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Misconceptions ......  

cwazywabbit009 59M
1507 posts
10/17/2016 5:29 pm
Misconceptions ......

have a way of creeping into our minds from time to time. We don't intend it to happen but we are creatures of our environment and we sometimes form thoughts that might not exactly reflect reality.



A prime example is the coffee meets we have every second weekend here in my hometown for members of this gremlins infested site.



We have had people drive around our meeting spot, a local coffee shop, numerous times ...... and not come in,

[ok, maybe a slight exaggeration here]

or commit to coming and then not showing up. It is perfecting ok to change one's mind but after numerous invites, each time saying yes, the invite stop getting sent out.



Many have the same misgivings, thinking that people are going to coffee to hook up,



swap partners,



talk openly about sex and sex related topics,



to fucking on the tables,



when all it is is adults coming together [not cumming together] to meet, face to face, talk about mundane things [mostly, enjoy each others company with laughs and good conversation.



An opportunity to put faces to names and catch up with friends, and isn't making friends what it is all about? And if some friends become something more than just friends, congrats!



Drop in and visit my blog sometime, but you'll probably regret it


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
10/17/2016 6:00 pm

I could just write my name on my face

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


cwazywabbit009 replies on 10/18/2016 11:41 am:
Make sure you write it right to left

sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
10/18/2016 8:46 am

Misconceptions are a common issue when dealing with people on this site. They seem to hear what the want to hear. They seem to want sex on the first meet. It is always fun to put names to faces from this site. hugs V

Become a blog watcher sweet_vm


cwazywabbit009 replies on 10/18/2016 11:46 am:
And the ones that want sex on the first meet are good ones to avoid

Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
10/18/2016 12:42 pm

I think it's only common courtesy to let others know when the parties invited aren't going to show up...have a great evening..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


cwazywabbit009 replies on 10/18/2016 2:09 pm:
Sadly often common courtesy is just like common sense, uncommon

redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
10/18/2016 6:00 pm

cwazywabbit009 replies on 10/18/2016 12:41 pm:
Make sure you write it right to left

Uhmm . . . from
my right to my left
or
your right to your left
or
right to left looking in a mirror

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


cwazywabbit009 replies on 10/18/2016 7:39 pm:
I'll leave that up to you

redhotfun4you2 61F  
1596 posts
10/18/2016 7:40 pm

It is so sad, yet very true. As you know, I am having a very difficult time with attendance for ours here. I have been doing it for 6 months and had less than 20 (total) show up so far. I have it scheduled on the calendar for one more week, this Sunday and then I am not sure what I will do from there.

I have had many of the misconceptions you stated as reasons not to come out.


cwazywabbit009 replies on 10/18/2016 8:21 pm:
At least you tried to make a go of it
Best of luck!

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