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Bisexuality
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Bisexuality I generally use my blog in a blanket sort of way to answer questions i may be asked frequently or repeatedly. Lately i have been asked a lot why i am not into women so much anymore. After going back through my profile i can see where some may get that idea but it is patently untrue. I loooove women as much today as i ever have...which is saying quite a bit lol  . I guess i don't mention the women thing much on Polyamory Date because usually when it comes to women i have made my best connections at clubs, bars, or other outings and such. I have met with a few off of Polyamory Date and had great times but in general it has been easier to connect with them in places i mentioned. Especially gay bars of course . As a self described and easily proven submissive i of course seem to find myself drawn to the butch type of woman, not always of course but most times. They in fact can be even much more dominant than a male at times. Usually when i go to the gay bars i will inevitably dress in a manner to catch the attention of all the butches i can. Whether it be the short little cocktail mini dress or the short, tight little<b> skirts. </font></b>Since i have legs all the way up to my ass as my daddy would say lol I can usually catch their attention in those particular outfits. They will ask me to dance or buy me drinks. Once they feel i have become sufficiently inebriated they will begin to let their hands roam whether it be on the dance floor or sitting at the bar or at a table. It almost always starts with the rubbing of my legs lol. I don't stop them though i may play a little shy or coy when the advances start. Sometimes the advances start quickly and quite aggressively lol with the ass squeezing on the dance floor or the grinding against me and such. Usually once they lean in to kiss me and i let them or i don't move their roaming hands off my body they assume they have me sufficiently tamed. At that point I've had quite a few that didn't even speak they just stood up, grabbed me roughly by the arm and led me to wherever they were taking me which usually was the restroom though sometimes it has been the alley outside or their cars. Once they have me to themselves they usually become even more aggressive and dominant as they do what they want to me which many times has led to me leaving without panties lol . Most times they don't want or even expect any reciprocation on my part though when they do they usually make sure to tell me exactly what i'm going to do and exactly HOW i'm going to do it lol. There have been a few times when i have gone to the restroom on my own and when i come out of the stall some butch would be standing there waiting for me and proceed to push me back in the stall as they close the stall door behind us. Sometimes it can get a little out of hand though like when i return to the bar next time and the butch that had me last time thinks that they own me now and want everyone else there to know it. Usually this is not a big deal but once in a while i may want something or someone different and it can lead to some tense situations lol . If you've never been a woman having two women ready to fight over you...you've missed out lol . It can be quite seductive. Although i have had one time where BOTH decided that they were going to have me together instead of fighting over me lol. Needless to say, THAT was an awesome night! Let me just say, i realize my lifestyle is not for everyone and i realize that many people judge me for it. Well frankly, there is a reason it is called MY lifestyle...because it works for ME...not everyone else. I live for today and tonight because i am too well aware of how short this life is and I intend to have fun MY way while i am here . Also let me just say, I in no way intended or intend to offend anyone with the label "butch". I have been led to understand that this is an acceptable label but if it is not I apologize for any unintended offence.   HAVE A SEXY DAY |
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i had a former girlfriend who was openly bi. it never really phased me. it seems bi women, and i guess men have come forward. respect is the key to everything.
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Great blog with no holding back. I've only recently become bisexual (2012) and I'd be pretty much like you if I found myself in those same situations or circumstances.
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lol! And I am on this site to find a woman because I find it SOOOO much easier to get a guy in the places you describe - bars, clubs, outings, etc. I guess I could go to gay bars, but after the scene you described, I don't think I'm ready, hahaha. That is not at all a judgment of your lifestyle, just a comment on my bi-sexual bravery level at this point.
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**Standing Ovation**
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NOBODY SHOULD BE TELLING YOU WHAT TO DO---ITS YOUR LIFE AND YOUR BODY AND YOUR FREE TO ENJOY IT ANY WAY YOU SEEM FIT! JUST MY OPINION.
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Relationship/Orientation labels are so blaze. Some might consider some one like me a sex addict, perv, horny old man etc..... I like to think of myself as a pleasure addict (both giving and recieving) if it feels good...I say do it. Have fun....you only live once.
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Enjoy the life in your way don't think about its short or long
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