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Brand New Year Brand New Attitude!  

hotmamamm 48F
10840 posts
1/5/2020 10:36 am
Brand New Year Brand New Attitude!

It was a lot easier meet people on this site before I became a exhibitionist. People have a preconceived notion 5 minutes after meeting me I will take panties off and fuck you like a porn star. Unfortunately it does not work way. I am someone who can not build chemistry on a dick pic alone . I am also someone who is not going meet you after a one conversation.
I met a man coffee last week Yes I stepped outside box and I am putting myself out there Before I meet someone I always tell them rules. We meet in a public place. We go dutch. I do not become intimate on the first meet. I can not imagine how awkward it could be meeting someone for the first time at a hotel. ,Discovering you have no chemistry or they are not who they portrayed themselves be. When it comes internet / hook up you can never be overly cautious.
The man I met agreed these terms. However when we parted our ways he made a scene. Demanding I go the car and give him a blowjob. Treating like a cheap . Im so embarrassed I will not be getting coffee particular place anymore...lol..
Do you think rules are too strict? I definitely know I am worth waiting .

Brand New Year Brand NewHair Maybe Ill have better luck as a feisty red brunette
What do you think?

Did you enter year giveaway. . is a lin..[post 42868]
Remember beautiful friends are having point giving away contests as,well. They are linked on contest page. We are SUPPORT eachother. So stop trying to pit us against eachother. .thats lame.


hotmamamm 48F
16916 posts
1/5/2020 10:38 am

Red Hot !!


Story435 76M
3791 posts
1/5/2020 10:42 am

Oh you are right to rules for dating and men need to respect them. Not very cool to ask you to go out in car and give him a blow job that's just not right at all!
I do not think your rules are to strict at all!
Butch


6inchjoey 54M

1/5/2020 10:43 am

Beautiful looking mmm


hornybbc69 64M
181 posts
1/5/2020 10:45 am

hot red looks amazing on you great attitude for 2020 ...i say you have to learn how to walk before you can run.......that's an old saying...i always remember good luck in 2020....tp all......


bass_playah 50M
133 posts
1/5/2020 10:49 am

Sounds like you and I have the same rules. I hope you a fun, safe new year. Dig your new look as well!


drizzt10768 55M  
160 posts
1/5/2020 10:50 am

Fuck that guy, you be you, you be comfortable with what you want!


Sigard8 56M
35 posts
1/5/2020 10:51 am

Your rules are bang on. How could any guy be such an obnoxious idiot towards anyone?


OralBlissForUs 54M

1/5/2020 10:56 am

I think your rules are very reasonable. If someone just wants a guaranteed fuck, cut out the Polyamory Date middleman, and go straight for a hooker. Hopefully people want some sort of chemistry or compatibility, rather than just an available orifice or appendage. I have been in a similar situation, with a woman who seemed disappointed that I didn't want to have sex on our first date. Oh well, life goes on.

And everything in that photo is stunning: your eyes, hair, skin tone, cleavage... Anyone who doesn't see the value in waiting for someone like you is an idiot.


wjb1958 65M
3739 posts
1/5/2020 10:57 am

You are right to have rules and they are too strict. Happy New Year


mjb595 53M  
179 posts
1/5/2020 11:01 am

I hope you don't let that dick ruin it for the rest of us.


mc_justmc 63M

1/5/2020 11:03 am

I've had some good and some bad meets, the woman should be very cautious.


Kayak_Playmate 61M
147 posts
1/5/2020 11:06 am

I totally agree with you and your rules. I would expect the same scenario. HE was an ass! Please consider me in your contest, I could use a few points.


crowdy123 69M  
70 posts
1/5/2020 11:06 am

Your rules are perfectly reasonable. Men who don't respect your boundaries aren't worth your time.


ClassicRock2015 70M
2021 posts
1/5/2020 11:15 am

You both agreed on the terms of your date...and should be respected by both...so sad you had to put up with such a person...hopefully your next date will have respect for women....best wishes to you !


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
1/5/2020 11:16 am

Good you found out what an ass he is. I wonder if it is because we are on this site, some think they are entitled to whatever and manners and respect are not warranted. Those men make it hard for the good ones here.


shadowtoo69 68M  
1056 posts
1/5/2020 11:23 am

He was an ass. Nothing wrong with the way you meet.


coolpoolguy3 57M
3357 posts
1/5/2020 11:32 am

Your rules are perfect, people have to show a little respect otherwise they're not worth it. I like your new look and I just love seeing that smile.


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
1/5/2020 11:39 am

"five minutes after meeting me I will drop my panties and fuck you like a porn star" - I'm polite and would not expect that at all. I'd wait at least ten minutes!

Hope you have success in finding someone better than that in 2020.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


SelflessLover068 64M

1/5/2020 11:43 am

Good for you hon... You can never be too safe.
It's his loss for being a dick like that.
As for the brunette thing I love brunettes


Cum_Happy 110M
2824 posts
1/5/2020 11:44 am

Well, Hot Mama, You're just a lovely person inside and out! Not to forget, you are also a very sexy redhead! Wow!

As everyone seems to have confirmed, your rules are perfect. I would only suggest adding one more. If you have a friend that you can confide in. Let them know when and where you are meeting the person. Tell them when they should expect to hear from you, and what action to take if they do not.

Whoever it is that gets to meet you, they should consider themselves fortunate.

Happy hunting Happy New Year!

Anything done half-heartedly will net you an equivalent result. ~CH


sj8365 59M

1/5/2020 11:48 am

the new look looks good on you!


EatattheY69692 62M

1/5/2020 11:50 am

You are hot no matter what color your hair is. Mmmmmm


badteacherAK 67M  
1522 posts
1/5/2020 11:54 am

Your rules are both smart and reasonable. The guy was an ass to try and bulldoze your boundaries.

Sometimes people do you the favor of revealing themselves unexpectedly. Suddenly your choice is clear.

You are a star. You deserve someone who shines at least nearly as bright and can, at a minimum, follow instructions.

XOXOXOX

B.


jajo696 113F
4287 posts
1/5/2020 12:02 pm

Your rules are perfect......and is as someone said.....they feel that just because we are here....that everything is a go. NOT SO !!

Keep your rules and those that are worthy , will be fine with them. That will be the test~~


Nghtdy42 40M

1/5/2020 12:09 pm

You're stunning, love your eyes


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