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What in the hell???  

NWOparties 46G
200 posts
11/24/2014 12:24 pm
What in the hell???

I have been flooded with requests to be invited by a ton of over 60 males. Why the sudden interest is beyond me. It has always been common for a request or two from nearby males. I now find myself with requests from guys miles away.

So before the<b> whining </font></b>goes any further here is the policy. Regardless of age single males from more than 75 miles away are most likely not going to get an invite. Are there exceptions to this, yes. You have played with us before and have moved. You are vetted by a person I know and trust that you will be there. To be brutally honest, chances are that if you need to drive 75 miles or more to a party there is a problem.

Lets face it the parties are about all of us, but especially the women. I like to have a variety of men at the parties. Do older men have skills the younger guys do not have, YUP we do. But there is things the younger have that the older guys do not. This is just being honest with the nature of things. If you are older may you be exceptional? You may very well be, but then it comes back to the whole first point, why do you need to drive this far to play?

When you do contact me, be honest. If you are 60 something please have the honesty to have a current picture. Using a picture from years ago does not fool anyone. Besides if you actually show up, do you think no one will notice? Do you wonder why you are not more successful?

I am more than willing to allow older men at the parties. I am not going to fill my parties with older men. If you want an invite then find a partner to bring. Whining and complaining are not going to get you in. First rule of the lifestyle, no means no. Please respect my decision on behalf of the group. My duty is to be host to the group and just not you.

ClydeCouple2 53M/52F
709 posts
11/24/2014 7:56 pm

 Everyone in our group plays in their back yard. Why is that? Heaven forbid something happen and we need to get ahold of people. The reality is, the further you are away, the harder it is to reach you.

Personally I think the sudden interest is because we are able to PROVE that play actually happens at our parties. And for some crazy reason, alot of people think that just because they come to a party, they are going to get some. It dont work that way.

I like the 75 miles rule. We have something like that ourselves. If we have travel more than an hour to play, it aint happening.
Bill and June
Make sure you check out our Polyamory Date blogs -->> ClydeCouple2


NWOparties replies on 11/25/2014 2:03 am:
Well that is all true. I have tried to open up the area some to allow more people in. But there does come a point where, do people actually travel that far? From my experience most likely not. Worst is that they are likely no call no shows that you never hear from again after they begged you to come.

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