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Profile-Just a copy of mine for standards  

nymagicman 54M
20 posts
5/23/2014 12:10 pm
Profile-Just a copy of mine for standards

Most people here can't read a profile because they are standard members. I hope this isnt' breaking rules by posting mine in my blog but it seems like a good idea to me.

Tagline
May the dreams of your past be the reality of your future

I am not looking for sex or hookups or anything other then a chat, a laugh or a conversation.

I have a beautiful woman I met on this site over 6 years ago and and have no desire to be with anyone but her. I am honored to call her my lady.

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind. ~Dr. Seuss.....

I'm here to laugh, pass time, get to know people from all over the world, make some friends and I regularly chat in the Lobby. Stupid people are a pet peeve. Negative people and online trolls get ignored. I'm here for fun not to argue or be ugly. If you are one of those people I pity you but won't waste time on you. If you make me chuckle we might become friends.

I'm a 49 year old blue eyed Gemini. I enjoy talking, making out, sharing a bottle of wine, dinner by candlelight, the NY Yankees and traveling for fun. I also enjoy nature, yard sailing, cruising around exploring with the top down, walks on the beach and star gazing.

Variety is indeed the spice of life. When I visit a new city I don't make a schedule. I take the roads less traveled, explore, and enjoy the sights and the local food. I've visited many places around the US, Europe, Mexico, Canada and the Caribbean. There are still lots of places I'd like to go. The world is an amazing place. I suggest seeing as much of it as you can while you can.

Cooking and music are two of my passions. I appreciate both food and women with a bit of spice. I enjoy a lady who appreciates romance and the simpler things in life. I'm a city guy / big who loves life and enjoys good company.

I want a companion who is my best friend. I'm educated, employed and stable and want her to be the same.

I like pretty eyes, smiles, laughs, boobs and a squishable ass.

Cuddling, kissing, talking and touching are great ways to spend a day or weekend. I consider myself a romantic by nature. Perhaps I'm also a bit of a dreamer too. I've met a few great people online. D knocked my socks off. I am simply amazed by my very special friend and thank God for bringing her into my life.

I'm unmarried and would prefer finding someone who lives reasonably close to me. Quality time is best spent face to face. When two people connect with their minds and hearts distance matters little. The person I'm with lives far away but I see her at least once a month and talk multiple times a day. I think communication is very important in both relationships and friendships. I like to talk and also to listen. Conversation is a form of foreplay. I'm open and honest. I say what I mean. Many people play head games. I do not. I am part wise ass and part goof. I also have a serious side. My online friends only get to know a very small part of who I am and what I am about. My offline friends really know the real me.

I flirt, laugh a lot and make my partner crack up. Booty calls and one night stands are not my thing. I enjoy giving massages and lots of foreplay and intimacy and of course also having sex but I am very selective. Friends first.

I'm watching a new chapter of my life unfold and I am loving every minute of it.
My Ideal Person A down to earth, educated, decent, well adjusted. confident, independent and positive lady. She should have a great smile & laugh. Eyes are the mirror to the soul and pretty ones are a turn on. I do appreciate a nice bust and booty too. She should be honest, silly, loyal, direct and knows who she is and what she wants.

What she is not looking for is a sugar daddy. To those I say "get a job" or "find someone else".

I really like long conversations and really getting to know a woman. Some people say Polyamory Date is just a fling/hookup/sex site. Well for some that may be true. but that is not for me. I've been here for years and have had a variety of relationships. What I learned over time is that I am relationship minded and like stability and regularity and while sex is nice love is better.

Let's talk about anything and nothing. If you can't manage an intelligent conversation please don't waste our time.
InformationEdit
Sexual Orientation: Straight
Looking For: Women, Couples (2 women)
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Birthdate: June 11, 1969
Hometown: Yonkers, undefined, United States
Relocate?: No
Travel Location: Mesquite, United States
Marital Status: Attached
Swinger Type: Sex with your partners only
Height: 6 ft 0 in
Body Type: Slim/Petite
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: Some recreational Drug use
Education: BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation: Business (Management)
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Not applicable
Have : No
Want : Does not want to have
Male Endowment: Average / Thin
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English, Moaning, Laughing
Hair Color: Blonde
Hair Length: Medium
Glasses or Contacts: None
Eye Color: Blue
Astrology: Gemini (Compatibility)
Personality Type:
The General
Purity: 41% Pure
My KinksEdit
Talking Dirty Blindfolds Lingerie Massage Oral Sex


InformationEdit
Sexual Orientation : Straight
Looking For: Women
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Birthdate: June 11, 1969
Relocate? : No
Marital Status : Attached
Height : 5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm
Body Type : Slim/Petite
Smoking : I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking : I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs : I use some recreational Drugs
Education : BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation : Business (Management)
Race : Caucasian
Religion : Not applicable
Have : No
Want : No
Male Endowment : Average/Thin
Circumcised : Yes
Speaks : English, Moaning, Laughing
Hair Color : Blonde
Hair Length : Short
Eye Color : Blue
Astrology: Gemini (Compatibility)
Chinese Zodiac: Rooster (Compatibility)
Personality Type [+]:
The General
Purity :
60% Pure

