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nervous  

mereel7 52M
48 posts
10/4/2016 2:01 pm
nervous

had another meet last night with a Polyamory Date member but due to unforeseen circumstances we could not use our usual spot.
so we ended up sneaking a quick one in a pub car park just down the road.

because the new venue was a bit more exposed than the usual place I was a little nervous and found it a little difficult to perform
I had no problem rising to the task but just could not finish

is there any techniques to overcome the nerves would really like some help in this

mereel7 52M
184 posts
10/4/2016 2:09 pm

 please help


dayzeeme 55F
7024 posts
10/4/2016 2:48 pm

 the narcissist in me wants to ask what the problem is, as women are usually the ones not getting off while the men do, and the men never think twice about it.

My suggestion is to not have sex where you cannot relax enough to perform as you want to. Obviously being in a spot that was dangerous was NOT an extra turn on for you, so that is not your kink. Go somewhere safer.


Nola7011 68M
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1021 posts
10/4/2016 2:59 pm

 Just block out the fear. Put it out of your mind. If you can't do that, there's always the generous size bathroom at Starbucks
People are strange when you're a stranger."


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