well of course because we were so mentally connected, sex came natural for us to want to do! So we start engaging in this really enticing experience, until bam...his body stiffens up on me, IN ME, at first I was like hello?! But I've worked in the medical field since I was 18, so after like 5 seconds, I realize he's having a SEIZURE!!! I literally thought he was dying! Do I call 911? He was stuck stiff on me for what seemed like an eternity but prob was maybe 1 minute maybe 1 and half minutes, and he "comes to" if you wanna call it that, I push him off, I'm scared as fuck and I'm like are you ok? Now I'm not sure it's a seizure, but that's my guess. He literally says nothing, goes to the bathrm, comes back to the bed and snuggles up against me, and I'm scared I won't lie. He's not really talking about what just happened! but he's all about having sex again, so I'm like ok I'll do it, who knows wtf just happened?? So we start the whole process over of getting intimate and legit, IT HAPPENED AGAIN! Now I'm totally freaked out, am I going to have this die on me?? So the same scarey process happens again, and he comes too, but not really talking and trying for sex again lol. But I was like um, honestly I'm scared, I'm not sure what just happened, just go to bed. So eventually he does as do I. The next morning we both awaken, but he's acting like nothing happened, so I'm like do I say something? And he made some comment about if I enjoyed the night, so I proceeded to be like actually you scared the hell out of me and told him what happened. At first he walked around the room, and I was like what's going on. And he's like you sure that happened? I'm like hell yeah I'm sure and I think it was a seizure, I'm pretty smart, I thought I was calling 911! HE THEN TELLS ME he's an epileptic, hasn't had a seizure in however long he said and we sat there both kinda freaked out. Then he realizes with the time zone change he missed a dose of medication. So I'm sitting here thinking how have I never known he had seizures? Or ever see one in our hours of facetiming for years? So he takes his missed dose, we talk about it and it being scarey and how he should tell his dr (as I found out he can't drive due to it) and he should probably tell girls he's going to sleep with because for me, all I knew I had this guy laying on top of me, dead weight, dying (I thought!)!
Ok ok so we are able to get thru that road bump and decide to hit Fanuiell Hall. Well this is from Cali and former Stanford College student, so Boston is a totally different place, were a crazy city! So he's never done public transportation, so he was slightly excited to ride the T, but don't you know it's not running but they have a bus shuttell, ok no problem, we hop on a bus and because it's a brisk fall day I'm wearing jeans, but ones that I bought that were pre ripped and a Boston shirt, plain jacket and purse. I was very dressed down considering I'd just met him, but it's daytime walking/sightseeing. So we get on the bus, he sits across from me, which I found off, but whatever, the bus fills up and because we were in the very front those seats are sideways so you can see everyone basically. This older lady boards the bus with luggage and sits horizontally across, but behind me, and she's staring. You know that stare you feel, when someone's staring you down, so I just look forward, no eye contact. Then I hear something along the lines of "you look like a with those ripped pants" I instantly look back and evilly stare, like are you serious??? and I look away. She then continues taunting me, calling all sorts of names in front of everyone including the guy I just met lol. So
I'm like wtf???? So after about 4 straight minutes I can tell she's mentally ill, and just picking on me, but I couldn't stand it and I looked at her and said you need to stop! You are inappropriate and really upsetting me. I was totally trying to stay "calm" in front of my friend lol. Well no she CONTINUED! And at this point I'm thinking why isn't my friend saying anything? But whatever, it's my problem. Now people are starting to chime in and apologize to me cause they could tell I was mortified. Then the bus stops to pick up more passengers and this lady with a stroller gets on, so im like perfect, I'll give her my seat and move back a few rows! I end up sitting with this younger girl, who was so sweet and instantly was apologizing and I was like omg right! And I just met my friend! How embarrassing... Guess who continues to harrass me and now the girl I'm sitting with lol. We actively ignore her and somehow other passengers all started getting involved because it was extremely uncomfortable for us all, she kept rambling about us all being uneducated prostiturs and pimps. Then starts on some who had a fake pair of handcuffs, so she started saying "what you going to hurt a woman" Sooo this was going really bad and finally my friend stepped in but barely said anything, that's fine, but the bus was in traffic and because the ride was so uncomfortable about 7 of us asked the driver to let is out and we'd walk. Soooo now I've just had this awkward evening and now harassed lol. And he admitted he was nervous and he would never take public transportation in Boston again, lol. I'm like that's nothing, we are fine. So as we begin our mile walk lol we had some walking buddies, we had just bonded with over our tramautic bus ride lol. But my friend walks with the guy, a total stranger and walks way ahead of me at a super fast pace. I'm walking thinking "why isn't he walking and talking to me!?"... So now I get a bit turned off. We go to Fanueil Hall, eat at Dicks Last resort witch is so fun I think... But nope he thought the place was weird and not "nice"..,whatever and let's add the fact that he proceeds to talk with the guy sitting behind us (who was also visiting, and he actually was interesting but in his 60's) over our whole meal!!! I'm like what the fuck? Is he seriously in Boston and continuing to talk to others? Why is basically ignoring me? He's claimed he's wanted for me years?!
So around 4ish we walk out of Fanueil Hall and he just walks away from me and I'm left standing there talking to security guy for a solid 20 minutes. And he's off on his phone typing some shit, and again I'm left thinking wtf? Then this car pulls up and he says our ride is here. I'm like huh? He freaking got a Uber driver, because he would not do public transportation, lol. But what do you think happens lol he talks to the driver and 2 other passengers, NOT ME!! Seriously?? So we get back to the hotel, shower get dressed up and he had heard "No Name" was a good seafood restaraunt, which I can't stand seafood, but whatever it's his trip. So we go, the place is nothing special, I felt overdressed lol. I got a burger I barely could touch because all I could see was seafood lol. We leave there, yet another Uber ride to "the W" is where I think we went, now this place was sexy and classy, I loved it. But getting him to interact with me was like pulling teeth. We get back to the room, he says hey you wanna see my Brandy so and so file? I'm like huh? So I'm like sure. He literally had made a folder on his laptop with like over 500 photos of me!! I mean every photo I had on Facebook or id send him. I was like WHAT!!?? So of course now back at the room he's more into me once again, but this time he couldn't get or stay hard.. And kept blaming condoms. I said sorry don't play that game with me. I'm not falling for it. He claims this doesnt happen, it's the build up of so many years of wanting me and now it's here, he can't perform. I act nice but I'm like really?? Ok. So that nights a waste. Sunday comes, he's legit a lump on a log and I called him out on this shit that's gone on all weekend and how stupid I feel. He begs and pleads we will have a better day. Sunday was a shot day, couldn't of been much cause I barely remember it. But I do remember crying quietly cause this just felt awful. Monday morning comes I have to leave and guess fucking what!!! My car won't start at the hotel lol. No fucking way, I'm telling myself, this can't be real. So I go up to the room and plan out my AAA call and all that stuff. And he acted tired and like it was no big deal! Me on the other hand felt like this was my weirdest weekend ever. He took a fucking nap, Here I am getting ready to leave you'll most likely never see me again, so I'm like fuck this shit, pack my shit up (never say bye and just leave) and go to my car and waited for AAA, which was a whole fucking hassle in itself, they sent me 3 different tow trucks lol. So while I'm in my car waiting he calls, did you leave? How could you not say by? I'm like look how you are treating me, do we really need a goodbye? He says yes begs me to come up, so of course I do cause I have fucking time to waste and he hugs, kisses, apologizes, tells me it's not my fault this weekend blah blah... We say our goodbyes... I have this fucking ordeal with AAA, finally got my 40minute tow back to my town, tow driver totally cool, prob the highlight of my weekend lol.

