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When Communication Moved A Step Forward  

StargateSG1_80 43M
10 posts
1/10/2017 8:31 am
When Communication Moved A Step Forward


17 months ago, I broke my long silence on a particular someone's blog after a long spell of being a silent reader. That single post revealed her being a Kopite, where we both have the same passion for a club that carries a significant history in English football. My heart fluttered and I was keen to let her know I too am a huge fan just like her, hence I made my very first comment on her blog. Her response came back with the ending of a YNWA... oh we know that the love for that club made us understand what it meant. Ever since then, I made myself known a little more over her blog by making several more constructive comments.

A few months later, she made a comment on my blog which is unexpected. A friendly comment over a trivial matter that I have encountered over in Polyamory Date. It was an indication that communication between us are moving a step forward. Despite she rarely hangs around the IM, any given opportunity if we happened to bump into each other there, we will struck a conversation. Silently, I wished for longer chats with her, but mostly... it was short but sweet.

She drinks. She bakes. She travels. She selfies. She holds a very artistic personality as she writes<b> poems </font></b>based on her feelings of the moment. She's an avid runner and not to mention... she accidentally hurts herself a lot too! It was all good. She suffers life set backs and failed relationships, but picks herself right back up and get herself right back into the game. A very colourful individual... sometimes, I don't have much to say in return but just to admire.

Our communication moved another step forward last week in our conversation over the IM. I was happy... very happy, to eventually reach another significant milestone. I asked myself if I deserve the amount of trust that she entrusted on me and thought it over for a few days. Came to the conclusion that, sometimes somethings have to start somewhere and we're now somewhere but plenty more to discover along the way. For me to find out, for her to know.

luv_heartz 50F
2746 posts
1/17/2017 6:08 am

Every little step counts. 😊


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