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Blogs > CUMHANDLEME > My Primal ... Urges

A more discreet collar & leash ~ would you wear it ???  

CUMHANDLEME 61F  
199 posts
5/30/2015 12:00 pm
A more discreet collar & leash ~ would you wear it ???
I think this is very discreet, classy & refined. If anyone noticed while out in public, I'm sure it would turn heads. But would it turn heads to the degree if she had it around her neck with a leash ?

There are some aspects of BDSM that speak to me but this isn't one of them. I've never understood the ownership concept at this level. This image has sparked my curiosity to read more about this form of ownership. I'm unclear why anyone would want this as the dynamic in their D/s relationship. I wonder if I educate myself, will I have a better understanding ?

If I choose to be in an owned or collared relationship, this would be my 'day collar' because I think it's sexy as fuck. I've always been turned on by the not so obvious sides of sexuality.

So blogland, are any of you in a D/s owned or collared relationship ? Would you wear this collar or are you more of a traditionalist with your gear ?

Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!
CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
6/1/2015 9:18 pm
    Quoting scoupe42:
    I guess, I'm just the old fashion type, basically a square!
Nothing wrong with a vanilla lifestyle my friend. I think living life honestly is the best life ... even if it's a square !
Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


scoupe42 60M
Ask me for a photo

6/1/2015 3:46 pm

 I guess, I'm just the old fashion type, basically a square!


CUMHANDLEME 61F  
794 posts
5/31/2015 7:55 pm
    Quoting lil_whimsical:
    While I've been conversing with the "Dom" I've discussed (the former college/pro FB player/finance guy) ... he has expressed an interest in collaring and ownership. I'm totally open-minded, so I'm fine with it.

    Knowing D/s ... I know that subs retain the power and if you do have a true Dom ... they're pretty much the "pleaser" in the relationship and the one who does most of the work and who is the most committed. So yes - if there was someone who wanted a subtle version of that - that isn't going to freak out my family, daughter, or high school friends ... I'm fine with it.

    The things he suggested that I had to say no to ... nipple piercings. No, I like my nipples as they are, and even in rough play, I don't want too much damage done to them. Plus, I still will lactate if my boobs are played with in the right way ... I like that. I don't want holes in my nipples. Plus, I like going bra-less sometimes and don't want the attention of the hardware also showing.

    Second No ... he asked if I would be ok with labial piercings (rings) ... and him putting a lock on them.

    Uh ... No. How am I supposed to go jogging, play tennis, or do anything with a couple of rings and a lock hanging from my vagina? Not happening.
Piercing and locking either my nipples or vagina .... that would be a big FUCK NO !!!
Do you have any Primal Urges ... I do, please CUMHANDLEME and explore some of my naughty and nice Primal ... Urges with me !!!


lil_whimsical 53F
8781 posts
5/31/2015 2:47 pm

 While I've been conversing with the "Dom" I've discussed (the former college/pro FB player/finance guy) ... he has expressed an interest in collaring and ownership. I'm totally open-minded, so I'm fine with it.

Knowing D/s ... I know that subs retain the power and if you do have a true Dom ... they're pretty much the "pleaser" in the relationship and the one who does most of the work and who is the most committed. So yes - if there was someone who wanted a subtle version of that - that isn't going to freak out my family, daughter, or high school friends ... I'm fine with it.

The things he suggested that I had to say no to ... nipple piercings. No, I like my nipples as they are, and even in rough play, I don't want too much damage done to them. Plus, I still will lactate if my boobs are played with in the right way ... I like that. I don't want holes in my nipples. Plus, I like going bra-less sometimes and don't want the attention of the hardware also showing.

Second No ... he asked if I would be ok with labial piercings (rings) ... and him putting a lock on them.

Uh ... No. How am I supposed to go jogging, play tennis, or do anything with a couple of rings and a lock hanging from my vagina? Not happening.


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