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Truly Understanding what turns one on...  

jayjayjuicy1270 53F
13 posts
1/20/2014 8:34 am
Truly Understanding what turns one on...


Life always proves certain expressions/sayings to be true.

A classic example of this is, "youth is wasted on the young".( I may have misquoted, but those that are in the know, know what I mean.)

When I was much younger I didn't' get that at all. I used to hear that expression/saying a lot but through the years... growing up and paying attention, O M G..lo and behold, it's true! lol

Sooooooooo...SOME of the emails that I receive (from males) bears witness to this..never fails to amaze. Unbelievable, every time.

KimbarkSon 72M  
216 posts
11/9/2016 6:02 pm

Do I know what turns you on? No, not at all. I don't know you. How can I know what turns you unless i know you as a person and that requires that I listen closely.

I have learned this. You need to take time to learn who a person is in order for you to relate to that person sexually or any other way. I've also learned that unless you're going to invest the time to learn about that person, you're not going to have a good relationship.

How am I going to treat you? Like I want to be treated. I want you to listen to me and value what I say. I'm sure you want the same.

So I still don't know what turns you on but I'm willing to listen and learn what does.


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