Reset Password
If you've forgotten your password, you can enter your email address below. An email will then be sent with a link to set up a new password.
Cancel
Reset Link Sent
If the email is registered with our site, you will receive an email with instructions to reset your password. Password reset link sent to:
Check your email and enter the confirmation code:
Don't see the email?
  • Resend Confirmation Link
  • Start Over
Close
If you have any questions, please contact Customer Service
Forgot password?
Blogs > SWCinVa > My Blog

Experience of a regular guy on AFF  

SWCinVa 57M
4 posts
1/12/2014 6:53 pm
Experience of a regular guy on AFF

I have been a gold member for almost a year and it has been a very interesting experience. It seems to me if you are not "BRUTUS BEEFCAKE" YOU DO NOT GET MUCH ATTENTION. jUST A THOUGHT..

BrownEyedBBW 55F  
8831 posts
1/12/2014 9:08 pm

 I'm not sure what a "Brutus Beefcake" is but there are a lot of normal, everyday guys who meet women on this site.

taking a quick look at your profile, I can see two things that might hold you back.

First, you state that you are a heavy smoker. Smoking is a big no-no for a lot of, if not most, people. Being a heavy smoker is even worse because (as a former smoker I can vouch for this) no matter how careful you are, that smell is in your hair, clothes, home and car.

The other thing is that you look so *serious* in your profile picture. If you are comfortable showing a face picture, a big smile will make you look much more attractive and approachable.

Sorry if I seem like a Debbie Downer.


RoanokeDom101 50M
41 posts
2/2/2014 8:39 am

 Over the years I have been extremely fortunate on this site. I do think that there are a lot more men on here then women then a few years ago. But I have honestly found that if you have an Interesting profile, some hot pics, a little game, and persistence....it does pay off


Become a member to create a blog