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Fakes/Posers/Attention Seekers/Excuses R Us people.. The list goes on and on... Read and Have Fun!!!  

fakesrevealed 48M/52F
29 posts
8/12/2015 2:05 pm
Fakes/Posers/Attention Seekers/Excuses R Us people.. The list goes on and on... Read and Have Fun!!!


I started thinking.... free members can't read profiles, people can't really comment on a profile. SO I figured what the heck I'll post it here for everyone to read and comment if they wish too! Now I don't expect many people to actually start naming others who are listed in the groups, mainly in fear of the consequences or being sorta black listed by others for speaking out. Honestly I don't blame you!

Here it goes...

Ok, this profile is here to list all the fakes/wannabes/attn seekers(would've used whores but that sounds rude and pathetic)/time wasters/no shows/constant excuses people. Not to meet people! >> They will whine to someone higher up! Now, I am a business man also, so I completely understand. No one would pay for a membership here if they knew the truth!

We all know people have their own thing, all anyone really asks is to be honest about it! If you aren't sure, just say so! But don't put down you are wanting to meet when in reality you have no intentions of doing so.

Most cpl profiles on here are just married males posting pics of their wives without their knowledge, not all, but most. We want to know who they are so people don't waste their time and/or money. No one wants to head out to meet a cpl, get a room, just for them to not show.

Excuses... We have all ran into people on here who always have an excuse to not meet! Now don't get me wrong, life can be a rat race and sometimes shit happens, but when its constantly happening, maybe trying to meet people isn't a good idea..?

Attn Seekers... Now this is a touchy subject. We all understand peoples need to feel wanted/loved/liked/whatever, but do you really need to come to a site which was/is intended for people/swingers to meet? And yes people, that is what this place was meant to be. Now I've heard all the excuses such as "I paid for a lifetime gold membership so thats why I'm still here", well ok, but at least put it in your profile you have no intentions of meeting and you are here strickly for the attention, I mean friendship, or friends, ....or oh wait I don't think they have invented emails/instant messengers/websites for chatting and sharing pictures...lol.
/\/\/\/\I'm gonna get a lot of shit over this statement/\/\/\LOL

Perfect Match People.... people looking for that perfect cpl/male/female/ts... these people aren't really here to meet. They just want to be extremely picky to make themselves feel better usually. Or, they use this to avoid actually meeting people. You look for "perfect" when you are looking for a spouse! Looking for swinging partners should be fun and all about having fun regardless if the guy/female/cpl trying to chat with you is a little chubby or just average. Who knows they might be the best fun you'll ever have!?
*****NOTE****
the guy with the largest penis in the world was just an average guy who was chubby. So for all those wanting that monster cock on the perfect guy, something to think about...lol

There is more to come but I have other things to do so I will add some later.

Oh I also wanted to say, Thank You to all who have messaged this in support of what is being said. I am surprised by how many people feel the same way!

This profile is also not for meeting purposes! It's a cpls profile because it will get viewed by pretty much everyone. So before you make some stupid comments, read it all!

It was also fun to write!

fakesrevealed 48M/52F

8/12/2015 9:00 pm

Here's another...

Dating Bunch... which should be in the "Attention Seekers" category but I forgot. This is the bunch who want to cuddle, dine out, see movies and other dating stuff that should be listed on a "Dating Site" not a "swingers site"..lol. This is stuff you do if you have plans on dating someone long term sorta I guess. Honestly, I don't really understand these types...? Are their plans to start dating someone but yet be swingers? Now I have read where some people have met as swingers and in evolved into something more, and good for them, I'm happy for them!

Here's a good one I just seen on a female profile from the Canton, Ohio area..... I'm going to try to quote this to get it right but you will get the picture..."for all the dick pics I see on profiles none of them have balls". Whats funny about that comment is the fact that she herself has a profile picture of her boobs in a bra but shirt pulled down and cleavage spilling everywhere...... Hello! Pot meet kettle...LOL.

Another good one is a cpl from Cleveland area that posted on their profile something along the lines of...If you don't have a face pic in your profile we won't chat to you.... but yet they had no face pics in theirs...LOL. Later they changed it to something about face pics in private photos or whatever. They got all butt hurt when I called them out on it, then I pointed out that they changed their profile and got even more upset. Eventually they left and changed their name, well at least I'm pretty sure they did since I seen their same videos posted under another name a few months later.

Before I get to naming some of these people let me first say this... I know once I do this people will know who I am and they will most likely have this and my other ID booted off. I know this so don't be surprised by it. There will be consequences to this that I am fully aware of. Also keep in mind these people names will have many friends come out to say how I am full of it and of course stick up for them, I get that! There will also probably be a bunch of verifications and testimonials to disprove all this. I'm sure many will be fake if not all.