Sexual ActivitiesAdd/edit these topics on your own profile
Have you ever had cybersex?
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
What kind of night life do you enjoy?
Hanging out with my love just about anywhere
How big of a role does sex play in your life?
I love sex, but if I don't have a partner, I just masturbate
What types of sex activities do you regularly enjoy?
Oral. Amazon, Butterfly, Launchpad, Spoonsex, Missionary, doggy-style. Spanking. Enjoy touching and candles and massage.
How much enjoyment do you get from receiving oral sex?
I enjoy giving and receiving oral. Squirting so excites me
What are your thoughts on anal sex?
My ass is exit only
What's the largest number of people you've shared a sexual encounter with in one session?
I've only had one-on-one sex
Sexual InterestsAdd/edit these topics on your own profile
What types of sexual activities turn you on?
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage
What types of sexual activities are OFF LIMITS to you?
Sadomasochism, Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Pain, Coprophilia/Scat
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, Orgasms
What types of new sexual experiences would you like to explore?
It's really important to me to get to know a person as a friend before I get intimate with them. I'd like to take my lover to new heights of Ecstasy and then cuddle afterwards, sleep and start over.
Besides the obvious, what areas of your body do you consider erogenous zones?
Lips, Neck, Chest, Belly/Abs, Butt, Inner thigh, Mind (Intelligence)
Have you ever had erotic pictures or video taken of you?
I've taken and been in a few naughty pictures.
Does size really matter to you?
Yes, but there are ways to work around it.
Do you enjoy talking dirty during sex?
I really get into it sometimes.
FantasiesAdd/edit these topics on your own profile
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!
A quiet encounter Few words spoken. Just glances smiles, kisses, touches and moans. I'm a kisser. A groper. I aim to please.
What role-playing scenes do you fantasize about?
Doctor/Nurse/Patient, /John, Stranger/Stranger, Boss/Secretary
What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?
Angelina Jolie. Her eyes and lips are incredible. A woman who is comfortable in her own skin is hotter than any celebrity can ever be. I found the woman of my dreams here.
Tell us about your favorite sexual encounter.
I had the most mind blowing weekends over the last year. Wow. Kissing, holding, touching, tasting, squirting, cuddling & massaging. I can't get enough of her. When 2 people are in synchronicity everything else follows.
Using the location you chose as the best fantasy setting for a sexual encounter, tell us (in detail) about that encounter. Fact or fantasy?
fantasy became reality
Sexual AccessoriesAdd/edit these topics on your own profile
What toys have you used in sex play?
Dildos/Vibrators, Whatever your partner likes/wants
How do you use your sex toys (with yourself and others)? How often?
Occasionally. If my partner talks about about what she wants & likes.... we both have a wonderful time.
What sex toys would you like to use and why?
I like fingers, vibrators and dildos with my partner. Feeling legs squirm and hearing loud moans excites me.
What bondage type gear do you enjoy using during sex play?
Silk scarves, Blindfolds
What food items have you used in sex play?
Whipped cream, Chocolate sauce, Ice, Pudding, Popsicles, Frosting, Honey, Champagne
What food items are you interested in using for sex play?
Whipped cream, Chocolate sauce, Ice, Ice cream, Strawberries/Berries, Popsicles, Champagne
How do you play with food during sex?
Licking and toying. Teasing and pleasing. MMM dessert!
What kind of porn movies do you enjoy the most?
Soft, Busty women
How do you enjoy your porn?
I rarely watch porn, I rather do the real thing!
Dreams & GoalsAdd/edit these topics on your own profile
Where would you like to live?
At the beach
What would be your dream house?
A cozy house with nearby wilderness and water
What's your dream job?
Whatever makes me happy and fulfilled. I have a long term good job and I get paid well. I make a difference. I've been working for the same company for 20 years.
What's your dream vacation/getaway?
Sweet hot dreamy woman and me at a beach cabana. Secluded. Distraction free.
If you could do anything what would it be?
I already found a new best friend and lover. Life is sweet!
How do you handle set backs to your dreams?
If at first you don't succeed try, try again. Dreams really can come true.
How important is it to share the same dreams as your partners?
Two people who are on the same page can be very special together. Being open and honest in a relationship bonds the partners.
Tell us about some dreams & goals you recently realized.
I just got a promotion & a raise. I don't share my dreams with everyone.
What is your ideal fantasy "date"?
A comfortable place or a hotel room. Holding, kissing, touching, tasting, pleasing and savoring one another and falling asleep with smiles on both our faces. I just had another incredible weekend with my very special cougar. I'm on cloud 9.
What kind of relationship(s) do you want?
Long term
Where do you see yourself in a few years?
