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"You gotta to love the haters"!!!  

scoupe42 60M
6747 posts
4/29/2016 12:12 pm

Last Read:
4/30/2016 7:57 am

"You gotta to love the haters"!!!

As a writer, you got to take your bumps and bruises.They might think you suck or hate what you wrote. That OK! If you get a reaction whether it's bad or good. That mean they read what you wrote. This is what you want them to do, isn't it? Read what you wrote. It's not guaranteed they going to like it, as long as they read it. You can ask them "why" they like or dislike what you wrote. They might tell you or they might not. As a writer, some people might disagree with you, but that OK too.

Don't get mad! We might have to do better, or maybe sometimes write about different subjects. Recently I went on facebook, and comment on my favorite football team site. The Minnesota Vikings". I gave a suggestion, and I got ridiculed, by other fans. They say some harsh words. In the past I would've gotten mad and tell them off too. In the past, I had someone from another state, told me they was going to fly to NM and kick my ass! I said, "No way"! Bring it on! This is childish to get mad over an opinion.

I got feedback from the other fans on facebook. Many said, I had no idea of what I'm talking about. I was told, to just mind my own business, then another one called me a moron. I said, "Whatever"! Then it was on. Many more joined in. I just put my opinion on the site, It jumped from one person to 7 people other in a short time. I love it! Feedback is a good thing. Once in a while, I'll try to change up my topics, don't want to lose my audiences or readers.

People might slander you and force you to change your style or writing. WRONG! Don't change your style to win another audiences, you might lose your original audience. You can tweak it, but don't change it! To be true to your reader and audience you must be true to yourself first! So, If I written somethings in the past and many came to the conclusion, I'm a moron, and idiot or just a prick. Again, if they read it and gave them their honest opinion, I can deal with that!

When you write a blog, or something, 100 might people read it. A few might like it, many might not, and several might not have an idea of what you talking about. So to all you writers out there, keep on writing, people going to let you know what they think. So don't get mad or sad, if they disagree. You show love to one who like what you do, and also, "You gotta love the haters"!!!

Riddletime***
I am a "city" that has no people. What am I?

ans: electricity

What do you throw out to use and take in when you're done?

ans: anchor

What is put on a table and cut, but never eaten? What am I?

ans: a deck of cards










sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
4/30/2016 5:24 am

Good post Scoupe we should all be able to disagree without being rude to each other. Somehow the internet makes it easier to be rude.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

~~Anais Nin~~


scoupe42 replies on 4/30/2016 7:51 am:
Thanks my friend, you so true.

nightsoul1962 61F
17828 posts
4/29/2016 7:25 pm

Haters will be haters, no matter what you do, say, or write!!!!
I rather focus on the love part!!!

WITHOUT PASSION LIFE IS NOTHING


scoupe42 replies on 4/29/2016 7:33 pm:
Thanks for viewing, your right, love is so much better.

sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
4/29/2016 3:28 pm

Scoupe your 100% correct here. I never really figured out why people do this. I am guess because they are jealous of someone maybe? What do they get for personal gain by doing this? Just the way it is online. Good post Scoupe.. hugsssssssss V

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


scoupe42 replies on 4/29/2016 3:41 pm:
Thanks, but by getting a response, whether negative or positive, they read what I've written.

Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
4/29/2016 12:16 pm

You know there is an old phrase.."OPINIONS ARE LIKE ASSHOLES EVERYONE HAS ONE" and that place and this place it fits. But I like this one.."TREAT OTHERS THE WAY YOU WISH TO BE TREATED"!! That's the best one of all..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


scoupe42 replies on 4/29/2016 12:22 pm:
So true my friend! Thanks for viewing.

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