OK so here we go....!

Time Wasters.....

cingrove.... although she/he/they really didn't waste my time, this person(s) wanted to and liked hearing my ideas, well at least until her husband came home. Then wanted nothing to do with me. Figured they couldn't come up with their own ideas or someone better looking had no good ideas so they will probably use mine...LOL. BTW, I want paid for that! Anyway this ID has been on here for a long time and still hasn't found the right person to meet...LOL. Hard to believe ain't it...NOT!

bjnjohn/brknanglwhateverhernameis....... she gave me her number, text some but a total waste of time. Honestly, she made no sense with the comment she made the last we texted but in her world it made perfect sense...? Anyway, she seems to like the attention she receives in the Ohio Chatroom. If you look you will see she has posted a bunch of new pics to gain even more attention...lol.

IF you just go to the Ohio Chatroom you will see most in there just enjoy the attention. I went a few times but after a few minutes of guys acting like guys I had to leave. It was very obvious of the ones enjoying the compliments. And of course they rejected any and all offers to meet...lol.

eager**..... this ID is kinda a funny one. I chatted to this person for a little while. Now they didn't like smokers, which is fine, but when I quit smoking, new excuses came. The weird part was when they got on cam! I seen their cam more than once and every time, it was exactly the same! No I mean exactly! The same outfit, moves, actions, all of it! At first I thought it was odd until I seen it again and it was dead on exactly like the previous time. So either they are really stuck in a rut or something wasn't right.

Pickygirl***.... this one has no clue what she wants! Her profile originally stated she was picky, which was kinda obvious. But later it stated she had a Master and wasn't looking, but below it, it stated she was looking for another Master or something like that...lol. So I messaged her and asked about it. Her reply, "not interested", ok, I wasn't offering anything. I was just curious if she knew which way was up, cause she sure sounded confused to me.

So now you know who I am, this should be fun! Well, if it doesn't get deleted...?

Oh one more thing! I'm not upset or butthurt by rejection. It really doesn't bother me. I actually prefer people who are up front and honest as most people do.


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

8/13/2015 6:08 am

Here's a few more.....

Cpl Cams...... If you are listed as a cpl but when you are on cam its just the male half.... no one believes you are a cpl! Get a life! Your hand doesn't make you a cpl just as using both hands don't make it a 3some!

There is a girl from Kent, Ohio who has changed her name from somethingposer to I'm not sure what. I've seen her on cam arguing politics! Now what makes no sense is how do you argue with someone who is typing everything out to where only she could read, but yet she spoke to answer? So everyone heard her answer/argument but couldn't hear the other person rebuttal...? And why argue politics in the first place but yet do it on a swingers sex site....LOL.

ANother its a lady from Bloomingdale, Ohio. She is married but very discreet! She posts statements to draw attention. Or pics/videos. She once made a statement..."I'm board", yes she spelled it that way. So a few of us seen it and had some fun. No one was rude, it was just a little fun. Well that wasn't the attention she liked so her next statement was something along the lines of..."Sure are a lot of assholes here". She got all butthurt over her making a spelling mistsake and instead of just going with it and having some fun, she pouted about it...lol.

After typing all this I've come to realize that a lot of the people on here are missing something in their lives and this is where they come to get it back. ALthough there are many other places to do it this place probably has the most traffic so it gains them even more attention.


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

8/14/2015 5:40 am

Ok to be clear, this profile is not for the purpose of meeting people! Sorry!

Few more.....

OhioLeggyprincess or something like that...... Here for storyline fun only...? Is she writing a book or just here to talk about sex? If shes writing a book and wanting ideas, some people should be getting a cut of that...lol! If shes here to talk about it, again I'll repeat this, there are many other forums that are for that purpose...

AR94fantasy or something like that.... ANother Cpl profile that is just a bi male! Originally it started out as a cpl supposedly but it seems the female half has left...? I chatted to them for a while and was up front the entire time about myself, when it came closer to meeting the excuses started. So I washed my hands of them when it came to meeting but we still chatted some. I really kept chatting with them cause something didn't seem right so my curiousity kicked in. They always had a story about going to meet a guy and he wouldn't show. Finally they met someone and it was a great time! But shortly after that I noticed they didn't want to chat as much. Maybe it was because I was actually happy they got to live out their fantasy, even if it wasn't with me, personally I didn't care and I think that is why the chatting come to a stop. But after a while I noticed the profile pics changed from a female being on there to just the male pics.... Who knows maybe the female liked the single guy and now the single guy is a cpl and the married cpl guy is a single...? Yea one of the excuses was they didn't want a married guy....lol

Ok so over the time here I have asked several cpls what they preferred, married or single guys.....

