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What (Not Who) Comes (Not Cums) First?
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What (Not Who) Comes (Not Cums) First? This question is in reference to facts and emotions. Being a Virgo (that’s OK go ahead hate me the line has started just around the corner  ) I am essentially a logical person first. I am in my head a lot, perhaps too much sometimes, but not always, as my experiences here would indicate. I figure things out as best I can and then emote if I feeeeel doing so is warranted. Some people seem to be the opposite of that. They panic or put out other displays of emotion, sometimes to extremes or what is sometimes called around here draaama, and then they sometimes figure out (sometimes not) that the situation is not as they had speculated it was.  An example: A now ex g/f (MG) who, when we first met was, extremely upset over something that had been said about her and a friend of hers (Tammy), by someone on FalseBook. Me being curious about the online comment I asked whom the person was: “It is a friend on FalseBook” says her, “Oh,” says I and I ask where else do you know them from? “Nowhere else just FalseBook” says she. “So you have never met this person” asks I, “Well no” says she. “Is this person related to you or Tammy?” asks her I do, “Well no” says she. “So why does this person’s, who you don’t really know and who doesn’t really know you, opinion even matter?” asks I . . . silence. Thankfully the subject never came up again. Sidebar: Don’t ask why I wrote that as if I was Captain Jack Sparrow – I have no friggin clue. Another example: During the various blog glitches (and non-glitches) there have been here, many people panicked or complained without knowing what was actually going on. Some have speculated about what the cause was, but they couldn’t have known because the site’s tech and programming people did not know what the problem was – IF ANY. I have a bit of trouble understanding this, why all the drama, but in reality I don’t really need to know IMO – it just is. But the question still is: What Comes First Facts Or Emotions?  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself. |
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Sometimes I can't help it, and emotion comes first. I try to wait for facts before I start ranting about things though. There is a male blogger on here that said a bunch of mean shit about my blog and my followers a little while ago and it took everything I had not to stoop to his level and fire back. That petty shit is beneath me though, and to respond would be lowering myself to his level.  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Sometimes I can't help it, and emotion comes first. I try to wait for facts before I start ranting about things though. There is a male blogger on here that said a bunch of mean shit about my blog and my followers a little while ago and it took everything I had not to stoop to his level and fire back. That petty shit is beneath me though, and to respond would be lowering myself to his level.
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facts, and as far as bitching about the site on you re own blog.. I have learned.. doesn't work.. you need to tell the site group.. or some how get in touch with site tech.. anyway.. I got with facts.... I m libra.. does that matter , I think not.. but you re Virgo so , well, I just thought I would throw my sign in.. LOL When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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10/9/2016 2:21 am |
facts, and as far as bitching about the site on you re own blog.. I have learned.. doesn't work.. you need to tell the site group.. or some how get in touch with site tech.. anyway.. I got with facts.... I m libra.. does that matter , I think not.. but you re Virgo so , well, I just thought I would throw my sign in.. LOL face piles of trials with smiles.. MOODY BLUES please feel free to visit my blog happy blogging
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Emotions come 1st, but I try not to react until I have facts, until then, I speculate like a MOFO. The real question I'd like to have answered is when impersonating Captain Jack, which comes 1st, mascara or eye liner?  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I become emotional with personal attacks on my person or on anyone who comments on a post of mine. That is something else I don't get. 90% of the people on this site(s) don't really know who anyone else really is/are. So their opinion is based on zero knowledge of you, or me, or whomever. Why let someones ignorant comment get to you? When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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There are so many glitch they are still working on them. What comes first is always emotions ..Then they investigate the facts afterwards when it too late to take back what ever they said to this person. Excellent post Red.. hugsssssss V When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I Think both parties need to be somewhat on the same page when it comes to the medium their using and work a little harder at meeting the person of interest in person.Diagnosing emotions through an internet site especially people you don't know.Is like counting on the wheel man for a bank job to be there because you got a fairly decent idea of where his heads at so you'll just go ahead with the plan and meet him outside the bank with all the bags. If he doesn't show it won't be that bad since deposits don't make any interest so making that big of a with drawl won't affect anything if your wheel man has an emotional breakdown somewhere between Zuckerberg's information gathering service and Adult glitch finder! When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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If you are an adult, it's facts and only facts, or at least it should be. Once you parse the facts a person can have all the feels they want if that's their thing. And this is into a zodiac thing, it's a human thing. