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Str8/BI/Gay/Curious/Comfortable/Hetetroflexible/Open minded/Kinky/ This is a revised post, this subject comes up a lot so lets talk about it again........ We get a lot of questions about the term "heteroflexible". Bi comfortable and bi curious also apply. Here's our take.... It really is a great term for such an ambiguous subject. I think people are afraid of the "bi" term because it insinuates that you are in some way GAY. Especially guys, because of the obvious double standard. Actually "bi" is a great way to describe a lot of people because all it means is that you have "sexual" contact with both sexes. Its just so misunderstood. GAY is a lifestyle chosen or not. I think if you choose to have a loving monogamous same<b> sex relationship </font></b>than you may be gay. In this lifestyle the lines between gay/str8/bi are blurred. The question is if your not gay can you be str8 and still have same sex contact. How far do you need to go to become "bi"? Make no mistake "bi" means "bisexual". If you are str8 we play str8, if you like "bi" play then we do too. The term "pansexual" also applies to a lot of swingers. From what I see a lot of guys are more "bi" than they say. The women seem to be pretty open about being "bi". We all fall some where between completely homophobic to totally GAY! We think for most people the needle falls somewhere in the middle. Here's the deal, for some of you the "bi" thing is a red flag. That of course is okay. Just try not to judge us for being open minded. So our definition of "heteroflexible" is, Someone who is okay with and doesn't mind some pre-arranged same sex contact. We can take it or leave it, just another option for fun! Final thought......we really just consider the "bi" thing another "kink" in our arsenal of sexual pleasures. Tell us what you think? >>! happym; happyf;  |
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nice blog topic...question tho, do you think any ambiguity in sexual orientation will change closed minds? lots of new terms popping up....some stuff is generational....like pansexual - we really dont know what that would mean per se....so if we asked someone and they said they explained along non-gender specific lines...we would say..oh, you are bi....there are nuances, we likely wounldnt get...in the end, good communication between parties should lead to like finding like - we know from experience that each side has to be able to relate to the other....otherwise its no fun for anyone.
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So lets just look at popular definitions, I'm not sure where I am but this explains the term well....... Pansexuality: From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Pansexuality, or omnisexuality, is sexual attraction, sexual desire, romantic love, or emotional attraction toward people of any sex or gender identity. Self-identified pansexuals may consider pansexuality a sexual orientation, and refer to themselves as gender-blind, asserting that gender and sex are insignificant or irrelevant in determining whether they will be sexually attracted to others. Pansexuality rejects the gender binary, the "notion of two genders and indeed of specific sexual orientations", as pansexual people are open to relationships with people who do not identify as strictly men or women. Compared with bisexuality and other sexual identities[edit] A literal dictionary definition of bisexuality, due to the prefix bi-, is sexual or romantic attraction to two sexes (males and females), or to two genders (men and women). Pansexuality, however, composed with the prefix pan-, is the sexual attraction to a person of any sex or gender. Using these definitions, pansexuality is defined differently by explicitly including people who are intersex and/or fall outside the gender binary. Go Ask Alice! states that pansexuals can be attracted to cisgender people (cismen or ciswomen), "transmen, transwomen, intersex people, androgynous people, and everything else. It is generally considered a more inclusive term than bisexual"
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