The answers are interesting and in no way shape or form am I putting either down or assuming all are the same!

Single.... Many prefer single due to no worries about a wife finding out, and can usually come play whenever. All good points!

Married.... this get more interesting! some preferred married due to the fact of discretion, not as worried about diseases, not sleeping with anyone that will let them, and the fact that most single guys, aren't single! I've heard many times about many "single" guys are actually married and will lie about it or in a committed relationship but not technically married.

Personally its your choice so choose wisely I guess...lol.


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

8/20/2015 4:13 pm

WOW! I just don't get people! Ok I think I get it now... All you "cpls" who are actually single guys, think you are cpls because you have a friend you have sex with every once in a while...

Case in point...

fwbcouple4funwit..... This guy IM's me (yes they are working now and some emails) and compliments the profile name. Now that must have been as far as he went, cause he sure didn't read the profile...lol. So I asked him what all he was here for knowing what part of his profile says. His answer, "to have fun with a couple". Now if you look you will see it says "they" are looking for men, women and cpls. Huh! He just told me "they" were looking for cpls....?

Now, he did state he was a "single male" with a "female friend". I have a lot of female friends... Even have nude pics of some of them. He also said she does play with cpls and mfm but I'm willing to bet he don't talk to many single males. Bet he messages a lot of cpls and fems tho! Wonder how many cpls got the excuse.... Well she can't get out tonight to play but I can...?lol

Ok so every now and then I look at profiles of people I have stated in this blog and noticed a few things have changed...

AR94fantasy..... changed his profile to something about his wife taking a break and encourages him to play without her. Uhmmmm yea ok sure! Who knows, personally I don't care, just thought it was funny!

Eager**......added a cpl "new" photos. Well new to some people I guess. I swear I seen them over a year ago...?

Oh and that girl from Kent, Ohio who talks a lot on cam, I think she changed her name again, then changed it back!? Not that I care but damn make up your mind...LOL.

I think that is all for now....?

Oh wait! I remember.... I have notice a huge increase in the "Happy People" which will probably fit into the "Attention Seeker" bunch... They are all happy with their lives but yet still come here...? Oh forgot they have their friends or groups they can't live without...lol. BTW, go into most chat rooms and just see how interesting the conversations are...lol. Yep, that would keep me coming back for more...NOT!.


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

8/20/2015 8:24 pm

Amhurstjane or jade or who cares really..... Shes the one with the comment.."for all the dick pics on profiles so many have no balls"... she was the one who also was showing a buttload of cleavage on her profile pic, yea well she changed the pic to an ass pic...LOL. Yep, Pot, still would like you to meet Kettle...lol.

There is another one or maybe the same female that made a statement on her profile at one time...."I'm not your type, I'm not a blow up doll", which is funny, but still you think you are better? Now I don't know any blow up dolls personally, but I'm thinking their attitude might be a whole lot more interesting than hers...?

I don't care how sex/good looking you are, if you have a bad attitude, shitty personality or something along those lines, the looks don't cover it up!


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

8/21/2015 7:40 pm

Have another "Happy Person"

blueyecreature...... She has an exclusive FWB and she is "Happy", not interested in meeting anyone now... Ok, shes honest, I'll give her that, but if she was "Happy" why come back..? Oh wait! She wants to share her pics and videos with everyone. Oh I guess shes just happy with the FWB but not the lack of attention...? Guess she is only partially honest..? Oh well at least she isn't stringing others along knowing she isn't going to meet with them.

I do have to ask or I ask that you ask yourself this question<<<<confused yet? Do people know they can get pictures and videos of amateurs without paying for a membership...?

Ok, so I seen another blog about fakes and guys talking about the fakes, actually 2 blogs. One by a guy and the other buy a female who is part of a cpl. So I commented, on both. I don't think they came out the way I wanted them too, but I hope they understood the point I was trying to make.

With the female I asked her to try something since she was basically putting all the blame on the men. Now don't get me wrong, she had some great points! I highly doubt she will do what I asked of her simply because she would then see the other side of the fence. Most people don't want to see both sides only the side they like to see and ignore the rest. That is just human nature. If she does I hope she comes back and is honest about it. But like most of us in the world we don't want to admit being wrong, especially when we are proving ourselves wrong!


