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Im a Person!  

KimberHaven 50T
80 posts
4/8/2014 9:15 am
Im a Person!

Ok.....I have attached a pic of a conversation that I had recently with a guy. He checked out my profile....flirted and hot listed me. So...I sent him a friend request and the pictured email is what he sent to my mail box. In case you can't read it in the pic I will gladly put him on blast in this post narrative....his email response to my friend request was as follows:

XCBiker882
You are beautiful and would love to be your friend. I would to be with you but I don't accept friends requests from men or or T's because it turns some people off and limits my chances. It does not turn me off. You turn me on a lot. You are beautiful.

Ok...so that is the wonderful response I received from my outstretched hand of friendship. Im beautiful but he doesn't want to be seen with me or have anyone know I'm his friend. I turn him on as long as nobody knows he's turned on by me because finding me attractive would be a complete embarrassment and he wouldn't seem as much of a man I guess. I guess if someone saw him with me as a friend he wouldn't be a "REAL" man.
What makes a "REAL" man? Is it having a 9 inch cock? A Porn star hot wife? Being an Ex Heavy weight Cage Fighter? Being 6'2"? Well I am or have all of those and I have tits. Personally, I think what makes a man is whats inside. Not who you like...or who you hang out with....or your cock size...you height...or your muscles. Its how you treat people. This guy treats me like a Fat chick or a Moped....im fun to ride as long as your friends don't catch you riding one. Im not a person to him.....im not worthy of crawling out of the shadows and he damn well doesn't want to be caught actually finding me attractive by anybody. He thinks I'm sexy but hell....if anyone knew that he wouldn't be seen as a "Real" man.
I wanted to share this email with you guys because I get mail like this a lot. For all of you non transexuals out there...I want you to imagine a world full of men that are too embarrassed to be seen with you....who want to fuck you as long as it stays a secret...who would never want to be seen In public with you...even as friends because someone might think they are remotely attracted to you and that would ruin their rep.
Guys say to me in emails "I bet you really turn heads when you go out"......well actually men won't even look at me when I go out....to Walmart or the Grocery store. They keep their eyes on the ground and won't even look my direction because someone...their buddies...the pubic....might see them check me out. Yes...im serious! When I go out in public men avoid eye contact or looking at me at all out of complete fear of being labeled gay or unmanly. Or they make fun of me and call me names if their buddies are around to look cool and manly in front of their friends.....even if they were with me the previous night. How would you feel if people were humiliated to have you as a friend or lover? Embarrassed of you and didn't want anyone to know they were attracted to you? Sadly....close to 70% of the men who write me on this site want to fuck me but would never want anyone to know or find out they had been with a transexual.
Now don't get me wrong....there are a few men on this site that are incredible and just all around wonderful that I am grateful wrote me...but most are cut from the same cloth as the guy above. So guys if your like Mr. Insecure asswhipe above....take someones feelings into consideration before you say something so fucking hurtful and realize transexuals are people...not sex toys...not freaks....and not something to hide in your closet.


TwistedViper20XX 42M

4/8/2014 9:41 am

What a world-class douchebag... it's a shame how some people - men *and* women - fail to take other people's feelings into consideration when looking to satisfy their lust. I get the same with white women looking for BBC... so many of them don't understand that there is a complete human being behind the dick!


robgt46atoohay 45M
60 posts
4/11/2014 2:12 pm

I'm sorry to hear that


land_man269 60M
530 posts
4/17/2014 8:46 am

Hi Kimber....I'd be proud to have you as a friend.....
Love your videos


bicock2011 63M  
30 posts
4/18/2014 8:25 am

Hi Kimber, wouldn't mind going out with you in public at all.


hunghard4u695608 54M
12 posts
4/30/2014 6:43 pm

I Would Be Proud To Be With You! Love Ya James{=}


Tromattic 37M/33F
1 post
6/26/2014 7:17 pm

Fuck him! That leaves room for me to be seen in public with you....


Oceana1969 58F  
442 posts
6/30/2014 8:40 pm

You are absolutely beautiful...inside and out. Don't waste your time or energy on someone like that. You have so much more class than he could ever think of having in his whole lifetime. Peace and Happiness to you always!!


nobodywashere 63M
15 posts
7/7/2014 5:52 pm

Kimberly, what an ass. You can always be my friend.


omegom 65M
1 post
9/16/2014 9:05 am

I second the words of Samcr0w.


westcoast115 59M
2 posts
4/18/2015 10:06 am

That Guy is a fucking idiot. he doesn't deserve to even talk to you. You are a beautiful Woman and deserve to be treated like one. I would be proud to walk in to any bar, Mall, club, resterant, or any other public place with you on my arm. Why? because you are beautiful and should never be someone's downlow toy.
Jesse.

PS. There is no way your 41, you look 30 easy...


catfish210 60M
10 posts
8/30/2015 9:45 am

To be honest Kimber I'd probably be embarrassed to be out with you too. You know, with me walking around able to see, touch and smell you...... I'd be pitching a tent the whole time. People would be like..... Look at that beautiful woman and the drooling fool with the woody! Heck, you might be embarrassed to be seen with me in public! (Mmmmm, Kimber embarrassed.... if you say it right it sounds like Kimber bare-assed! )

I'd be proud to stand next to you any time just based on your history of service to this country. I'd be more than proud (as said!) to be next to you in any other context. Talk about feeling like the cock on the block!

If I were your friend I'd also be proud of how you handle this crap and how you have and do handle your life. My impression is that you are as beautiful inside as out. Hard to do that and that kind of sweetness can leave you open to hurt from others since you care about others. I'd look at it this way.... some people are not worth keeping around you! It's actually beneficial when the trash takes itself out!

Good thoughts, much respect, and lots of thanks!

Robert


lrscranger6623 62M
47 posts
1/21/2016 5:11 am

What an idiot.....
I have several "T" friends....they are friends. If that "turns someone off and lowers my chances" well so be it. If friends are deal breakers then there really was not much of a friendship to begin with.


Copregan 63M
2 posts
6/16/2016 4:20 am

It's probably a good thing I don't live near you,, I'm afraid that everywhere I drove to would include a path by your house,, If you ever need a ride to Walmart,, I'm in the book,, and yes, I'll even hold your hand as we shop,,


MelissaBts 44T
2 posts
1/18/2017 11:42 am

Yeah, had pretty much the same thing happen last week. I didn't really think about it much at the time - just kinda blew it off but... yeah... not a nice feeling.


mike09ab 73M
6 posts
4/2/2018 9:16 am

Another chunk of that wisdom of yoursI talked about in your "Transsexuals" post.

Your response was exactly what he needs to hear, if he was istening... my budding love for you is exceeded by my admiration and respec for you.

You make my heart smile,

Mike



Love, from rmichael


JerryhoneyU 71M

7/13/2018 3:56 pm

you are so addable&


Mesuckbooty1000 44M

11/6/2020 7:54 pm

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tina_w8296 41F
48 posts
2/22/2021 12:51 pm

I have found that roughly 99.9% of the guys on here are asshole Kimber. I get friend invites daily from guys that do not read profiles or even say hello. Good for you for telling him what you thought. I have got mail from guys saying they want to fuck me and when I mail back politely telling them to read my profile they write back calling me "fucking lesbian" then ban me so I am unable to tell them go to hell!


Livialondon 49T
2 posts
12/5/2021 11:56 pm

Something similar happened to myself as well so I do understand how you feel, no one should be treated that way and I’m truly sorry that happened Kimber.


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