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When something goes wrong
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When something goes wrong I have had a few experiences in my lifetime. Most have been wonderful ... hot ... passionate ... satisfying. But sometimes, something goes wrong and for whatever reason my dates (it's happened 3x, 3 different men, in a span of about 20 yrs) can not get to completion. I must say, in those 3x, I've never walked away without cumming, usually multiple times. And although I have reach a climax, I still leave feeling like there is unfinished business. Like I owe him "one". I have spoken in depth with 2 of the men and they assured me it was not me, I still can't help think ... anyways, the reason for this blog. Has this happened to you? I look forward to hearing your stories! Love to hear from both sexes. |
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Thankfully, no! But sadly, like you I'd probably think it had something to do with me, when, in actuality, it's almost always all about them, for various reasons. "I'm always disappointed when a liar's pants don't actually catch on fire..."
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Take heart...it is usually not you...sometimes due to stress, health, age and things totally unrelated...it just doesn't happen. I feel the same way about unfinished business because it is my great joy to have my man cum.
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It happens to me if I have been fucking for more than an hour or two and I am concentrating on keeping hard, and especially if I had come earlier... SO for me it depends on how long I am going to be with someone, and if it is an overnight, I tend to relax more and it seems to make a difference... But in those cases I usually cum a few times... Hope all is well! TD
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It has happened to me, several times. Too much foreplay can cause an issue, especially if I've been hard for over an hour. If I'm stressed out, or overtired, or haven't been eating well for an extended period it is more likely to happen. It has NEVER been because of the person I'm with, and for that I am thankful. And the person has never made me feel bad because of it. Usually because they have cum... Usually several times.
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It's happened a few times. I can't say why. It's certainly never because of my partner. Maybe one too many beer, one glass of wine too many. Who knows why? It has never hindered the enjoyment of the moment though. I've found that sometimes after my partner has signaled for a rest, that a little break with some conversation, caressing and kissing involved is good. When round two (or three or four as the case may be) starts that whatever was preventing the climax has usually passed.
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I cannot cum with another woman when we are swapping with my wife there but can when we play with others alone. Also just with my wife there are times when I cannot cum during intercourse but can during masturbation, or cannot cum from oral but can having sex or as you have experienced with those men don't come't all. There is no discomfort and as long as she is satisfied so am I and she understands timing is the big thing some times the ship just sails and we catch it next time.
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It's happened to me sometimes.. but was never the womans fault .. if you cum multiple times that would still be awesome xx
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It usually takes me about two or three encounters with a woman before I cum. I assure you that it was (and is) not the ladies' fault. I usually become so engrossed in making sure my playmate has as many orgasms as I can induce that I interfere with my own orgasm. Or I sometimes just try to hard for it to happen for myself. This being said, I have in no way ever felt that I was owed an orgasm when this has happened - I enjoy pleasuring a woman (and listening to that pleasure) too much to feel this way. I have had two women who although they stated that they had never cummed like that before, took umbrage at me not finishing and treated me as a one and done. Some of us just need to feel a bit more comfortable with a lady before can let go enough to cum. A weird sort of performance anxiety huh? This is also a problem that builds upon itself - the more a guy thinks about or tries to cum, the chances of it happening are greatly reduced. So it boils down to us, but I am honest when I say that I don't mind not cumming (as frustrating as it is to both partys) - but we do appreciate those ladies who have patience and some understanding for the situation, and are willing to give us another shot. 
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IT HAS HAPPENED TO ME AT TIMES, BUT MY 'MAIN' OBJECTIVE IS TO SOMEHOW GIVE THE WOMAN A ORGASM THAT WOULD MAKE THE EARTH SHAKE!!! EITHER USING MY TONGUE OR VIBRATOR OR DILDO OR MY FINGER...IF I DON'T FINISH IT'S NOT SUCH A BIG DEAL.....IM IN IT TO MAKE HER SCREAM ANYWAY I CAN!!!!!
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Hope they didn't walk around for too long being uncomfortable. Thanks for dropping by!
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