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

8/25/2015 2:14 am

Ok so this female, boo is what we call her, has on her profile she wanted something interesting.... So I threw an idea at her, it caught her attention. Well unfortunately she couldn't make it due to her having a boyfriend, wonder if she mentions him on her profile..? So anyway we tried to set something else up at another time.....

Long story short... I messaged boo on KIK and told her "hey I'm still interested in meeting but if you don't see my profile on Polyamory Date still keep me in mind". So she asked why I was taking profile down, I told her. She kinda freaks out and starts ranting about drama. Now at that point I was kinda confused! I didn't say anything drama wise, didn't say she was fake, and didn't even really carry on about it...lol. I just stated I might close my profile out or not be on in a while.

So as Boo was ranting I quickly come to the conclusion she was looking for a way out. I told her "you seem eager to get out of this idea! So Good Luck and be careful having unsafe sex I'd hate to see you catch something and ruin your life at such a young age". I then deleted her and the conversation as there was no point in wasting my time anymore!

But afterward I thought about something.... Now I enjoy surfing Craigslist, some funny shit on there! In doing so I have read numerous ads about a guy in the Massillon/Canton/Akron areas who has a disease and he is having sex with anyone spreading it. There have also been quite a few post about a female half of a cpl in Massillon who also has something you can't get rid of. Several guys posted about her because they were so easy to meet since they posted their number.

The reason I told you that was cause of what Boo and the guy she has met wanted to do. He wanted to fuck another mans cream pie. I guess I was going to be that other guy, at one point, since I can make a big cream pie! But what has me worried is the fact that he is just using her as his little slut but does he have any concern for her safety? She said he was a keeper cause in there first meeting what he done turned her on big time. But is she so caught up in the attention he showed she isn't thinking about consequences?

Sorry that was something that happened just the other day and I had to get it out as I was slightly concerned. But honestly, it isn't my business it hers, her BF and the guy using her.... I'd hate to see an innocent bf catch something when he has no clue shes doing what shes doing! Poor guy!


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

8/25/2015 11:32 am

Ok, I get this email from a cpl in Medina, Ohio. It states that her and her husband haven't been able to meet cpls together so they are now looking separately. Now let me say this..... She is smoking HOT!!!!!!! Seriously, she has an ass and a set of boobs that I could hold onto and play with for days!!!!! As for her husband, he looked pretty well built. They looked like a very sexy cpl, but yet they are having trouble meeting people, WTF!!!!!!? Now maybe their requirements are to strict I don't know, but this right here is proof of what I have been saying all along about the majority of the people here. Shoples is their name I believe..?

Now at first when I read their profile I immediately figured another dude posting his wife's pics and pretending to be a cpl. But being listed as a cpl and always having to make an excuse to meet as a single male would get old to everyone and most likely no one would meet him so he changed the profile so he can say they play separate to hopefully get some action. Don't know if they are for real or not, but I will volunteer to meet her for all you people just to make sure she is real....LOL.

I'd like to say this to everyone.... This all is just my opinion. You all can be your own judges on these people I post about. Don't take my word for it, find out for yourself. But at least some of the ones I've named you will know not to put too much time and effort into meeting. Or at the very least you will be informed on how they act.

Plus this is kinda fun!


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

8/27/2015 8:42 am

Ok, so I talked about the girl named "Boo", well the other day I was on and she made a status update, something along the lines of...:wish I had better luck meeting guys". Now what I didn't tell you was one of the other reasons she couldn't meet was cause she was sick. So, if she was "sick" why would you post a comment like she did knowing 30 guys would comment about meeting her that very moment...? I commented on it, which I probably shouldn't have. Anyway, she messaged me and asked why I was making shitty comments on her status. I didn't recall them being shitty but sometimes its all in which side you are looking at it from, that being said all comments were the truth. So I kinda was screwing with her knowing I had no interest in her at all anymore. Sorry knew it wasn't going anywhere so what was the point, right? As I was doing this she sent me a message saying she wasn't interesting in meeting me anymore....LMFAO!!! I thought I made that clear to her sunday night that I wasn't interested, guess she didn't get it.

Yea I know I was wrong for screwing with her, but really, don't make a status update knowing you aren't going to meet someone cause you are "sick". Honestly, I think the girl just needs a big hug! lol


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

8/29/2015 8:03 pm

Ok people, Google "tineye" and use it on all photos you see here and you will find a lot of fakes! That Nikkiparis" or whatever out of Columbus, yea all them guys going nuts over a fake profile...lol!

So I tried to meet a girl from the New Philadelphia/Dover area, "Sweetsomething". We were going to go fishing with some outdoor side fun, yea didn't happen but at least I got to go fishing...lol. At the last minute the excuse came, as I figured it would. I kinda got pissed but expected it. We have tried to meet a few times but schedules never seemed to allow it. I told her to contact me if she ever wanted to meet, so I deleted her contact info out of my phone since I don't expect that text...lol.

