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Torn? 🤔 Never... Although, that's why restaurants serve a brunch buffet. Hmmm... 🤔❗❗😊 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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The first and last time I was torn was when I started seeing someone and my ex came along saying she wanted to give things another go with me. I stupidly ended the relationship to get back with my ex, by which time my ex had changed her mind. I was furious. When swinging as a couple, there wasn't really a choice to make as we tended to meet other couples and effectively just swapped partners but always in the same room. But we only swapped if we both wanted to and obviously only if the other couple were game. 
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I can think of examples of times I was torn in different ways and times where the choice was insanely easy and times where a choice was never necessary. If dating multiple men on this site has taught me anything, it is that my husband is the BEST of all for me to share my complete life with. Not just because we've been together for almost 30 years. Not just because we have two great kids and a wonderful home together. Because he is truly a good man...a great dad...and good life partner. For the most part, while i have developed several close friendships with men I have been with from this site, I only had one where I really felt like I had "fallen for" him. And unfortunately, he couldn't cope with loving someone who also loved someone else and it never went where it could have. It did teach me that I have a bit of a polyamorous side. My best analogy is that when I had my second child, my heart expanded to love both children. Love for daughter didn't diminish love for son. Same with this situation...my love for another man didn't change my feelings for my husband. If anything, it made me appreciate him more. Then there have been some instances over the last several years where I had men that didn't want to fully respect the rules between hubs and me. And my pleaser nature makes it really difficult to be the heavy and the enforcer. So I did feel "torn" because pleasing one would displease the other. And it has caused friction at times both between me and hubs and between me and my partners. And while my heart is big and capable of so much love (and lust), time is a limited factor and sometimes choices have to be made. I have to prioritize my family and my job and my regular life at times. And sometimes I am torn on that too. While I have several men I see from time to time, I don't think I have ever really had to say "no" to any of them...but I can think of a time I said "Sorry Wednesday is already booked, but I can do Thursday". But that was like ONCE in 6.5 years. LOL
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Yes I have been torn. I came very very close to ending a very long term relationship for a woman I perceived as the be all end all, the answer to all of my prayers, my day dreams and fantasies. In the end it fell apart just before I made drastic changes. Thank god. Initially it hurt worse than anything I ever experienced so it was hard to stay focused on my every day life and relationship.
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"It is a risk you take on this site by choice, knowing it can and does happen.." Some say the biggest risk is not taking any risks. Have a great weekend Joy ...
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I have been in this type situation before. And now I am in it again. I am married and love my wife but things are rocky. Now there is a woman who has always been in my life since we were kids. She's married. We both want each other but don't want to hurt anyone. Now I know the right answer is to let things be and move on but we are both hurting from wanting to be with each other Wanttodoall2 postbox
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I wrote recently about the re-appearance of my friend D. Perhaps some will recall I met her via my friend N, when the recently separated D was in "need" of some boudoir photographs. I became EXTREMELY close to D. N was more of a fuck-buddy, and she was fine with that / happy for us both. AND OH YEAH - TODAY I got to spend some time with D for the first time in almost three years.  Friday Final Jeopardy Volume 3 KL, on HNW Fun TShirts [post 3312759] My Private Post - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets – Anything you write here is just between us
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Ya just told both so I had 2 girlfriends for a bit ! tired, but heaven hehe! who was I too say no ! have great weekend author
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I keep my far and few between extracurricular activities secret and private. I tend to prefer married or in a serious relationship ladies in that way we both understand we are filling a need. I do not want to hurt my lady and could never choose another over her unless things were that bad. I am over sexed I think. I am much more adventurous. I do get frustrated with her limits. I guess that’s what makes me Insatiable. Do I care for the ladies I have met? Yes. Are they friends? Yes. Do I love them? Yes but only to a point. I cannot let my heart go there because nothing good can come of it. Wow aren’t you glad you asked that question lol
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... happens daily ♫ Just slip out the back Jack, make a little plan Stan, you don't need a decoy Roy..♫ ~ 50 Ways To Leave Your Lover by Paul Simon ~Weee~ 𝕋𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕜𝕤 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕓𝕖𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕪𝕠𝕦
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Interesting enough, when it ended with the person I almost left my LTR for, it seemed like the worst thing that could have happened. In the end it turned out to be the best thing that could have happened. The ripple affect of positive things that happened never would have happened if I left for the other person. So I am grateful I stayed.
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My wife had betrayed me a long time with her boss, tried to hide it by cheating with another man - and after I realised it, I kicked her out of our apartment. Some time later, I met another lady and we fell in love. In the meantime, my wife was not happy with her life, she asked for help and went into a psychosomatic clinic for treatment. After a few months, she told me, that she regretted, what she did. And that we should re-start our relationship, because she would love me. I was torn between two ladies. And decided for my wife, and broke another heart. Now we are devorced, but between there were some good years and two wonderful kidz.  Giacomo  Chevalier de Seingalt Mehr * More: in meinem - in my Blog and my group Casanovas Separee -Privat Chat PRIVATE POSTBOX* Giacomo Casanova in a Nutshell* Giacomo Casanova auf die Schnelle
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Because my wife and I are honest, we've never had to "choose"... it was always; "let's make time for this"... It also means that those we "choose" to become intimate with must also be honest as well..... My wife and I do not take kindly to those that just wish to fuck but promise a relationship... We allow for time to reveal the true nature of those we choose, The time spent is well worth the rewards that follow. TO each their own... mileage may vary The Hubby
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