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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You handled that conversation quite well Captain Jack  As far as I am concerned tho, I don't really care so much for drama and drama type situations...Yes my emotions do show up like a ball of wildfire at times and I react, just because I can and I will Most times I will ask myself "Are you fucking kidding me" and if I am kidding myself I shall gracefully move on.....lol Sometimes and not very often I am angry and do express it...Good god I was pms~ing I know, that's no excuse but hell it's all I got right now....ha ha  I usually just says to meself What The Fuck. that's no excuse but hell it's all I got right now  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Your quite right BL, the assumer is usually the ass. The FalseBook example is an ex I've mentioned to you several times. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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There is more drama on False Book than there is here, personally I like to avoid all the DRAMA everywhere at all costs. Now the site, the only way to know what's causing the glitches is to talk to the site but honestly I can't see us getting any where with them as many of us can't understand what they are saying. Now I know the new system they are putting into place works well in some areas messing up other areas of the site. (IE EXAMPLE) the new cam and IM is great we all get to have our own little cam rooms which I'm totally enjoying because I can have one chat with many people at the same time instead of having a million IM boxes all over my page. Now at the same time the IM and Cam is working great it seems to be affecting emails, and blogging comments. Yes we still are getting booted, people are having a problem at times logging in, white outs, pages taking forever to load. Now the thing is we have to decide which is best for us.. Great Blog today thank you.. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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Thanks A, yes people do tend to assume things without getting the facts. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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10/8/2016 2:34 pm |
Emotions come 1st, but I try not to react until I have facts, until then, I speculate like a MOFO. The real question I'd like to have answered is when impersonating Captain Jack, which comes 1st, mascara or eye liner?
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There are so many glitch they are still working on them. What comes first is always emotions ..Then they investigate the facts afterwards when it too late to take back what ever they said to this person. Excellent post Red.. hugsssssss V Become a blog watcher sweet_vm
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I Think both parties need to be somewhat on the same page when it comes to the medium their using and work a little harder at meeting the person of interest in person.Diagnosing emotions through an internet site especially people you don't know.Is like counting on the wheel man for a bank job to be there because you got a fairly decent idea of where his heads at so you'll just go ahead with the plan and meet him outside the bank with all the bags. If he doesn't show it won't be that bad since deposits don't make any interest so making that big of a with drawl won't affect anything if your wheel man has an emotional breakdown somewhere between Zuckerberg's information gathering service and Adult glitch finder! Using more than all the road!
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If you are an adult, it's facts and only facts, or at least it should be. Once you parse the facts a person can have all the feels they want if that's their thing. And this is into a zodiac thing, it's a human thing.
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There is more drama on False Book than there is here, personally I like to avoid all the DRAMA everywhere at all costs. Now the site, the only way to know what's causing the glitches is to talk to the site but honestly I can't see us getting any where with them as many of us can't understand what they are saying. Now I know the new system they are putting into place works well in some areas messing up other areas of the site. (IE EXAMPLE) the new cam and IM is great we all get to have our own little cam rooms which I'm totally enjoying because I can have one chat with many people at the same time instead of having a million IM boxes all over my page. Now at the same time the IM and Cam is working great it seems to be affecting emails, and blogging comments. Yes we still are getting booted, people are having a problem at times logging in, white outs, pages taking forever to load. Now the thing is we have to decide which is best for us.. Great Blog today thank you.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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