Here's a thought.... If you are in a relationship and the other person doesn't want to have sex with you or isn't very interested in it, the problem may be you...?

That being said, I noticed a member I mentioned has seemed to left. I have chatted with this person and she told me her bf doesn't have any interest in her when it comes to sex. Now that made me start to wonder since she was young and he was older...? Usually sex isn't the issue in that scenario! Now she had met a guy who was rough and she liked it, said "he's a keeper"! Well, I don't think he felt the same way... Actually I'm sure he didn't! I'm wondering if her partner isn't the problem in their sex life...?

That is why I said, if you're in a relationship and your partner doesn't have/want sex with you, maybe you are the problem! So take a good long look in the mirror.

I'm not pointing a finger at anyone! It's just sometimes we as people tend to not think we ourselves could be the problem. Something to think about!


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

8/29/2015 8:07 pm

Oh and I also wanted to say that there is a good chance this girl will come back under another name if she already hasn't. I kinda called her out on her status update so she will most likely change her name and start over...?

Oh I noticed that cpl from Cleveland that wanted the face pics before chatting or something like that, changed their name again I think...lol.


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

9/15/2015 12:05 am

Ok well I have been extremely busy with work and had no time to post anything, Yeah I know you all are just lost without me...lol. I know better tho.

So.... I got this email and it said all I had to do was make an icebreaker and I would get a free gold membership! Know wonder there are so many "cpls" here that are just guys posting their wife's picture...LOL.

I also noticed a "new" member, a female from strasburg. Her name is naughtynurse or something like that, but anyway I know she has been here a while under another name. I remember her cause she always had an excuse. Big surprise I know!...lol. She should have at least changed her profile pic if she is going to try to be "new". It safe to assume she is just another game player or attention seeker, who knows. Just something for the guys in my area to think about before wasting time.

Another is Utopia from Mt Vernon area. We chatted and of course she expressed interest, or that is what she said anyway, but as usual when opportunity arose she of course don't want to chat...lol. Another one to consider. I figured from the beginning she just liked to talk about it but go no further. I was bored at that moment so chatting to someone just killed time.

Oh I think that one girl from Kent changed her name again...LOL! I wonder if she has to have someone help her get dressed in the mornings cause she can't make up her own mind...?


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

9/15/2015 1:36 pm

HAHAHAHA!!!!

OK I just have to tell this....! The latest and greatest loser of the bunch....

aela_longlegs or something like that. I noticed she posted a status update about her leaving. SO I emailed her and tried not to sound rude about it, but she took it that way, unfortunately the truth isn't usually pretty! So anyway she got all upset and I apologized several times in my response. I in no way shape or form wanted to be rude, just honest. So I explained how we had chatted under another ID and nothing come of it. SHe automatically thought she passed on me and got all cocky saying how she was glad she did and some other stuff I can't remember anymore from laughing so hard. The sad part is she was calling my all kinds of names and telling me how rude I was but in her responses she was way more rude than I was, but she was intentionally being rude, where I was being honest.....LOL.

So anyway truth be told I actually passed on her, or well just stopped wasting my time. I could see clearly she was here for nothing more than attention with her posting the few pics and videos and her getting on webcam. After I stated that she got even more upset. ANd now after I think about it her status update was nothing more than to seek even more attention, so its safe to assume the guys in our area finally gave up on her and no one was wasting time...? Who knows I could be wrong!

One question I asked and I asked for a reason was, have you met anyone from here? Her response was like most and was yes I have met many but I'm not telling you. SO I figured she probably hasn't met anyone shes just trying to cover her butt, but in case she has if someone who has met her want to admit to it feel free to comment, email or message me and I will retract all this. Don't look for that to happen...LOL.

Moral of the story.... Don't be over confident, cocky and just assume you passed on someone because you are female and the other person is a male, not all guys on here are desperate or willing to waste time on someone who isn't going anywhere! Yea sorry hun but you made a complete ass of yourself, wish I would have saved the emails.


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

9/16/2015 7:19 pm

So earlier I was surfing through profiles. I clicked on one that I had mentioned here but didn't state her name. As I'm reading through everything I get to the testimonials section and she actually had 4! Three out of the 4 were just guys commenting on her but you could clearly see in the comments they didn't meet, I'm assuming they posted in the wrong spot (?), so anyway the 4th one was a comment like they had met. Now I'm not going to say it was a fake comment, but it sure seemed that way. One was anticipating his meeting with her but hasn't commented further on that. They comments were all made before I said anything about her so don't read into anything there. I'm going to have to go back and look because I'm thinking there was something else about that that I am forgetting or getting confused and I don't want to comment about it yet.


