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Infidelity  

pebcak22 34M
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9/28/2015 7:27 pm
Infidelity

While I was on vacation the last three weeks, I learned something that made the vacation a bit less of what I wanted and awkward at first to say the least. My first morning there my parents sat down with me to let me know why things were set up the way they were in the condo. I was told that my dad had been having an affair and my mom called him out on it, just about a week before they left for the vacation and two weeks before I arrived.

This was a real shock to me because my dad has never seemed like the type to do that sort of thing. So as I mentioned before, it made for a very awkward first week. The one positive to the situation was that my parents started seeing a couple's<b> therapist </font></b>soon after arriving to help deal with the situation for them. I don;t know all the detail about what happened, nor do I really care to know since that is not my place to dig. I still love both of my parents, even with their flaws, and I know that my dad did feel true guilt over the situation. when I left they both seemed to be making progress towards a "new" marriage, but whether or not that hold is yet to be seen. It will take time, and I hope that things will work out for them because this coming January would be, or will be, their 30th wedding anniversary.

I realize that this site can sometimes help facilitate this sort of situation occurring, and I get why people say to those that participate home wreckers and similar. I also understand that people can make mistakes and they should be able to try and work things out if the situation allows. It is one thing for those of you looking for open relationships, that is fine, consenting adults sharing partners with the other partners agreement is great if that is what you want. So is polyamory. I will just say that whatever you choose to do, don't hurt those you love when you do it. I saw my mom break down in tears too many times over my vacation. That is not how vacation is supposed to be spent, it should be enjoyed and everyone should be happy.

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