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We Don't Get It!  

WeWantAdventures 62M/60F
87 posts
11/6/2013 6:29 am
We Don't Get It!


We believe strongly that respect is a foundation of any good interaction. We believe to get respect you give respect, we try very hard to be as respectful as we can, even when we are declining and invitation to get to know someone better.

That being said, our experiences with single men has deteriorated to the point that we will no longer no longer be as respectful as we like to be.

We are absolutely appalled at the behaviors and comments of single men. We have been subjected to - as opening comments - some of the stupidest and vulgar comments, to the point we are not just insulted but pissed. Neither one of us would ever say some of the things said to us to anyone, even in jest. Plus, now there are single men listed as couples and 'she is gone'. Our guess? 'She' was never there!

We ask if they have read our profile or blog or even our status, and get the 'I can't' reply. So if we get a hi, or a how are you, we just say we aren't seeking single guys. Anything else? Now these idiots are getting slammed. We are tired of the morons!

A suggestion we would like to see implemented to to be able to block those you aren't interested in from even seeing you on or being able to send you a message. And yes, we sent it to Polyamory Date.

Does anyone have any suggestions on this issue that has worked for them????

And before we get hit with the "I'm not like them" please don't. We just aren't interested.

LoveJunkie2015 42F
487 posts
11/6/2013 3:16 pm

yeah I don't think we're supposed to get it. Somedays it really bothers me and pisses me off too, and some days I'm able to just ignore and delete without even thinking twice. I get so tired of the lack of couth and tact these idiots have, and then they accuse me of being rude or fake if I don't reply to them. just one of those things I'm trying to learn to let go of without letting it ruin my experience.


WeWantAdventures 62M/60F
11 posts
11/6/2013 2:33 pm

DNA - thanks! Took your suggestion and copied the profile to the blog - and yes, we know the morons think with the wrong head!


reallyready46 64M
1383 posts
11/6/2013 1:06 pm

A lot of truth in dnafun11 comments. It has also been brought to light in the past that this site posts your profiles on other sites with less than great names. Not saying all guys but some may be on other sites thinking you signed up for that site. It is a shame that so many can wreck it for the the few that are here to be respectful and enjoy our partners and ourselves.

However I did see a profile recently that stated black men only, then said I have a pit bull that will bite brown and white guys in the genital area with crushing force. Maybe that is an idea.


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