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For women, what do you think men may imply.
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For women, what do you think men may imply. Think you’ve got men figured out after years of observation and interaction? Think again. Men and women are different, there’s no two ways about it. But understanding your guy – and accepting what makes him the testosterone-packing specimen you love – will help strengthen your relationship. Here are 10 things every woman should know about men... He's into you when... Here are five non-verbal cues the guy you’re after (or already have) is into you: 1. He speaks with his body He makes eye contact, mirrors your body movements or positions his torso, leg or foot toward you. 2. He’s always available If he doesn’t have a full schedule, it’s probably because he’s making sure there’s always time for you. And when he says he’s busy, he’ll suggest another time to hang out. 3. He recalls small facts or details that you’ve mentioned Men who are sincerely interested in you want to know all about you. They pay attention to even the smallest details and use the info to impress you later on. 4. He asks about your future If he wants to be a part of it, he’ll be gauging whether or not your future plans match up with his own. 5. He’s acting strangely You know how you can become a bumbling fool around someone you really like? Well take heed when he becomes one around you. He checks out other girls... If your guy denies noticing the cute waitress at the café, he’s probably just sugarcoating the truth to avoid an argument with you. Men like to look at beautiful women – just as women admire handsome men. But that doesn’t mean he’s envisioning a life – or a steamy interlude – with the waitress. Nor does it mean he’s comparing her to you. Odds are he simply appreciates her beauty. As long as he’s not blatantly ogling girls or flirting in front of you, don’t worry! You’re the one he loves. Avoid the urge to blurt out the dreaded, “Do you think she’s prettier than me?” He finds self-confidence much sexier than insecurity. He gets hit on... Women probably flirt with your man. In fact, some may have crushes on him, whether he knows it or not. Sure, tall, dark and handsome men get hit on more often, but even bald guys with beer bellies can be cute. (If you find him attractive, other women do, too.) He probably doesn’t tell you when it happens, because he doesn’t want you to worry or overreact. Do you tell him every time a man hits on you? But remember that your guy wants to be with you. As long as he’s not the one doing the flirting, it’s fine for him to be flattered when he gets attention from other women. You should be flattered, too – it proves you’ve got good taste in men! He wants to get married eventually... Ball-and-chain jokes aside, most guys do want to get hitched… when the time is right. The idea that all men desire to be life-long bachelors is simply untrue. Most like the idea of spending the rest of their days with one good woman. The catch is that they also want to sow their wild oats and enjoy the single life first. Men typically want to establish themselves both financially and career-wise, want when they’re older and want to own a house by the time they get married. What if your guy isn’t ready for marriage and you just can’t wait any longer? Move on. He might not be in the place he needs to be right now, or unfortunately, you may just not be his Mrs. Right. If you’re already married to him, don’t assume that he’s secretly pining for the bachelor life he left behind whenever times get tough. Love, fulfillment and security trump lonely nights and an empty fridge – even for guys. His version of romance is different from yours... Generally speaking, your man’s idea of romance is more practical than sexy. Here are five ways to romance your guy – his way: 1. Keep the Compliments Coming Blame it on his ego, but men are huge suckers for compliments. Praise his skills on a daily basis. It gives him a sense of pride and helps him define his identity. 2. Expect the Unexpected Keep your man on his toes by surprising him with small romantic gestures. Do the opposite of what he expects. 3. Keep it Simple They say that to make any man happy, give him these four things: a beer, a sandwich, the remote, and great sex. Translation: Make sure his small, simple needs are met. 4. Give Hard-to-Find Gifts Sentimental gifts are a direct route to any man’s heart. Taking the time to pick out something you know would be perfect for him shows you know him well and pay attention to his wants. 5. Tell him “I love you” Possibly the most romantic phrase in the universe – “I love you” – is short, sweet, to the point, and your words won’t get lost in translation. He notices when you let yourself go... He’ll probably never tell you, but your guy doesn’t adore you regardless of how you look, especially when it comes to weight gain (except pregnancy) or letting your appearance slip. If you stop hitting the gym, trade those short<b> skirts </font></b>that won his heart for frumpy sweats, or no longer bother to comb your hair, he’ll still love you, but odds are he’ll long for the old you. He might even wonder if you’ve stopped caring about him if you stop caring about how you look when he’s with you. Ask if he thinks you look fat, and he’ll lie to avoid hurting your feelings. But he still may let you know in more subtle ways. The way you looked when he fell in love with you is the way he wants you to stay forever. Never take for granted the importance of physical attraction in your relationship. Look good for your guy, and you’ll