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Forehand or Backhand  

rm_rakehell500 70M
843 posts
1/15/2015 5:00 pm

Last Read:
1/17/2015 11:44 pm

Forehand or Backhand



I know many women get off on watching a man playing with himself, but I wonder if they notice the variety of ways he does it.

You would think it would be straight forward, one hand, up and down, and then the tissues, but considering how simple the equipment is the variety of styles are impressive.

The Milking Machine: This is the most common, The guy uses his dominant hand, thumb up, and jerks back and forth on a slickened penis until he ejaculates. Some hold their testicles while doing this, some play with a nipple, some even finger their ass hole, but far and away this is the missionary position of male masturbation.

The Two Handed Pump: If he is big enough he puts one hand at the base and uses the other moving rapidly up and down the rest to get off. This one is intense and doesn't usually last very long. There is a variation in the Reverse Two Handed Pump where he puts the hand at the base thumbs up as normal and the other hand thumbs down. It requires a tad more coordination though. Something like rubbing you head and patting your belly at the same time.

The Backward Stroke: This is with the hand thumbs down and strokes from the bottom up rather than the top down. This is the most common variant on the basic Milking Machine action.

The Light Touch: This usually follows one of the others when the man wants to delay ejaculating and only uses the thumb and the tips of his fingers on the grounds that his palm would cover enough area to send him over the edge.

The Magic Lamp: Gripping the shaft with one hand he rubs the palm on the glans in a circular motion usually in a clockwise motion --- also referred to as "rubbing one out."

The Stranger: A variant on all the others based on using the non dominant hand because he is unused to the feeling and it is more like someone else doing it for him.

Frottage: Not unlike the way some women masturbate he lies on his stomach with his organ in his lubricated hand and rubs against it either flat or gripping the penis and becoming a substitute vagina. This isn't too common because of the risk of getting cum on the sheets or sofa, but some men use a towel.

There are variant positions for all of these as well. Standing, lying on the back, or sitting are the most common, but men also lie on their side either straight or in a fetal position, get on all fours and reach beneath themselves, or in rare cases with the back against something solid and the feet braced with the back arched.

Toys and other objects are used. In some cases fetish objects like shoes or women's panties are employed, and all sorts stationary objects from pillows and cushions to warm damp towels, toilet paper rolls filled with cold cream, and of course the immortal Portnoy and American Pie methods come into play. We can get pretty inventive, but rest at ease, none of them are substitute for the real thing..

In rare cases some men can even suck their own ranging from a little to quite a bit, but this is usually either unusually well endowed men or younger men who are more flexible. It is not suggested for a bad back.

Do you have a favorite, the staple you always come back to, and ladies, have you noticed how your man or the men in your life handle themselves? Do you adapt his favorite stroke when you are taking care of him?

It's a subject most men regularly come to grip with.





Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.



rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
1/17/2015 11:44 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    Oh yes I love to watch are you doing cam show anytime soon? hugssssss V

    It gets me really horny..
I don't mind doing it for an audience of one, but the world seems a bit much --- not that I would have anymore than one watcher, but still ...

Many women have told me they like to watch their man play with himself and get turned on by it, and of course we all know guys like to watch women. For some of us one of the earliest sexual experiences was being watched by a friend of the opposite sex and watching her --- long before anything happened worth watching. I guess you'd call it comparison shopping.

I don't think I've ever been with anyone more than once who didn't want to see me play with myself at some point.



Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
1/17/2015 11:58 am

Oh yes I love to watch are you doing cam show anytime soon? hugssssss V

It gets me really horny..

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rm_rakehell500 70M
4241 posts
1/15/2015 6:17 pm

    Quoting redmustang91:
    There is also the playdoh rub with two hands like starting a fire... And the twist and shout..
Thanks, I knew I left some out, but that one is one of the biggies.

No one can say we aren't creative about it, can they?



Lust brings you together, love keeps you there, sex keeps the mechanism lubricated.


redmustang91 64M
9760 posts
1/15/2015 5:12 pm

There is also the playdoh rub with two hands like starting a fire... And the twist and shout..


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