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Avoiding a bad re-connect (when emailing prospective Lovers)  

BrnSgr54 69M/67F  
10 posts
11/29/2015 7:36 am
Avoiding a bad re-connect (when emailing prospective Lovers)


Thought I should share this experience to aid others of this pitfall, not being a novice at sorting through and finding prospective Lovers, this was a new one to us.
About a year ago we were emailing a member that seamed to be the type of Gent we look for in joining us for A F/W/B relationship, great profile, seamed very well matched as far as sexual likes and dislikes, all was going so good we were excited and truly felt that a sexual date was even set , life happens and we had to postpone and planned to reschedule for a new date in the near future, didn't happen then I lost my contact info and time passed, then I ran into contact info and decided to re-connect with the hopes of picking up where we left off. That was soon shattered, but not at first , he seamed glad to hear from us, and said he to had lost our info but thought of us often and what could have been and was eager to pick up where we left off, and set a date in very near future for our sexual encounter, but although he was the same person he sure was not, his hole demeanor had changed, we even referred to his profile just 2 make sure we were communicating with the right person, as my Hubby suggested, and 2 our surprise that profile was so different, none of it even had a shadow of the man we knew before, to see that sweet sexy Gent that had my horns up, turned into a horrid man that turned me off. So to make this short, we were no longer on the same page and expressed our feelings to cancel any further communication. that was the end.
So be warned, and do some updating, you may not be dealing with the same person. some people change, and not for the better I am sorry to say.

BrnSgr & Hubby

useme2bepleased 68M
15 posts
12/23/2015 8:11 pm

Although you are a long way off, I find i miss my friends Roland and Stella. we had a once or twice a month mfm until Jan. this year, when they moved to Florida. He was straight as am I and I have chosen not to put it in my profile. I am still looking for woman 1st and foremost, but I have found they won't even consider a guy if he states he is looking for a mfm. It's not a lie or misrepresentation I am looking for someone to spend the rest of my days with, but in the mean time, Id love to have a mfm ( I only play safe condoms a must unless you have current papers). Well brnsgr54 this is Steve saying may all your fantasies come true and Merry Christmas!

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AthleticSurferLA 49M

3/13/2020 10:37 am

did you seriously think writing out the word "to" was too much trouble that you had to use the number.


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