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What are You "Afraid" of in the Lifestyle?
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What are You "Afraid" of in the Lifestyle? When P and I first discussed heading 'down this road', both of us voiced a major concern- health and diseases. Neither of us has ever had any type of STD (which in my case, is something of a surprise - her case, she was a 'good girl' before she met me!) For us, this is the biggest fear we have. According to the CDC, Ohio ranks 18th (out of the 50 states)for Syphilis, 19th for Chlamydia, and 10th for Gonorrhea. Michigan was 31st for Syphilis, 14th for Chlamydia and 7th for Gonorrhea. While the above numbers are from data from 2010, you can get the picture why we are concerned, and why for us, protection is mandatory. We have also discussed the possibility of the what we call the 'what if's'- what if one of us becomes infatuated with someone else, what if someone else is 'better', what if.....you get the idea. How we have decided to handle this is through communication. I expect we are going to find people with different techniques and ideas we haven't done before. Hopefully, we will like what we experience, and can bring it back home with us, incorporating it into our sex activities. As we have discussed, that is part of the excitement for us. Don't get me wrong. P is amazing at what she does, and according to her I know what I am doing. From our encounters with lady friend, I have been told I am very good at what I can do. (Not bragging - just a guy who reads a lot and puts into practice what I read!). So it is not that we are clueless, it is that someone my do something different that we find we like. We have also discussed the emotional attachment issues, and have - since we really don't have any experiences other than we have already discussed - we will keep open communication lines - and since we hope to find another couple we will become 'good friends' with, we expect to we expect this will come up - especially if one of us likes the other couple more. Then we will deal with it. Since we are still newbies, we know we haven't thought about all of the possible risks and pitfalls. So we ask: What are you 'afraid' of in the lifestyle, and how do you deal with it? |
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Fortunately for us, pregnancy is not a concern. But we can certainly see how that can be for others.
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Well pregancy comes to mind right off. As far as attachments, the more you play the more the bond can grow. Its nature's way of providing for children. So either pick your playmates well or limit you playtime with them.
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