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Are you more attracted to a woman because of her confidence or body type??
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Are you more attracted to a woman because of her confidence or body type?? I never have been a skinny . I have been average, curvy, thick, and now I have crossed over a very small BBW. Confession I am very good with camera angles. Truth be told I am having a difficult time adapting to body. They say beauty comes in all shape and sizes. What I have learned throughout the years is the key sexiness is confidence. Yes your body is your temple however it is your mind that is your biggest sexual organ. I am seductive, sensual, erotic, and some people say I am smart too. Imagine that! I have all these qualities that has nothing to do with the size of body yet men are still find me attractive. It is other women that are the most judgemental. They will be the ones fat shame you and tell you that a man is settling be a " fat" . That we are not desirable. I understand that is their personal opinion however I wonder if other lady friends on feel like we are the ones bringing eachother down. So are questions .. Honesty is the best policy. Are you more attracted a woman by her confidence or body type? Is it the combo of both? Or are you someone loves all shapes and sizes because what makes someone beautiful is their mind? I would love hear your input. Happy Thursday ya! Have you entered current giveaway? is the link   |
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The gremlins keep eating my words. !!
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1/16/2020 10:50 am |
I am personally more attracted to a curvy woman, but yes the personality is the biggest and most important
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I find sexy to be a combo of mind, and body. I like all shapes and sizes. I think a naked woman is a work of art. She needs to feel, and express her sexiness.
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1/16/2020 10:54 am |
I would go with body type. However if they arent confident u wont get anywhere with them cause they dont like being naked
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1/16/2020 10:54 am |
Actually I find it's her looks and personality that comes first... And of course major points for honesty too... The body is just what she uses to move around with... A model type woman with a terrible personality doesn't do it for me. And besides... I think you have a fantastic body hon. You're a  as far as I'm concerned 
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BTW, love the pics.
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1/16/2020 10:56 am |
You look very lovely my friend. I am attracted to a confident woman and her intelligence. O do love a nice body too. Happy Thursday my friend. "Sweet, steamy, sensuous kisses light the bright fires of passionate lust within us." scott6250
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A little bit of both. I am attracted to curvy, full- figured ladies, so the body type is important (but not essential) for me. Once we met in person I am also attracted by her personality and her confidence. I like ladies that are confident with their looks and are aware that I find them incredible sexy. 
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For me, it's a combination of everything....I've met some women who were beautiful and sexy with "perfect" bodies.....however, their personality had serious flaws..... Of course, not all beautiful women are like that......a lot of them have great personalities. I like a woman who has confidence……..and I like women who lack confidence. I However, if they are too confident, and try to force their opinions on others all the time, or totally lack confidence, it can be a turn off.... Some of the best women I've been with, have carried some extra pounds.... I'm far from perfect, and don't expect others to be perfect.....
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For me it is a combination of about 75/25. That is 75% mind and 25% body. Maybe more like 80/20 actually. Ya, I'd say 80/20 now that I'm thinking about it. Don't get me wrong, a hot body is nice but it is one of the less important factors. After all, everyone has a body with similar parts. A sexy mind is much less common and it can more than make up for any physical shortcomings.
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I found that women are women's harshest critics. So, your experience is not surprising to me. I love it when a woman has confidence. And with regards to physical attributes, I think that there is some beauty in any body, no matter what size or shape. Having said that, I do find you very attractive, body and mind.
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You are gorgeous!! Keep showing off that sexy..sexy body of yours!! XOXOX!
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The gremlins keep eating my words. !!
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Queen Janeane, Those are some sweet cheeks. It has always been a mixture of both mind and body. I have met super skinny girls who had complicated sex life due to their mind. Keep it all in prospective, love yourself, love your body, keep peace in your mind and heart.
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Definitely a mix of both....shake and bake!
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Confidence an a mind works for me Beauty comes from within the heart ,all woman are Beautiful
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Confidence gets me every time.
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I find I'm attracted to confidence and personality. That must be the case because I don't have an ideal body type I'm interested in. If a woman feels comfortable with herself and is nice to others, that's a turn-on. Right now there are a few women I'm crushing on, and that's the only thing they have in common. Some are curvy, others skinny, big age differences and hair colors.
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You know hun you look great, and I think it's about the person as a whole. If a man is really attracted to a lady its about being attracted to her as a whole, mind, body and soul. As we all come in different shapes and sizes, and men I know like a lady with some meat on her bones. And confidence along with skills play a major factor in people being attracted to one another. If they are just attracted to your body it's just usually all about the sex. Some great questions today, and shame on those FAT SHAMERS, I think the ones who fat shame are just jealous!!! I hope you have a terrific Thursday.. Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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I'm going to have to go with confidence and personality are far more attractive to me than looks. Don't get me wrong I like looking at good looking women but it doesn't hold my attention as long as confidence and personality.
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Hello sweetheart! The size of your body has nothing to do with anything it's wants in your heart that makes a good person. I have never seen anything wrong with your body I like it very much your very  ! Never let anyone take that away from you sweetie. I know there are other ladies on here that will do anything to knock you down they are jealous or just assholes!You one of the best don't let anyone take that away from you.  Butch 
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Vert good sweetie Buych
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You know hun you look great, and I think it's about the person as a whole. If a man is really attracted to a lady its about being attracted to her as a whole, mind, body and soul. As we all come in different shapes and sizes, and men I know like a lady with some meat on her bones. And confidence along with skills play a major factor in people being attracted to one another. If they are just attracted to your body it's just usually all about the sex. Some great questions today, and shame on those FAT SHAMERS, I think the ones who fat shame are just jealous!!! I hope you have a terrific Thursday.. Butch
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I think the older the man the less inclined they are to worry about body shape maybe because they realise that looking like a model isn't everything. I noticed the youngest man who posted went for body shape. Unfortunately, I think the men who like bigger women are few and far between or are reticent about stating they like bigger women for fear of "ridicule" With bodies getting bigger across the world, I'm hoping there will be a fat uprising and there will be no choice for the men, they have to like bigger or go without 
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You are super attracive.yumm
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