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Stuck in a box  

rm_Slinkie12 57F
7 posts
2/8/2015 12:47 pm
Stuck in a box
Well I'm new to this site, and how to's so I will just say I'm looking for suggestions on how to get out of sexual box I am in due to unhealthy relationships in the past. So I ask you for advice on how to get out of it.
mindworker1970 53M
328 posts
2/8/2015 1:47 pm

 Spend some time chatting with people. Figure out what you want, and what you don't want or are not interested in. Some people will tell you this is just a sex/ hook up site, but you can find so much more if you are honest with yourself and don't accept anything less than what you want. And what you want might change with time and experience, so go with it.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
2/8/2015 4:42 pm

 Find someone that would not judge you for your past and emphasize a friendship until you are comfortable.Not everyone is here trying to exploit others or even remotely buy into the claim that this site makes.
Whenever I read that I have to go back and make sure I didn't read Adult Fiend Finder.JB
Using more than all the road!


burblesback07 42M
531 posts
2/17/2015 1:25 pm

 Put as many exes as you can between the unhealthy ex and yourself, fuck the past its done, out of your control and when you really think about it, living through a shitty past is the best tool for avoiding it happening again, like a "What Not To Do This Time" manual !!!!!

Couldnt help but notice that while youre trying to get out of a " sexual box " every guy on here is trying to get into one, get it ???

Good luck with it Slinkie,
(insert slightly adapted cheesy quote.......)

Youre the captain of your soul, youre the master of your fate


rm_Slinkie12 57F
3 posts
2/18/2015 1:45 am

 Thank you for your insightful words. I appreciate you taking the time and addressing my issues. I do agree with all of you.


impala19613 62M  
39 posts
11/30/2016 4:21 am

 you need to get out with friends


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