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How far will you travel for sex?  

realnicedik4u 62M  
61 posts
7/5/2019 5:19 am
How far will you travel for sex?

So as I speak with women here, obviously some are a distance away so the question sometimes comes up on how to meet. I tend to get around a bit so if I know I'm going to be in a certain area I'll try to work something out but what if someone is in a remote area/small city.

There seems to be a feeling that the man should make the effort to travel but I think that's a recipe for disaster. Personally I wouldn't do that, I have to have a reason to visit in case things don't work out. I have some women take it personally that I'm not coming "just to see them" but given how women have no problems rejecting men, why would any man put themselves in that position?

I think the best approach (assuming that one person isn't scheduled to visit, meeting family, business, etc.) is to simply work together to plan a trip, meet at that location and see how it goes. I know it sounds like a dream and I've never been completely successful doing that (I was supposed to meet someone in Florida and when I got there found she was arrested for shoplifting) but because I made plans (and we made them together) it wasn't a waste of time. That being said, I'd like to see a bit of willingness or understand from women if a long distance is involved if there's sincerity in meeting.

Just a "real" thought

realnicedik4u 62M  
79 posts
7/5/2019 6:49 am

 I do agree with you on traveling and understand why you feel that way. There's communication and sincerity involved and if either is lacking then disappointment is a certainty.

Only once (not on this site) did i travel to meet someone and whereas there was an attraction there were other issues that made me determine I would never travel strictly to meet someone. I don't have a problem speaking with or meeting anyone but not without having an understanding and comfort on both sides.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
7/5/2019 7:37 am

 There are 2 types of travel to consider. Long distance, like out of state, and local. But both depend on how big the states you are in or near.

A typical local drive time for me is about 1 hour (one way) to the nearest bigger towns. Since I go to those towns somewhat regularly that distance isn't a big deal.

Re long distance. IMO it seems to me that if the other person is not willing to meet half way then they likely aren't really interested.
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

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realnicedik4u replies on 7/5/2019 5:44 pm:
I didn't really specify long-distance traveling but your points are well taken. Locally I don't mind drive and will try to stay 45 mins or less. Beyond that then I have to have a reason like a pre-determined visit.

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