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

9/16/2015 7:41 pm

Here's another "attention seeker"......

WineandFun10*** In their profile they have stated "single dudes stop messaging!" Well now, I bet they don't want you to stop watching her cam or to come in her "private Chatroom" to praise her...LOL.

****News Flash**** If you don't want single males to contact you don't click on Men when it asks you who you are willing to meet!!! Now I know that won't stop all but it will make it to where they won't show up on their list of people.

Yep that was a hard one to figure out...LOL. Classic Attention Seeker.


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

9/17/2015 6:27 am

If you are going to email me cause I named you *****eager92***** at least have the testicles to accept a response, otherwise it makes you look like a sad individual. You should also think about why you was named. Instead of getting all butthurt cause I named you maybe you should be all butthurt because you put yourself in a position to be named!

Now ***eager92's**** response was that I was all upset cause they didn't want to meet me, that is not the case. In fact, they/she/he always watched my cam when I was on and enjoyed it and also offered several times for me to come visit her but her neighbor was a family member and she never knew when they were going to come home. Which I honestly didn't think she would have me come to her house as that is getting a little personal so I figure it was just her way of trying to keep me interested in them? But she always showed interest. I'm thinking we was going to try to accidentally on purpose bump into each other for a fun meet but that never panned out either.

Moral to the story.... if you are going to email, allow a response or I will respond here!

***Shooples**** or something like that out of Medina also did the same thing in their email. They actually got all upset and I didn't even name them until now. Don't know about everyone else but that makes me wonder...lol. Either way the wife or woman in the pics is HOT!!!!lol.


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

9/17/2015 6:48 am

Here's another good one....... ****Fitcouple**** from Wadsworth or Barberton area, their profile states.... "do not message us w/out pics of, body, face, and sexual parts"..... Now I have no issue with sending all that, but considering they don't have a face pic posted, only a partial one that you can't see clearly the others are covered by the flash or a star, I think that is a little ignorant of them. Starting off with a body pic and then chatting to see if you click with someone then trading face/sexual parts pics is understandable but demanding you send a face body and sexual parts pic or don't message...LOL.

Oh well I'm sure almost every guy on here has done as they asked, wonder how many have actually received a response or met with them...?


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

9/17/2015 8:06 am

Honesty goes a long way but it isn't always pretty! It seems a few people have gotten hurt by my posts. Again, honesty isn't always pretty! I'm not sorry for anything I have posted that I can think of. Like I had said, these posts are all my own opinion.

Posting this blog started out as just having some fun and pointing out the idiocies of people, the fakes, the attention seekers and time wasters. I know for a fact many people have ran across several of the types of people I have named.

A great example is someone who list they are looking for males when in fact their profiles says for males not to contact.... Uh ok well maybe you shouldn't have listed them as someone you are looking for...lol.

Stuff like that is why I started this.

I knew from the very beginning I would get no comments from anyone else. Too many are afraid they will be shunned by the majority for stepping up and speaking out. I knew this would happen, I don't care. I don't expect to meet anyone after posting this. I figured I would get put on a lot of peoples blocked list, which is fine since there was no chance of me meeting with them anyway. It would be nice if when put on someones blocked list it would stop their profile from showing up on my home page but you can't have it all.

I have received many emails, mostly supporting what I have posted but a few not so supportive ones, which I expected.


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

9/17/2015 8:46 am

Sorry got interrupted by the UPS man....lol

The problem I see here is people come in not looking for attention but when they do get it they become addicted to it. So instead of being honest with people and say "hey, I enjoy chatting with you but I have no interest in meeting you" they let it go and string people along. Mainly because if they did tell people that, they would no longer chat with them or give them any more attention.

Here is another thing to think about.... The people telling you how great your boobs, ass, whatever yada yada yada is are also telling that same thing to 100 other people in hopes of meeting with them. So its not like they are really meaning anything they say, its just words! You can really see some inflated egos from the attention they receive, its a shame they don't get it...lol

So in the end this was something I did to inform others of who is most likely to waste your time along with other things. I encourage others to go ahead and try with these people, I have nothing to lose.

I also enjoyed looking at profiles and pointing out some funny stuff, like the lady who keeps changing her name from Kent. It is nothing against her and I personally don't care, I just think it is funny.

Now I do not know any of these people I have posted about personally, just from this site.

Everyone have fun!


