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Contentious Topics  

khuXBFXM8u 62M
6260 posts
4/10/2014 6:34 am
Contentious Topics


If you are a regular visitor to my blog, you can appreciate that I don’t back away from throwing out some topics that are just minefields; topics where there will be strong opinions. The latest one of these topics on circumcisions has been over the top.

I had e-mailed a friend about the post and some other matters, and in part of her response she said she hoped I wasn’t offended by her comments. She indicated she had actually considered emailing me her comments rather than posting them. My response to her was; I was “not offended at all, quite the opposite in fact. I love in impassioned discussion because it makes everyone think. I never expect anyone to agree with what I throw down, I always hope that some do, but I also hope just as many don't, or this will be boring as hell”.

For me there is nothing better than an intelligent discussion where people are on both sides, a debate if you will. I hope things stay friendly and respectful, and I certainly hope I have not offended anyone with the position I have taken in some of my comments. The one thing I have learned on Polyamory Date is everyone doesn’t think like me; well ok, I knew that coming in. Some of you, you know who you are, are into some pretty wild shit sexually, and conversations with you has expanded my mind, making me consider viewpoints I would never have otherwise considered. Some of my own points of view may be way off base, because admittedly I am unconventional in my thinking. As a footnote to that last thought, reading books written by Militant Feminists like Andrea Dworkin will have you examine things from unconventional viewpoints, that’s for sure. Everyone once in a while, should read a book written by someone who you may not necessarily agree with. Anyway, if your thinking on a subject is just whack, who better than your friends to try and slap you around, to slap some sense into you?

Your thoughts


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pal334 69M  
45821 posts
4/10/2014 6:44 am

I think this is what I like about your blog. You present your views, I don't agree with all of them, but that is life and I learn from it. The key to me is that you do respectfully entertain different points of view. This is your blog and is your "blogland home", you keep as you want. Wouldn't life be boring if we all thought alike? Thank you for what you do

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
4/10/2014 7:01 am

    Quoting pal334:
    I think this is what I like about your blog. You present your views, I don't agree with all of them, but that is life and I learn from it. The key to me is that you do respectfully entertain different points of view. This is your blog and is your "blogland home", you keep as you want. Wouldn't life be boring if we all thought alike? Thank you for what you do
Pal, it would definitely be boring if we were all carbon copies.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
4/10/2014 7:07 am

    Quoting Smurfnturf:
    I have very strong opinions but most of the time it's about stuff that it doesn't matter to me where other people stand; like circumcision. Some topics, though, will cause me to back right off from someone I disagree with. I won't fight with them about it but I won't want to converse with them any longer.
I understand that. Some of us don't like confrontation in any form, or sometimes it seems like it's just not worth the effort. That what I love having the smiley face icons... sometimes less says more.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
4/10/2014 7:11 am

    Quoting joesjuicy10:
    I love your posts, they are thought provoking and spark (sometimes intelligent lol) debate. I rarely get upset, although I do get irritated at close-mindedness or people who misinterpret what they read. But keep on doing it, great blogs!
Thanks! That's what I want to do, provoke thought. Both the reader and myself.

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sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
4/10/2014 10:42 am

KHU keep doing what your doing. I love the topics your posting and it is always good to have a discussion about it as some of use may not agree. I like the wide variety everyone post! Excellent hugs V

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sexysixties2 106F
39750 posts
4/10/2014 11:40 am

LOL...my best friend has very different opinions to me on a lot of subjects....it doesn't make us like each other any less. Don't ever compromise to fit in with others.

"Age does not protect you from love, but love, to some extent, protects you from age."

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
4/10/2014 12:44 pm

    Quoting  :

Passion, nothing I can add to your comment, you are so right.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
4/10/2014 12:47 pm

    Quoting George_W_Johnson:
    No body's opinion matters as much to me as my friends - I am always grateful for their input - we may not always agree - but I always respect what they say - and in some cases it even influences my change

    as far as your blog topics - keep it up conversation is always good - we may not agree but it does make us think - and thinking is what move us forward as a spiecies
Me too George, my friends keep me grounded and humble. Our ability to think is what definitely propelled us forward as a species.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
4/10/2014 12:50 pm

    Quoting  :

Debbi, thanks. Debate and discussion is always fun

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
4/10/2014 12:51 pm

    Quoting sweet_VM:
    KHU keep doing what your doing. I love the topics your posting and it is always good to have a discussion about it as some of use may not agree. I like the wide variety everyone post! Excellent hugs V
Thanks V. Variety is the spice of life.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
4/10/2014 12:55 pm

    Quoting sexysixties2:
    LOL...my best friend has very different opinions to me on a lot of subjects....it doesn't make us like each other any less. Don't ever compromise to fit in with others.
Oh sexy, me.. compromise to fit in with others My life long friends would see that as an oxymoron.

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KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
4/10/2014 3:37 pm

Khu,
I always feel that your posts are coming from a place of either you questioning something that no one else might, or presenting some interesting information that you just found out. I love your blog posts because they do make me think.
I don't always agree with everything you write, and that creates an opportunity for both of us to think about why we think the way we do.
Kitkat

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
4/10/2014 3:58 pm

    Quoting KItkat1415:
    Khu,
    I always feel that your posts are coming from a place of either you questioning something that no one else might, or presenting some interesting information that you just found out. I love your blog posts because they do make me think.
    I don't always agree with everything you write, and that creates an opportunity for both of us to think about why we think the way we do.
    Kitkat
Thanks Kitkat

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tigger678902 57F  
4545 posts
4/10/2014 6:28 pm

I like debate, I like to learn, I was somewhat intellectually and/or emotionally ofended by your stance, but not enough for it to matter in the long run. However, I will admit I did not read the two following posts because I am no longer interested in the topic. I don't support male circumcison,...but you and I are going to have to agree to disagree about calling the two equivalent.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
4/10/2014 8:43 pm

    Quoting tigger678902:
    I like debate, I like to learn, I was somewhat intellectually and/or emotionally ofended by your stance, but not enough for it to matter in the long run. However, I will admit I did not read the two following posts because I am no longer interested in the topic. I don't support male circumcison,...but you and I are going to have to agree to disagree about calling the two equivalent.
Tigger, I understand your position

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
4/11/2014 5:39 am

Thank you intenda, there will be more.

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__Maria__ 58F
8252 posts
4/11/2014 11:12 pm

Is your blog and your ideas, we are adults and each is entitled to their opinions.
Will still only do circumcised men, if needed will do the complete vaginal fix and will do my best to had all my grandsons circumcised. And we still friends.



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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
4/12/2014 2:16 am

    Quoting __Maria__:
    Is your blog and your ideas, we are adults and each is entitled to their opinions.
    Will still only do circumcised men, if needed will do the complete vaginal fix and will do my best to had all my grandsons circumcised. And we still friends.
To each their own.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
4/14/2014 3:50 am

    Quoting  :

J. I will never tell you to shut up.

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khuXBFXM8u 62M
10296 posts
4/14/2014 3:53 am

    Quoting  :

Life doesn't stand still for Polyamory Date, there will be plenty of discussions after April 15th.

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