I'm still a work in progress. But in love and in a monogamous nurturing relationship.
Physical StuffAdd/edit these topics on your own profile
What is your favorite clothing style(s) during the day?
Casual
What is your favorite clothing style(s) during the night?
Casual
How would you describe your body, style, and appearance?
slim. dirty blonde. blue eyes. average.
Describe your most attractive feature.
i've been told i have pretty eyes and a sweet ass
What body part do you first notice when you meet a person?
The eyes, face, smile, heiney and chest.
What do you consider the most attractive feature when looking for a sexual partner?
I have the perfect partner already. She's a goddess
How much does physical appearance matter to you in a partner?
No models please. Junk in the trunk a- ok. I'm not hung up at all on appearance. I just wanna chill with the coolness of similar people in this crazy world in which we all live with a person who rocks. Attraction is both physical and mental. When you share friendship and passion the sky is the limit. I'm happier then I have ever been.
What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?
Physical attraction, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Chemistry, Personality, Honesty, Intelligence
How important is physical attraction to you in a sexual relationship?
VERY. If you're not attracted to one another then what is the point of being with them? Sex is not just physical, it's also mental.
What do you wear for underwear?
Boxer-briefs
What do you think about tattoos?
They are nice as long as they are not on me
What do you think about piercings?
I like piercings, just not on me
Do you exercise? How?
Nope. Well I don't do formal exercise but sex is the best type of exercise. I enjoy a snack and then burn off those calories.
What is your sexual health status?
None of the above
What STDs are you comfortable with your partner having?
None of the above
Entertainment, Sports & HobbiesAdd/edit these topics on your own profile
What type of television shows do you enjoy watching?
Sit-coms, Dramas, Variety Shows/Stand-up/Comedy, Cartoons/Anime, Music
What kind of movies do you enjoy the most?
Drama, Comedy, Action, Cult Classics, Documentary, Foreign
What are your favorite movies?
I haven't really been a movie watcher as of late.
What kind of music do you enjoy listening to?
Rock 'n Roll, Classic Rock, Folk Rock, Pop/Top 40, R&B/Soul, , Punk, Heavy Metal, Country and Western, New Age, Hip Hop, Oldies, Anything I can feel or relate to
What does listening to music do for you?
It's inspiring, It's good background noise, It's how I express myself
What are your favorite musicians or bands?
Too many to list
What are 5 albums you can't live without?
I have way more then 5.
Tell us what you're reading now.
A questionaire. Nosy thing.
What types of activities interest you?
Surfing the internet, Playing music, Cooking, Photography
What do you like to do in your free time?
Travel and laugh and share and smile.
What types of sports and activities are you active in?
Is sex a sport?
What are your favorite sports/teams?
NY Yankees
Work & Living EnvironmentAdd/edit these topics on your own profile
What best describes the pace of your life?
Organized
How much time does your job take up in your life?
I work full-time
Describe what you do for a living.
Nope
How often are you online?
I'm on for an hour or two a day
What kind of place do you live in?
Apartment
What do you like about where you live?
Convenient. Good neighborhood. Safe. Everything I need for a fun filled weekend is within a two block radius.
What is your current dating situation?
I'm in a monogamous relationship, Very special friend
What types of relationships have you had in the past? Share your story with us!
I recently ended a couple of FWB relationships and am simplifying my life. I'm dating a wonderful woman from Texas i met from here. She is the BEST.
What is your family life like?
Holiday visits & phone calls. I have a brother with a family and a mom. I live alone. I travel once or twice a month.
How can Polyamory Date help you change your life?
Finding a best friend and lover who makes me smile daily. I did.
Outlook on LifeAdd/edit these topics on your own profile
What words best describe your personality?
Intelligent, Honest, Funny, Sarcastic, Realistic, Cautious, Insatiable, Loyal, Sensitive, Open-minded, Happy, Horny, Passionate, Laid back, Caring
What qualities do you look for in a mate?
Outgoing, Intelligent, Wet 'n Wild, Daring, Honest, Funny, Realistic, Insatiable, Loyal, Sensitive, Open-minded, Happy, Compassionate, Horny, Passionate, Laid back, Caring, Creative
What factors are most important to you when looking for someone?
Unknown, Age, Income, Looks, Religion, Personality, Sex skills, Openness
What animal best describes your personality?
Dog
Tell us what things in life are most important to you.
Love. Having someone to have fun & laugh with










nymagicman 54M
192 posts
5/24/2014 3:36 pm

Juke a lot of people say as standards that they cannot view a profile. If that ever happens to you post a copy of your profile in a blog then anyone can read the profile and see your pics. I suggested people do this a long time ago to improve their communications with people and let others know what they are about


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