So now we are both back to reality... And from the vibe I got, and the sense you've prob gotten, is HES NOT INTO ME! So I act very distant and tell him what is that you want! Seriously? Cause he comes at me all lovey dovey like we didn't just have this weird weekend. So he continues his usual daily texting, sending ecards and all that stuff.
It's been many months since this, and I distanced myself from him finally. He made a bad impression in person with me anyways.

Has anyone had any really weird encounters? I'm sure nothing like mine, but I'm sure some good ones!!

When they say things come in 3's, they certainly fucking did for me that Fall weekend!!


"Beautiful Woman with a complicated soul"

"I am a naughty girl, ALWAYS in ALL WAYS"

"Sexi Size will Hypnotize
Sexi Eyes will Mesmerize"

SexiSizeHypnotiz


SexiSizeHypnotiz 46F
804 posts
9/24/2016 3:07 am

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I love this story lol..but no one else does lol. But I love being able to re live it.

Ironically enough do you know he still calls, texts, emails.

It was my Birthday last month..I got a card in the mail "Beautiful Brandy"

He really perplexes me..I have no clue why he acts like we didn't have this messed up weekend..literally wont acknowledge it.


"Beautiful Woman with a complicated soul"

"I am a naughty girl, ALWAYS in ALL WAYS"

"Sexi Size will Hypnotize
Sexi Eyes will Mesmerize"

SexiSizeHypnotiz


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