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Phishers and hookers
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Phishers and hookers I AM looking for feedback on this as I seek understanding of some of my current opinions. I've been on and off here since the mid-90's. I feel bad for men that get suckered into these scams. Since Craigslist removed their personals, tons of hookers have flooded the adult/hookup sites like this one. Nothing wrong with that if you're interested. The tips below will help you find them. Because of new laws, outright solicitation, etc. is illegal for the website. That means, I post on my profile, "I'll come to you for a price" or "i play by the hourly rate" and while I may or may not get into trouble, the website will be shut down. So, they have to be a bit creative but still hint at what they want - pay for play. Again, if you're into that, you're welcome for the tips. Hookers: includes words/phrases like, trade, barter, generous, anytime anywhere, need help with bills, email me at ...., text me at ...., etc., struggling (student/newly divorced/separated), spoil me. I'll add to this as I see them, this is just the list that comes to mind. A new one but obvious, a 24 yr old: HMU LOWEST 100 Phishers: includes some of the above. Should you start emailing outside this system it eventually gets to: joining a site, get an "ID" (this is used by those that advertise something like fuck me now, but, i have to make sure you're not some criminal), their bra size does not match their pic, their pic looks "professional" (now it's using selfies but the same selfie has different names and stats). In emails they all have either no parents or one of them died (or is dying) and from 2 different countries. They currently reside somewhere other than their profile states AND they are not of the variety of women that travel (there are a lot of these types of women that are valid). They also are quite detailed in their information about themselves and want you to provide the same. This gives them, location, probably a first and maybe a last name, by knowing where you were raised, etc., a profile is created. Every bit of info you provide, goes into that profile. At some point they have enough to use your identity or blackmail (as in you're<b> cheating </font></b>or, you've a "responsible" job where activities on a site like this will get you fired.) Phishers can never seem to cam/vid chat. Not talking about nudes or whatever, just a plain old vid chat like you might have with your mom. Verification that you're actually communicating with the person they say they are is impossible. In either of these categories but mostly the phishing kind, a woman gets on here looking for a husband or soul mate. So, her soul mate/husband is someone that is a swinger and will allow her to swing, playing together or separate, someone that cheats, etc. Now, it is possible that people are looking for that. No problem. It usually translates to the woman wanting someone to pay her bills (or help with them), provide a house, medical, food, etc., someone to go to swinger parties with to hook up with someone else. I get that but I don't know why marriage would be part of that. Usually, the pics are gorgeous women younger than 35. Searching (finding the same) pics on the web usually turn up very surprising results. Same pic, very different stats. Yes, people do things to hide their identity in case someone recognizes them. Some women are looking for their husbands (and the other way around), A phisher can never meet you. Doesn't matter where or when, some excuse to not meet and often it's "i want to get to know you better." Some of that is valid, of course. A lot is not. Someone is reading this and thinking what an asshole I am and are totally not interested. That's ok, LOL. From blogs and profiles, IM's, emails you do get a sense of the person. That sense should be enough to meet at noon in front of a police station, ya know? 1 minute in person is worth 10 hours of texting when it comes to chemistry and compatibility - if you're looking for that. Spelling and grammar indicate she is using a translator page. I can understand texting on a phone and being drunk but when it is consistent, it wreaks of fake. I am perhaps more sensitive to this since I have , acquaintances, friends in many countries. Some of the languages I know, some not and sometimes I use translator pages (if you know the language try using the translator - some of the translations are hysterical). It comes down to what YOU want and are looking for. Most are not looking for phishers so be wary. I will also add to update your cupid settings. Being an old fart via calendar but a 28yr old in mind, i look at those things and try to not bother the women that have an "X" on the age thing. Want only a black man? Check it. Don't a black man? Check all that apply. (Absolutely nothing against blacks, it is simply an example and many women are looking for bbc - big black cocks). Tell us men what you are looking for and be precise - a friend with benefits is not a fuck buddy. It is presumed that if you're looking for more than one hook up there would or should be some kind of compatibility. The difference? A fwb might take you to dinner/movie, etc., whereas an fb just drops by, ya'll have fun and he leaves. If you're into or not into one nighters, or don't care, say so. The more you specify the better your chances on getting what you want and need and not have to through 1000s of frogs. And hon, if you're "just looking" specify what types of pics you want to see and if you'd like "tributes" (that's a pic of a guy's cum on your pic). If you're not going to meet under any circumstances (nothing wrong with that), just say so. Comments? Insight? |
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THere are far too many fakes on this site but the way it's set up attracts them. You really need to have your wits about you to survive here.  ~~Anais Nin~~
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