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to host or not to host that is the question  

daddy4femboi 71M
8 posts
6/9/2016 9:24 am
to host or not to host that is the question

you know I've met some pretty enthusiastic people on here that like my profile and would like to get together, as we all have at one time or another. only to find out that they can't host.
well, let me tell you, it does irritate me when they tell you after several conversations back and forth to set up a time to meet that they can't host, or in their profile they state that they can't, (and there is no problem with that), but when I offer to host, they can't drive the few extra miles to meet.
they mostly want you to travel, and they don't have an alternate plan for a location to play. they want you to fit the bill for a room, and don't offer to share the cost, what is up with that?
I'm pretty open minded, but it is a two way street. if someone can't host that's ok, but you better be willing to drive to some one who is willing to host, or plan on sharing the cost of a room. that's only fair.

funsnellvillecpl 66M/54F  
3901 posts
6/9/2016 9:33 am

 your a single guy ,you should pay


rabbitmomma 69F
52 posts
6/9/2016 9:53 am

 Why should the single guy pay? He is not asking someone out on a date. If he is willing to host and they are not willing to make the extra drive they should make alternate arrangements. Splitting the drive and the cost of a room is not unreasonable. If the stay is going to be overnight I would not find it unreasonable for each party to have their own room so every minute is not spent together.


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
6/9/2016 3:43 pm

 I can't believe people can be so self-centered. There is nothing wrong with share and to expect you to pay for it all is just wrong
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MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
6/9/2016 5:15 pm

 I can host but I choose not to invite men to my home. God forbid something goes wrong and now he knows where I live. Since I don't host and don't mind driving a reasonable distance to meet somewhere in the middle, I will split the cost of a hotel room, again, within reason.


daddy4femboi 71M
2 posts
6/10/2016 10:51 am

 and, that is the whole point, be fair, if you both want to have fun, then plan to share what it takes to make it happen.
I know not everyone can host, but have a plan. if you want to meet at a motel, then split the cost. if you meet at an arcade your going to play what ever admission fee there.
I can usually host, but I've done my travel to people that would rather host than travel.
after all, it's hopefully for mutual enjoyment.
ok, I'm off my soap box, thx for listening.


handyman6940 72M  
9 posts
2/24/2018 6:58 am

 I love to bottom! so I host but I sometimes think it would be nice if? and why not let someone else contribute to the cost of a nice price of ass! if I am going to let you fuck me (and your friend) till you are happy and hopefully I am happy too. why not let him pay for or at lease contribute to the cost of a room. I like to bottom for my daddies and will give it up for cutie twinks too , but does there need to be a parade at my front door?


ALPHASonly 69M

10/24/2019 11:35 am

 I understand the sharing of cost of a room, but I cannot host and state that in my profile, so if a man wants to host I do travel to him (within reason). Out-of-state is not going to happen.


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