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

9/17/2015 2:17 pm

LadyT1970 is the latest and greatest fake of the bunch. The only reason I say this is due to the fact her pics are found on several different porn sites. Learn to use "tineye" people...lol

Oh yeah before you say how real she is, just go and check them. How sad people like this have to come here and be so fake!

BTW not all pics are fake.


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

9/17/2015 3:17 pm

    Quoting eager92:
    Heres my comment, you are just a pathetic loser that cant get laid and you are taking your anger out on those that wont fuck you. Guess what, I never watched your pathetic cam, I only told you I did. Seriously watching some hairy gross single guy pretending to be a cpl jack off isn't my idea of hot!! If you think everyone here is fake you are welcome to leave. This site would be much better off with out assholes like you.
Thank You so much for your insight.....

Well first off, You have never watched me on cam under this ID, I have never been on with this one.

Second, is the fact you just told everyone here you will say what you need to to keep peoples attention..... "Guess what, I never watched your pathetic cam, I only told you I did" is your exact quote.

Third, Hairy single guys need not apply with you i guess? Oh wait, sorry, "gross single guy". Ok well all of us guys who have some body hair are apparently gross...?lol

Thank You again for clarifying all that in your own words.

What is funny is the fact that you would rather have a bunch of fakes on here instead of real honest people...? That is basically what you have just said. A great example is LadyT1970 that I posted about. A cpl of her pics are from porn sites! You'd rather have someone who won't even post up there own pictures on here chatting with you than someone who is going to be honest and straight forward...?

See, "Fake" is really a generic term. It is a generalization of many different things such as, people who tell you what you want to hear to keep their interests peaked, someone who posts they are looking for males when in fact they aren't. Now I'm sure you are educated enough to understand these things so I don't need to go through all of them. Now I don't believe I have said that these people are not real people, I believe they are! But a few I highly doubt are really cpls or fems. Even if they are most if not all are still fake to a point they are trying to give the impression they are going to meet when in fact they have no plans on it.

I think you have gotten the point by now.

At least you got the asshole part right...LOL


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

9/17/2015 3:44 pm

    Quoting eager92:
    Furthermore, what is ridiculously funny is the fact you bash everyone on this site, yet you do so in a way they cant publicly defend themselves. Interesting, I am sure that everyone reading your blog will realize that you are just a disgruntled unfuckable asshole and see you for what you truly are.
First off I haven't bashed everyone on this site. All I have done is post my personal experiences with them or an opinion on something they have posted in their profile or a status report. just because I think someone is a complete idiot doesn't everyone should think that, it is just my opinion on it.

Think about this....

You look at someones profile and see they want you to jump through a bunch of hoops to gain their attention. You do so, but get no response. To me that is just rude. Requiring someone to send you a face pic or you won't chat to them is just rude and shallow! The sad part is, people do it in hopes of something coming of it.... Now I get that it is peoples choice to ask this, but that doesn't mean no one can comment on it. Whoever chooses to reply to them, it is their choice.

Another is a lady who stated the guys here have no balls... now either she was talking about the fact that all their pics don't show their testicles or she is referring to them posting all dick pics and no face or body pics... But yet she is posting pics of her boobs....well ok pot meet kettle...lol. Sorry things like that are funny to me.

The lady from Kent who changes her name on a regular basis.. I just pointed it out cause I thought it was funny! She didn't change her profile pic or try to hide who she was and I never said she did either. She just likes to change her name a lot. Wonder if she is related to Mr. Rogers...LOL. Wonder how many will get that one..?

I am certainly not disgruntled, just pointing out and saying what others are thinking. Unfuckable, no not at all but funny new word, have to remember that!

What I am is honest, realistic and straight forward. Rough around the edges but I won't pull no punches. If people want that they can come chat with me all they want, if they want to be told what they want to hear, I'll send them your way.


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

9/17/2015 7:32 pm

Oh poor eager has something to prove I see...LOL. So they are doing their best to get me kicked off the site. Honestly I never figured this would last as long as it has! I figured once I started naming people Polyamory Date would step in and give me the boot.

Now they seem to think I have dedicated several paragraphs to them, which I haven't, I just tend to get onto something and keep going and going. In reality I initially posted a few sentences about them and then an update. It wasn't till after I posted about them they made a comeback to the site and added a bunch of pics. Maybe it was just a coincidence, I don't know.

So now you all have seen and read their response to my post about them, they seem eager to prove something I thought? I didn't delete it or modify it in any way, but I did respond. If you noticed, they came right out an admitted to being fake (read above posts). I've proven my point about them. I never said they weren't a real cpl, now don't get me wrong I didn't think they were at one point long ago, now I really don't care, you all can be the judge of that. Honestly I'm still wondering....