feel better about yourself. And more self-confidence means you’ll have a happier and sexier relationship. He’ll probably work harder to keep himself fit and attractive for you, too. His libido lacks when... Men’s problems in bed usually have nothing to do with your cup size. In fact, most guys’ sack-time snafus have little to do with you at all. Here are 10 reasons why he really goes soft in the face of opportunity: He’s not the man of steel he used to be. His expectations are unrealistic. He’s depressed. He smokes. He’s got a big belly. He’s got a chronic illness brewing. He’s got other things on his mind. He’s not getting enough zzz’s. He’s carrying baggage from a prior relationship. He’s in awe of your sexual confidence. He doesn't like all of your friends... Chances are your guy likes your self-involved, basket-case girlfriend about as much as you like his beer-chugging, womanizing buddy. He probably wonders why you hold on to the friendship, and he might even wish you’d end it. After all, he’s the one you vent to about her. But he’s not about to open Pandora’s box by telling you his true feelings. He doesn’t have to like all your friends; he just has to be civil to them for your sake, unless, of course, those friends are trying to sabotage your relationship. Next time you feel the urge to gripe about your friends to your guy, remember that he’s filing away everything you say – and he may not be able to forget and forgive as easily as you do. He can't read your mind... Like it or not, men and women communicate differently. One of the biggest differences? Our expectations. Just because you’ve been together forever doesn’t mean “I shouldn’t have to ask him what I want – he should just know!” You can’t expect him to know exactly what you’re thinking or feeling, and get angry or hurt when your needs and wants aren’t addressed. If you’re hinting to your hubby about how exhausted you are, don’t fully expect him to know that what you’re really saying is “I want you to put the to bed and do two loads of laundry for me tonight.” If he doesn’t pick up on your clues, it means he’s a man – not that he doesn’t love you. Instead of expecting him to read your mind and hoping he takes the initiative or gets the hint, be more assertive and ask pointedly for what you want. Your guy does ultimately want to please you. He just needs a push in the right direction. He takes it personally when you nag... Finding fault with people – especially our loved ones – is easy. So is getting into the habit of mercilessly criticizing your partner. While your guy may joke about your nagging to his friends, he’s probably not finding it funny on the inside. You might think you’re offering gentle reminders or that you’re being justifiably critical, but the more you nag, the more he’ll tune you out. Pointing the finger at someone else is easier than dealing with your own issues. But never being at fault can be tiresome to a husband who isn’t always to blame either. Stop this vicious cycle by treating your hubby as an equal. And remember, for the most part you knew the man you married when you got hitched; it’s unfair to now criticize him for being the man you chose to marry. Fun and Pleasure in Sunny Side Singapore. Come visit my blog and let's chat and explore. |
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9/17/2014 12:06 am |
I've been single a while now and also had relationships. So much of what is written in this blog is sooo true. "Treat her like a princess and she'll love you forever, take her for granted and she'll dump you like a brick! " Keep in mind..not all of ..'like a princess'..means spending a kings ransom on her, its a respect thing too. I'm one of those blokes who like his independence, but I too would like to eventually settle with 'the right person' rather than end my time alone!. Family is fine, but a partner can give that extra closeness a brother/sister/parent just can't. "City"... 
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blah blah blah...who cares. Men are just annoying...like you! We are better off without them. 
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blah blah blah...who cares. Men are just annoying...like you! We are better off without them. 😜😝😛 Fun and Pleasure in Sunny Side Singapore. Come visit my blog and let's chat and explore.
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I've been single a while now and also had relationships. So much of what is written in this blog is sooo true. "Treat her like a princess and she'll love you forever, take her for granted and she'll dump you like a brick! " Keep in mind..not all of ..'like a princess'..means spending a kings ransom on her, its a respect thing too. I'm one of those blokes who like his independence, but I too would like to eventually settle with 'the right person' rather than end my time alone!. Family is fine, but a partner can give that extra closeness a brother/sister/parent just can't. "City"... Fun and Pleasure in Sunny Side Singapore. Come visit my blog and let's chat and explore.
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Wow, what a great blog and so very true! Thanks for sharing! Have a great week!
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Wow, what a great blog and so very true! Thanks for sharing! Have a great week! And your pleasure too. 😜😝😛 Fun and Pleasure in Sunny Side Singapore. Come visit my blog and let's chat and explore.
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I can make some pointers. Fun and Pleasure in Sunny Side Singapore. Come visit my blog and let's chat and explore.
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