Oh BTW they have dedicated their profile to me, I'm so honored! lol. Go read it, it's funny and kinda sad considering if they are real and have nothing to hide why bother...? Oh wait I know, they will lose the attention of some people....

There is your cpl of paragraphs eager...LOL/\/\/\

Now i have explained there are many forms of fakes,if not please read from the beginning. When I started this it was in the profile, but I felt it was unfair to put it there and no one could respond, so I moved it here. I welcomed any responses. I've had 3, yes 3, but I deleted one because it was basically a one liner of anger and didn't make much sense, plus I really didn't want to let it go and show the posters ignorance. But I did allow their other 2 posts.

I like everyone else have been rejected at some point. Most of these people I listed I just got bored with and went on my way. I've had more rejections from people I had no interest in meeting than anything, yea no shit, I posted about one or two of them. Or I have been rejected because I am married, which i completely understand. So came from people who felt I wasn't their type and others who are looking for a unicorn or needle in a haystack, posted about them too...lol. So to say this was all because I'm some horrific ugly hairy ogre isn't true...... wait, no the ugly hairy ogre part is true, but I'm not upset by any means about rejection.

I mean for goodness sakes why would/should anyone be upset about that, this is the internet! Where men are women and women are none existent... ok not really but you get the point.

OK so I figure this acct will be gone soon along with the blog so I'll say this and I'm sure most will agree....

Everyone should have noticed the blue strip across the top when you logged in. It is about computerized fake profiles that other dating sites allow to generate more business. Now I have never really noticed anything like that here, but I have noticed many fake accts and nothing gets done about them. I don't think Polyamory Date has anything to do with them, but they don't do anything about them! If I were a paying member I would be highly upset! For what you pay to be a gold member here they should be checking everyone out, but I also know that is almost impossible.

There is a site that can be used to check pictures, it is called Tineye, and Polyamory Date should be using it! I used it earlier and found a lady, who I thought was actually a genuine person, has pics on her profile that aren't her! They are on 33 different porn sites! It is stuff like that, that need to be stopped or else this place is going to be worse than it already is!

So on the email front. I have received many more positive responses than negative. The few negative ones actually turned positive once I explained a few things, so not all bad.

Now I'm probably not going to post many more fakes up here since it seems to be only me doing so. I don't have a problem taking one for the team, but it seems a lot of people just want to hear what they want to hear instead of the truth. guess people come here to live a fantasy but not actually have that fantasy become a reality.

So if this is all gone tomorrow, I'm happy. It is out and those who have read it now know what or who to look out for.

So good luck everyone and have fun, after all isn't that what this is supposed to be....?


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

9/23/2015 6:36 am

    Quoting eager92:
    I do not have to prove anything to you or anyone else. I really do not care what your pathetic opinion is. We go to many clubs and lifestyle events and have many friends in the lifestyle. Those that know us, know we are real. I do not have to prove anything to you. We all seek certain things in the lifestyle and each of us have our own certain style of swinging. We know many couples that only want to play with the female half of a couple, couples that only play with other couples. Does that make them vanilla or fake? No. Your profile in itself is also fake as your wife has no clue you are on here. Since you have a couples profile, and she doesn't know about it, I guess that makes you fake as well. I'm sorry that you cant find anyone interested in being with you. Guess maybe you are the problem, not everyone else. Have a nice life.
Well good for you!

But you should probably read from the beginning of this blog as I had stated what this profile was about from the very beginning.


fakesrevealed 48M/52F

10/3/2015 12:00 pm

    Quoting  :

Ok well obviously you didn't read this blog from the beginning or you didn't comprehend what you read...?

Now since you have decided to come forth and actually speak in the open instead of emailing me I think its only fair to let everyone know that you are here in defense of your friend Eager92. Well, I assume its Eager92 you are trying your best to defend or help credit, whatever you want to call it...lol

I had explained in detail in the emails my point and you understood where I was coming from but was upset I was calling your friend a fake! I never said they weren't real people.

The word "fake" has several different meanings, we went over this in the emails and I said it here, I'm not going to explain it again, go back and read from the beginning.

As for my profile, I have stated from the beginning this profile was not for playing purposes, just to inform some people in the area of who to watch out for and not waste any time with. What is posted in my profile now is a joke, (that you obviously didn't get or don't want to) toward all the "cpls" that are really just guys. You know exactly what I'm talking about, you know the guys who always get on cam, alone...LOL. I think we talked about this in our emails also...? It may have been someone else?

Sorry but I couldn't read all of your post. I just skimmed over it.


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